Fucked versus Used

[subbyclarajane]

I enjoy sex of most flavors and definitely want to be loved, cherished, and pampered. That said, what really blows me away is when I'm being used.

Used versus fucked: My definition is, the man (or men - yeah I love that also!!!) is using my body for his/their pleasure and amusement with no thought of my own enjoyment or even compliance. To him/them I am just an object, a thing to satisfy need to copulate. That to me is used.

Anyone else prefer used to fucked?

Used. Used is the preference. It makes me feel weirdly attractive?

 

[Bisexguy70]

Ive certainly been “used” a few times. Ive dressed up slutty and my mouth treated like a pussy. Im so turned on by just being some object or piece of meat for another mans gratification.

 

[LeaHaven]

Fucked vs used: Either one would be fine with me

Maybe. Some day

 

[subdudeme13]

There was the time I was on my stomach tied spread eagle to the bed post. It was hard to move at all and she used the whip I had bought her on me. When she got arroused from whipping me she fucked me with a strapon. I felt like I had been used, abused and sent to heaven. God I miss her!

 

[Older_Pervert]

Fucked vs used: Either one would be fine with me

Maybe. Some day

Used is better at a visceral level for dirty girls who want a dominant man to take what he wants ……..

 

[LeaHaven]

Used is better at a visceral level for dirty girls who want a dominant man to take what he wants ……..

maybe some day I will find out

 

[Older_Pervert]

maybe some day I will find out

You clearly want to, so I’m sure you will

 

[MyBee]

For me, it's more 'doing it with me' versus 'doing it to me'.

In both situations there can still be a lot of mutual care, and we can all get off.
But in doing it with me, we both control the narrative. In doing it to me, you're fully in control.

And giving you control is not so much about being submissive for me. It's more about you living out your deepest desires at that moment, which is something that turrns me on so much...

 

[stargame]

I have been mostly used. However, I love being made love to by a romantic man or woman. I admit I'd melt into their arms.

 

[EoghanDubhara]

I fantasize about being used by a man or men constantly, but not in a brutal or violent way. I just naturally submit to dominant men and love to have my pussy exposed and used as a toy, entertainment, or for pleasure. Even by a gynecologist or doctor, or other male authority figures.

 

[chapter6plan]

I fantasize about being used by a man or men constantly, but not in a brutal or violent way. I just naturally submit to dominant men and love to have my pussy exposed and used as a toy, entertainment, or for pleasure. Even by a gynecologist or doctor, or other male authority figures.

Same. My boi-pussy craves attention.

 

[Escierto]

I fantasize about being used by a man or men constantly, but not in a brutal or violent way. I just naturally submit to dominant men and love to have my pussy exposed and used as a toy, entertainment, or for pleasure. Even by a gynecologist or doctor, or other male authority figures.

True. My girlfriend is dominant but never brutal or violent.

 

[Kenziexoxo]

I enjoy sex of most flavors and definitely want to be loved, cherished, and pampered. That said, what really blows me away is when I'm being used.

Used versus fucked: My definition is, the man (or men - yeah I love that also!!!) is using my body for his/their pleasure and amusement with no thought of my own enjoyment or even compliance. To him/them I am just an object, a thing to satisfy need to copulate. That to me is used.

Anyone else prefer used to fucked?

I know exactly what you are getting at here. I go wild when a man fucks me animalistically for his own selfish pleasure and does what he wants. For example, if a man wants to try and pleasure me by eating me out, its such a turn off for me. Or when a guy asks me what I like or if he's doing it right. I don't find it manly or attractive at all.

 

[staciliv]

I know exactly what you are getting at here. I go wild when a man fucks me animalistically for his own selfish pleasure and does what he wants. For example, if a man wants to try and pleasure me by eating me out, its such a turn off for me. Or when a guy asks me what I like or if he's doing it right. I don't find it manly or attractive at all.

Yes, I prefer a man who sees what he wants and takes it rather than one who politely asks permission.

 

[Boat1]

Used Vs. Fucked?

How about the perfect blend of both....
I love it when my Wife/Domme uses the fuck out of me!

 

[Escierto]

I go wild when a man fucks me animalistically for his own selfish pleasure and does what he wants.

