Fucked versus Used

[Samantha47]

I enjoy sex of most flavors and definitely want to be loved, cherished, and pampered. That said, what really blows me away is when I'm being used.

Used versus fucked: My definition is, the man (or men - yeah I love that also!!!) is using my body for his/their pleasure and amusement with no thought of my own enjoyment or even compliance. To him/them I am just an object, a thing to satisfy need to copulate. That to me is used.

Anyone else prefer used to fucked?

Me

 

[BillyWalrus]

Me

Me too, honey. By my girlfriend and her big one.

 

[cascadiabound]

Fucked is when it's for the sexual pleasure of both (or all) partners whereas used is just for me. My lady, for example, loves sex and likes getting fucked. But there are times when she sees I'm having either a really bad day or a really great day and she lets me relieve myself with her body. I'm using her and getting off with her mouth or her pussy. She's not going to cum from it but she loves it and she'll relive those moments later to pleasure herself. Using her is me taking control, doing what I want, exploding in her, and letting her clean up so I can go about my day. I get to be selfish.

I don't think "used" necessarily is equivalent to the "user" being 100% selfish. Used is when he takes complete control because he wants and needs it, maybe with shades of animalistic /apparent out of control vibe, but it is more about taking what he wants from her. That might mean forced orgasms, or prolonged edging or ruined orgams. It might mean exposure and humiliation as part of being used - which might very well feed into her needs and kinks.

I think it is also possible to have a sex session that is all on the "used" side of the divide, but when it is all over, aftercare and sweetness might still occur/ might even be more necessary than when "fucked".
In the aftermath of a semi violent or 'over the top I am going to use every bit of you and you won't/ can't stop me' kind of sex, there can be great intimacy and layers of additional control exerted in the review of what just happened... as he says what he most liked/ loved about using her and he demands she tell him what it felt like to her often in explicit detail which will give him more knowledge about how to twist her up and use her even more fully next time.

 

[sexybeast03]

Wife gets really hot when we’re cuddled in bed and I straddle her chest, push my cock in her mouth and tell her to work me.

Also when I’m on top of her for 69 I’ll wedge her legs, and pussy, fully open with my elbows. She loves this and I know she’s fully surrendered to getting used when she puts her arms above her head—to be pinned by my legs—so I can throat fuck her at will as I eat her or just do what I want.

amazing!

 

[Mollie06]

I prefer used over fucked

 

[Crownvic]

I prefer used over fucked

Definitely Used.

 

[Samantha47]

Me too, honey. By my girlfriend and her big one.

Awesome

 

[starlightvirgin]

I prefer used over fucked

Same

 

[eroticspank]

Used versus fucked: My definition is, the man (or men - yeah I love that also!!!) is using my body for his/their pleasure and amusement with no thought of my own enjoyment or even compliance. To him/them I am just an object, a thing to satisfy need to copulate. That to me is used.

Anyone else prefer used to fucked?

As a man, I found it surprising and even shocking when I found myself being "used" by a woman. It was all about her pleasure and satisfaction, and no thought of mine, as mentioned above. I had done it many times to women, but it was different to be on the receiving end. I had several orgasms, but even those were under her control for her pleasure. I felt humiliated at first. Then I realized, I liked it a lot.
ES

 

[VirginSlutt]

I enjoy sex of most flavors and definitely want to be loved, cherished, and pampered. That said, what really blows me away is when I'm being used.

Used versus fucked: My definition is, the man (or men - yeah I love that also!!!) is using my body for his/their pleasure and amusement with no thought of my own enjoyment or even compliance. To him/them I am just an object, a thing to satisfy need to copulate. That to me is used.

Anyone else prefer used to fucked?

I would prefer being used

 

[Austbiman]

I have a very very deep desire to be used by a dominant with no regard for my pleasure at all

 

[Guardianweekender]

It’s only fantasy as she’s timid and vanilla, but I would love to watch my wife get used, with no regard for her pleasure.

My job is to love her and make love to her. I fantasise a lot about a stranger just fucking her, hard.

 

[Easybi]

Ive a frien, we've both fucked and messed about but he's become so much more dominant over the past 3/4 weeks and I've become his toy to use.
We used to be best mates 6/7 weeks ago

 

[Dreamer110]

Ive a frien, we've both fucked and messed about but he's become so much more dominant over the past 3/4 weeks and I've become his toy to use.
We used to be best mates 6/7 weeks ago

Guess you know your place now huh?

 

[Easybi]

Guess you know your place now huh?

Yes sir. Everything has changed so quickly...but I love it x

 

[Dreamer110]

Yes sir. Everything has changed so quickly...but I love it x

That's a bonus.

 

[Ballsy8]

I would prefer being used

I'd prefer to use you. However, I'd want an audience.

 

[KatieKulka32]

Used sounds dirty but in a bad way.

Fucked sounds dirty but in a good way.

 

[Samantha47]

I'd prefer to use you. However, I'd want an audience.

Sounds good

 

[sexybeast03]

I prefer that my femdom fucks me rather that uses me. Sounds weak compared to a good hard fucking.

 

[VirginSlutt]

I'd prefer to use you. However, I'd want an audience.

That's upto u
Wanna have audience or not
Objects don't get to complain

 

[Ballsy8]

That's upto u
Wanna have audience or not
Objects don't get to complain

I like your attitude! SO, fucked down and dirty with spectators!

 

[BarbieDoll1982]

I enjoy sex of most flavors and definitely want to be loved, cherished, and pampered. That said, what really blows me away is when I'm being used.

Used versus fucked: My definition is, the man (or men - yeah I love that also!!!) is using my body for his/their pleasure and amusement with no thought of my own enjoyment or even compliance. To him/them I am just an object, a thing to satisfy need to copulate. That to me is used.

Anyone else prefer used to fucked?

Yes please

 

[Blondie420]

Both are delightful! But there’s something primal about being used

 

[Goldenh123456789]

Being used feels so good.