Forum exhaustion

I disappear

ALL the time. I can't stomach the *MY BDSM is better than YOURS* that seems to be EVERYWHERE. I am sick of most people and their whiny little ways, their back stabbing bitch fests and their holier than thou attitudes.

When I first discovered LIT years ago, the BDSM forums were my home. I never posted anywhere else because the sense of community I received here was so damned awesome. The years rolled by and my interest waned a bit...but I still came here because I felt welcomed.

In the past 2 years I have seen many changes and, to be honest, they weren't very good ones. I no longer feel as if this is home but I come by for the people that make this place enjoyable (and the list gets smaller and smaller all the time).

So yeah, I get forum exhaustion but it is usually this board that gives it to me and that sucks.
 
There was nothing wrong with CastleRealm per se, as a source of information.

What was wrong was people using it as a MODEL, as if all BDSM relationships should work that way. It's great if that is what you and yours want, but it was never intended to be The One True Way that it turned into. And it wasn't the site owners that did it.

It was the army of little green three eyed clueless wonders* going "The CastleRealm is the Way! If you follow the CastleRealm Way you are among the Chosen..." that ruined a good resource by turning it into some kind of mythical path for perfect BDSM... :rolleyes:

*extra brownie points for anyone getting the reference*


charlie the unicorn.
 
This post made me sad. What can we do to make this place more fun and warm for our Luna Wolf?

How about some of these

http://www.fineleatherfurniture.com/throw_pillowsaa.jpg

and these

http://www.wickitgood.com/images/index_pic.jpg

oh and these

http://static.open.salon.com/files/cookies-and-milk1251219159.jpg

ALL the time. I can't stomach the *MY BDSM is better than YOURS* that seems to be EVERYWHERE. I am sick of most people and their whiny little ways, their back stabbing bitch fests and their holier than thou attitudes.

When I first discovered LIT years ago, the BDSM forums were my home. I never posted anywhere else because the sense of community I received here was so damned awesome. The years rolled by and my interest waned a bit...but I still came here because I felt welcomed.

In the past 2 years I have seen many changes and, to be honest, they weren't very good ones. I no longer feel as if this is home but I come by for the people that make this place enjoyable (and the list gets smaller and smaller all the time).

So yeah, I get forum exhaustion but it is usually this board that gives it to me and that sucks.
 
We were right and you were wrong! Nyah, nyah, nyah! :nana:

:p

Oh, I wasn't putting a vote in for Charlie the Unicorn, I just couldn't resist throwing in a "Chaaaarlie." Like from the video. y'know?












....Chaaaaaarlie
 
Oh, I wasn't putting a vote in for Charlie the Unicorn, I just couldn't resist throwing in a "Chaaaarlie." Like from the video. y'know?


....Chaaaaaarlie

......you can never come back! You can never come back!

What? We already knew I watch too much kid TV. :eek:
 
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