YES. Exactly what my trans girl does when she fucks me and I love it!

 

[SPARTAN047]

I like being checked on whether they're hurting me because I have neck and pain sensitivity issues, but once I say it's okay, I want my Domme trans girl to fuck the shite out of me, use me and cover me in cum.

Still checking on me even later is sweet and I'd let them use me even more often, and in any way they want, but no one has to check up on me every ten seconds.

 

[skadibound4u]

I have always been used either by single or multiple partners. Wouldn't have it any other way

 

[P0peye]

I enjoy sex of most flavors and definitely want to be loved, cherished, and pampered. That said, what really blows me away is when I'm being used.

Used versus fucked: My definition is, the man (or men - yeah I love that also!!!) is using my body for his/their pleasure and amusement with no thought of my own enjoyment or even compliance. To him/them I am just an object, a thing to satisfy need to copulate. That to me is used.

Anyone else prefer used to fucked?

I LOVE feeling "used" Ever since, as a teenager, I became my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker, the most thrilling sexual experiences I've ever had took place while I was being mercilessly "Throat fucked" by him while I was on my knees before him. He would hold my head in a death grip and brutally force the entire length of his HUGE cock as far down my throat as it could possibly reach, then roughly but impersonally fuck my throat without ever actually removing the head of his cock from my throat! It felt WONDERFUL!!!! But with his thick cock blocking my airway, it was impossible for me to breathe, so I would have to just tolerate this torture, hoping that he would eventually release me in order to allow me to obtain oxygen! But during the moments until he did, I experienced an overpoweringly exhilarating and exciting sense of helplessness and vulnerability that often caused me to ejaculate spontaneously into my clothing.
As a result, I've had a lifelong craving for subjugation and degradation. Nothing turns me on more than having my throat being impersonally "used" and objectified as a flesh and blood cock sleeve to facilitate other men's orgasms.

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

There is something very manly to me about when a guy takes me and uses me for his own pleasure. It drives me crazy.

Wife gets really hot when we’re cuddled in bed and I straddle her chest, push my cock in her mouth and tell her to work me.

Also when I’m on top of her for 69 I’ll wedge her legs, and pussy, fully open with my elbows. She loves this and I know she’s fully surrendered to getting used when she puts her arms above her head—to be pinned by my legs—so I can throat fuck her at will as I eat her or just do what I want.

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

Occasionally my GF says she wants what she calls an FR day. FR days are where she tells me that I can do what ever I want to/with her and it’s 100% zero rules anything I want goes. So that’s what we do. She always wants them filmed and we watch them back. FR - Free Rein days. I’ve never known this in any of my previous relationships and it’s a great experience having the autonomy to do what ever I want to do with her. So far we’ve been the only ones in the room but as she keeps telling me that it’s zero rules then I think I’ll surprise her one day with some extra guests . She’s told me that she thought I’d have done that on the last one so she kinda figured out what I’m planning. Oh and the FR thing - totally her idea. Not mine.

Hoping for an update on your latest FR session. Especially if there were other guests.

 

[chapter6plan]

The closest I ever come to using someone is when I fuck my wife's ass. She won't cum from anal fucking, so I get to fuck her entirely for my pleasure and satisfaction. I'm not rough and don't try to hurt her or make her uncomfortable, but I truly love the opportunity to fuck without trying to make her cum. Those are great orgasms for me and she knows how much I enjoy it.

 

[Xenaqueen]

First I want to be used, then I want to be fucked! There is no feeling better than falling into submission. To be my Daddy's fucktoy.

 

[DirtyGranpa66]

Plenty on here that could help you out with that Xena

 

[Hipshot1554]

Back to OP... I like both and it just has a place and time when the situation is right. My (time with my) ex taught me a lot sexually. He was perverted. He insisted on teaching me that I can have sex for fun...

I didn't have the terms for how I felt but this forum helps. I learned to have sex for my pleasure, but I also loved giving men pleasure... I loved getting used.

For me, it's mental. Sometimes I just want to get off and sometimes, I want the guy(s) to just want me and to want to use me to get their pleasure.

This sounds completely normal to me.