French Kiss after She has Swallowed..?

I swallow everytime I go down on my long term partner. It feels (to me) like a loving and accepting thing to do.
But he will not kiss me afterwards. Which is actually the thing I want most in that moment. He might kiss my cheek or my neck. But wont kiss me properly. It makes me feel rejected and a bit sad.

I have talked to him about it a number of times over the years but he refuses. The other day when it came up he told me no guy would ever kiss someone after they had blown them... not sure where he made that up from (pretty certain I have given more blow jobs to more men than he has).

Just made me feel like I was in the wrong for wanting him to kiss me :( and Im sure Im not!

Rant over!!
Ditto to whom ever said dump his lame ass!

Personally I love sharing cum kisses and believe that it increases the intimacy of the act.
 
I have asked my wife to kiss me after but she says no! I asked her if i could eat a creampie from her and she said gross.
 
I swallow everytime I go down on my long term partner. It feels (to me) like a loving and accepting thing to do.
But he will not kiss me afterwards. Which is actually the thing I want most in that moment. He might kiss my cheek or my neck. But wont kiss me properly. It makes me feel rejected and a bit sad.

I have talked to him about it a number of times over the years but he refuses. The other day when it came up he told me no guy would ever kiss someone after they had blown them... not sure where he made that up from (pretty certain I have given more blow jobs to more men than he has).

Just made me feel like I was in the wrong for wanting him to kiss me :( and Im sure Im not!

Rant over!!

You’re not in the wrong for wanting him to kiss you after. I was in your partners shoes for a while. My wife always wanted me to kiss her after she swallowed and I just couldn’t do it. I had no issues kissing her after she had sucked my cock but once I had cum in her mouth it was just nope. Pretty sure that only made it worse since I was willing to do one and not the other. She would tell me how much it turns her on to think about it And want it to happen and that’s pretty much what helped me get past whatever issues I had with the act itself. It is pretty selfish of us to want our partner to do certain sexual acts that they might not be comfortable with at first yet they do it anyway to please us and we can’t do the same in return. After seeing her reaction the first time I grabbed her head and pulled her to me and giving her a deep kiss after she just swallowed, well never had any issues after that:D. Now there are some other things she mentioned but one step at a time lol.
 
My girlfriend and I always share our cum with each other and back again. Makes us both very hot to do that. I love the taste of mine and she loves the taste of hers.
 
This happened in my late teens and I was very inexperienced. Me and gf which became my wife went away to a family owned cabin in the mountains. Water was off due to winter . Blah blah she sucked me off and asked if I wanted her to brush her teeth before we kissed. I didn’t know what to say and she brushed her teeth and rinsed with Mountain Dew since we were out of water 🤦*♂️
 
I swallow everytime I go down on my long term partner. It feels (to me) like a loving and accepting thing to do.
But he will not kiss me afterwards. Which is actually the thing I want most in that moment. He might kiss my cheek or my neck. But wont kiss me properly. It makes me feel rejected and a bit sad.

I have talked to him about it a number of times over the years but he refuses. The other day when it came up he told me no guy would ever kiss someone after they had blown them... not sure where he made that up from (pretty certain I have given more blow jobs to more men than he has).

Just made me feel like I was in the wrong for wanting him to kiss me :( and Im sure Im not!

Rant over!!

Geeze. You aren't talking about snowballing the guy, just some tender kissing that just might have some lingering taste of his cum. Even if he didn't get off on it, what's the big deal? It ain't battery acid and it's HIS. Just a small gesture to please his partner and he can't bring himself to do it.

Sorry to bash your partner but he's a selfish lover at best and an overall loser at worst. You can do better.
 
I swallow everytime I go down on my long term partner. It feels (to me) like a loving and accepting thing to do.
But he will not kiss me afterwards. Which is actually the thing I want most in that moment. He might kiss my cheek or my neck. But wont kiss me properly. It makes me feel rejected and a bit sad.

I have talked to him about it a number of times over the years but he refuses. The other day when it came up he told me no guy would ever kiss someone after they had blown them... not sure where he made that up from (pretty certain I have given more blow jobs to more men than he has).

Just made me feel like I was in the wrong for wanting him to kiss me :( and Im sure Im not!

Rant over!!

I don’t share his aversion at all! I find it very sexy and intimate when she kisses me after sucking my cock. I can completely relate to why you would want to kiss him, but everyone has their comfort zone and turn offs. He sounds like he’s put up a hard limit, so you either need to come to terms with it or find another guy who is more open to it. You might try kissing him (not your current partner) after sucking his cock but before he has cum. I think a lot of our boundaries adjust depending on how horny we are, and once a guy has cum that arousal level can drop very fast. If that’s a new thing for him it might be a lot easier to get him feeling ok with it.
 
I would love this...

I often ask my wife to stop halfway through a blowjob and come up to give me a "Sticky kiss". She will do this, but I can sense that she is not really into it, despite how passionate I am feeling at that moment. It took years of requests/encouragement before she would accept my cum in her mouth and even now, after 20 years of marriage she will only swallow my load every couple of months or so (She sucks my cock 2 or 3 times a week, for which I am very grateful!)

I am not into snowballing, my kink being having my woman swallow my sperm, every drop! I am, however, very keen to give her a deep kiss and cuddle, after this, both to show her my appreciation for her efforts and, well its just so fucking hot at the time!

The problem is that, after I have cum, in her mouth, on her beautiful face or hot tits, she spends a long time wiping off with a towel, rinsing her mouth out with wine and eating a fucking chocolate to take the taste away! Once she has completed this ritual clean up, the moment has passed and any kissing between us is brief, because it is now my turn to head south and take care of her needs (Which I am always super eager to do! Don't need any prompting there.)

My wife is naturally shy, when it comes to sex. Anything kinky, or edgy is always suggested by me. I wish she could open herself up more, but after all the time we have spent with each other, I now accept that this is just the way she is and nothing will change. It doesn't change the way I feel, I love the very bones of her, and can't imagine life without her. Would I like her to swallow my sperm every time she sucked me off, then come up for a passionate french kiss? Absolutely! But I am happy for what we have now. Even getting to this stage was a long process. After about ten years together, I realised that gentle hints and suggestions weren't getting through and had to have a talk with her, telling her that I really needed her to attempt to deep throat my cock and swallow my cum.

At first she resisted these requests. She wouldn't, couldn't, etc. etc. She even offered me a free pass one night, in a tearful exchange, saying that I could go elsewhere to find these treats, as long as everything else was working between us. I told her that my longing for this experience was to have it with her, not anyone else. Of course, I felt like shit, having reduced my beloved to tears and buried my desires, deep inside, but for a time, it was always the elephant in the room, between us.

I was astonished when she actually tried to do these things for me, slowly, over a period of months. The feelings when she finally took my cock into her throat and then swallowed my sperm for the first time were incredible! At the same time, it wasn't how I wanted or imagined it would be. I had originally wanted my wife to be eager to swallow my cum, to be on her knees in front of me while I painted her tongue with my sperm, hoping she would show it to me for a few seconds, wiggling her tongue around before gulping it down (I know, porn movies have got every guys head's wasted these days!). Instead, every time she swallows, my wife screws her face up and gives a little grimace, before reaching for the wine glass to wash the taste away. I now find this so much hotter than my previous desires, because I know that this is a big thing she is doing for me. She will never enjoy swallowing my cum, she is pushing herself to the edge of her comfort zone to please me and I will always love her, and appreciate her for giving me this intimate pleasure.
 
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