from dates to sex

[thrity]

maybe we were a little old fashion, my wife and had our first sex life one year after we hung out for the first time.
too long?
i also think it was too long, my wife was a kind of traditional Chinese woman, she was not interested in sex before she actually did it.

how about yours? my friends.

 

[Minnions]

My Wife and I went much faster. We were both virgins she had more experience than I did but that wastn much at all. In fact I hadnt dated anyone until her. We had sex about two months after starting to go out and it wasnt really I thught out thing. We would get each other off and that sort of thing then it just kind of happened one night. I for one am glad it did we have been going at it now hot and heavy for nearly 8 years.

 

[JRaven]

You were fast!

My husband and I dated for about two years until we were married. THEN we had sex. Religious issues on my part, he was hot to trot. 15 years later, I re-thought the whole thing. Been having a lot of fun since!
Jenny

 

[thrity]

i'm not fast

My husband and I dated for about two years until we were married. THEN we had sex. Religious issues on my part, he was hot to trot. 15 years later, I re-thought the whole thing. Been having a lot of fun since!
Jenny

wow! two years!
how about your then boyfriend? did he ever beg you to have sex with him before married? how could you manage to control yourself?

 

[MelissaDyan]

My husband and I met on a Friday night, had our first date the next night and had sex that same night.

Not surprisingly, eight years later, sex is still a very important part of our life together.

 

[thrity]

good for you

My husband and I met on a Friday night, had our first date the next night and had sex that same night.

Not surprisingly, eight years later, sex is still a very important part of our life together.

you can say that again, sex is very important.

i believe my wife would do it with sooner if she had the chance to be back.

 

[ReadyOne]

The best relationships I had included sex from almost the begining, 1st or 2nd date.

The relationships where I've waited include2 failed marriages.

Sex is important and can't wait.

 

[kinkybrat]

1rst date, been together now for 8 yrs

 

[curiousjen]

Since O was a virgin when he met me, we took things slow. |It was maybe six months before we finally slept together, but we had a fun time doing everything but sex and felt no need to rush into things. He wanted to be sure we were doing the right thing.

 

[SweetErika]

The first night we spent together, he wouldn't touch me sexually because I had been drinking and he wanted to make sure I gave full consent. That made me want him even more. We had sober sex a few dates later, and we've thoroughly enjoyed eachother for the past six years.

 

[pw27]

We had sex on the 3rd or 4th date then married about 9mos later. Sex is an important part of our relationship for both of us. He didn't push me into sex, left it up to me and I couldn't wait.

 

[Lust Engine]

The first night we spent together, he wouldn't touch me sexually because I had been drinking and he wanted to make sure I gave full consent. That made me want him even more. We had sober sex a few dates later, and we've thoroughly enjoyed eachother for the past six years.

Oooo...good call on his part about NOT taking advantage of you while you were a little tipsy. See? Some guys can still be somewhat chivalrous!

 

[SweetErika]

Oooo...good call on his part about NOT taking advantage of you while you were a little tipsy. See? Some guys can still be somewhat chivalrous!

Oh yes they can LE! I remember making advances after a few cocktails, and he'd simply hand me a multivitamin and a glass of water, tuck me in, and snuggle me until I slept. That was the scenario most of the time for a couple of years! I'm just praying he's not an endangered species! Melts my to think about what a good guy he was and is!

Added: Neither of us think what he did was "chivalrous"...it's simply the right thing to do in that situation (morally and legally). Just don't want any idiots who might read this to think NOT taking advantage of a person is above and beyond the call of duty.

 

[gotthemunchies]

I had sex with my wife about 20 minutes after first meeting her at a mutual friend's party. We fucked in their bathroom...everybody knew about it too - she wasn't very quiet.

Not very romantic, but sure was hot.

We've been married over 12 years now. Got a kid and a house and everything, and our friends *still* make fun of us. They're all jealous, those bastards.

(she's quieter now that our kid is around and about)

 

[gotthemunchies]

One more thing - no alcohol was involved....so I knew right then that this was the person for me!

 

[English Lady]

I met my husband online,we didn't indulge in cyber sex. we met about a month after first chatting and we heavy petted hours after meeting (I was a niave virgin who'd had no seual contact with any guy before) and then he took my virginity a few weeks later. we've fucked like rabbits ever since-we both have very high sex drives. I think sex is an integral part of any relationship

 

[JerseyChick]

My husband and I started dating when I was 15, he was 16. We got married 6 years later and were both virgins on our wedding night We have not stopped since

We have been married 14 1/2 years

 

[H0wl]

Three weeks?

We ended up on the couch making out on what I guess you would call our second date, about two weeks after we first met. She was pretty ready to go, and I wanted to slow down a bit.

She did end up staying the night and we snuggled up to each other and stayed that way all night.

Two nights later we were doing pretty heavy petting and restraining ourselves from going further.

She had been planning to move and there wasn't time to change plans really so she left at the end of the week and two weeks later I went up to visit her, and oh...it was glorious.

Well worth waiting since we were both aching for it at that point.