for women - how long does it take you to cum?

[Lust Engine]

Your last line of this post hits on a very important factor in sex and sexual responsiveness. You do have to be able to get away from everything when you have sex. If you have two kids knocking at the bedroom door, or you can't get your mind off of something, it will interfere. Sex is very much psychological.

I've always contended that the best sexual organ we all have is our minds.

 

[psyche]

I've always contended that the best sexual organ we all have is our minds.

Well, maybe the second best!!!

But of course you are right - the ability to fantasize, and to 'let go' without inhibitions is a wonderful sexual gift.

 

[Lust Engine]

Well, maybe the second best!!!

But of course you are right - the ability to fantasize, and to 'let go' without inhibitions is a wonderful sexual gift.

That's one "gift" to which I hope never to return or exchange. It fits me just fine & I like to display that "gift" as much as possible!

 

[spankableBelle]

Well, maybe the second best!!!

But of course you are right - the ability to fantasize, and to 'let go' without inhibitions is a wonderful sexual gift.

It is most definitely a gift and one to be treasured at that. It promotes trust and security and perhaps a deeper devotion to the happiness of one's partner. It takes courage to be so open about some fantasies, for some maybe a ton of courage to be so open about all fantasies. But it is precious when the doors of communication are open...

As for the actual topic of the thread, and being able to be so open about fantasies...well, doesn't take but moments for me to cream and cum...

 

[psyche]

trust

It is most definitely a gift and one to be treasured at that. It promotes trust and security and perhaps a deeper devotion to the happiness of one's partner. It takes courage to be so open about some fantasies, for some maybe a ton of courage to be so open about all fantasies. But it is precious when the doors of communication are open...

As for the actual topic of the thread, and being able to be so open about fantasies...well, doesn't take but moments for me to cream and cum...

You are right also about the trust issue. There is trust that your partner finds you attractive and sexy and that they are turned on by you. And that they care enough about you to listen to the messages that you are sending them - whether it's ouch!! or pleassssse don't stop!