G-spot orgasm when you're solo?

[Guest]

I've loved reading all of the posts about g spot orgasms, but unfortunately, I'm a solo gal, right now. Can some of you give direction on best way to achieve this when you're a one woman show? What are the best toys, positions, etc. to help with this?

 

[Lithius]

contact me through a messenger and I'll share some tips with you!

 

[EJFan]

there are a whole host of toys that are curved to more easily reach the g-spot. you can find plenty at just about any adult store or online shop.

if you don't want to go the toy route, try reading the "try this and report back" thread. some of the best instructions i've ever read are in there.

 

[Mr.G]

I don't think there is any problem FINDING your GSpot if you're alone in fact I recommend it. Like masturbating a woman should learn her own body, her body's reactions, hot spots, (too)sensitive spots BEFORE she ever gets involved with a man umm partner (trying to be PC in here). That way she can advise the partner of those spots and get past the "OK I'm doing this and she's NOT reacting - what now? " If she can say "not there - ....here .... ahhhh!" then she doesn't get frustrated and he won't get bummed because what he did for his last g/f just ain't working here.

It would be nice if once you learned one thing it would work on everybody but that isn't the case and that's what makes the research all the more fun!

The PROBLEM with the GSpot and stimulating it repeatedly is that when you're solo you simply run outta steam. You can cum several times but eventually you are just so fragged, out of breath and exhausted from cumming that you have to stop. With a partner you don't have to worry. The partner can keep going long after you would have been unable to continue just from sheer exhaustion. That isn't to say you can find stimulate your G and have a friggin good time by yourself. The duration just may be a lot shorter without somebody else providing most of the energy and "elbow grease"
Toys, especially the curved ones that are designed to go after that elusive G are good and you can be in any position for those. On your back is probably the most comfortable when using a dildo but ....

I have seen umm one "research" subject stim her GSpot (solo while I watched and tried not to jump in- I lost the bet) in the same position that I recommend ... butt up / face down over some pillows. That way you simply reach back, place your wrist firmly between your cheeks and insert that thumb. That way you have the push down power that is inherent in that position with joints and musculature working with you instead of against. In that position you can thrust in and out pushing the ball of your thumb towards the bed or slide it back and forth horizontally sort of from hip bone to hip bone. With your thumb (and NOT some hunk of Made in China silicone) you DO have the advantage of being able to FEEL the texture of the front wall of the vagina - how it changes as you become more stimulated. It goes smooth. It goes bumpy and sticks up like a nasty bruise. Sometimes it goes ripply like beach sand. You're not going to be aware at all of the texture changes with a toy. With your thumb you'll be acutely aware of the changes and it will add to the turn on. Do it in front of a mirror so you see how incredibly sexy you look in that position. Imagine a partner back there, chewing on your bum, smacking it - hard - right in the middle of a HUGE O while his thumb is driving you outta your mind. Imagine how utterly open and vulnerable you are to a partner in that position and how you love your partner to be there and see /feel/ hear /taste how turned on you are from what they are doing. Imagine it happening over and over and over - every time you're with them.

The research MUST continue. Enjoy and plse - keep those posts a'cumin. Spread the word too. You'd be amazed at the type of people (ages etc) who have found this technique WORKS!!

 

[Voodoo Child]

jeez MR G, you sure know alot about the G spot!! you started the "try this and report back" thread which is probably one of the most informative on the site and your just after writin an essay for dixie50..

where the heck did you learn all this? u an OB Gyn or sumthin?

 

[Mr.G]

Nope.

"" u an OB Gyn or sumthin? ""

Nope. If I was I'd probably be quoting the latest official research that states, (based on checking cadavers, etc.) without a doubt, the G Spot does NOT exist.

I discovered it does and am just trying to spread the word. There are many posts on my "Try This" thread that state that they found their GSpots YEARS ago. Many people KNOW about it, have read about it and have even found it and triggered AN orgasm. What so many don't realize is that if the right techniques are used you can keep those orgasms happening until the next full moon. That's a pretty spectacular "trick" for couples if they weren't even aware that she could cum like that. Personally there isn't a feeling in the world that compares to making the woman you love cum and cum and cum and - maybe winning a $100 million SuperBall or something but realistically - NOTHING compares to that for me. It is an AMZING feeling to be in charge of her orgasms too. That's a bit of a power trip too and is discussed early in the thread but if it just comes down (pun) to the JOY of turning your woman on like this it beats ALL!!!

The problem with the true medical researchers is they check neural concentrations and root systems on cadavers or the get some volunteer and they prod her for a sec, she sez, "I gotta pee." and they stop and write a Medical paper saying, "Nope. We looked and looked and looked and there's nothing there." People read that nonsense and give up trying. Unless they kinda stumble on it like I did the Gspot remains an unknown in the female anatomy which is a loss of global proportions - ask any couple who has discovered how WELL this technique works and ask if they'd ever give it up now that they know. Ask the people with erectile problems or severe arthritis who pretty much gave up sex and have discovered this technique and feel like teenageers again.

So cool!! Spread the word and thanks for the posts and the thank yous. The best way to thank me tho is to tell people about the post. What I do sometimes is just print out the URL about 20 times on a sheet of paper, cut it into individual slips and then have them in my wallet. I don't ask afterwards and I don't do this to strangers (duh!) just people I know or am fairly close with. I have got some GREAT looks a few days later but I never pry. I've also got some, "Oooo. We've been married 27 years. If I did that to her now she'd think I was having an affair and had learned it with another woman. I'd NEVER try something new like that with her now!"

Pity. Think what they're missing.

 

[NewEnglandBabe]

Toys....I suppose. I think it would be much better to have the correct partner help you. Not only would I have more orgasms but what a thrill it would be to share it all with the one your intimate with.

 

[Cakegirl]

Mr G... I- I- I-...

I think I love you!!!

 

[daisy-blue]

thanks for the information

 

[Mr.G]

STERN LOOK & WAGGING FINGER

One other thing ....at the start of this thread Lithius sez "PM me and I'll share some tips."

THAT, my friend is not the spirit of this room or the TRY THIS thread. The whole idea is to share info and out in the open so we all can learn. ALL of us and that includes me in the learning process.

I could have kept my "secret" and with the exception of the few people who knew about this technique before, there would be 116,000 couples (plus all the copies that people have printed and given to friends) who wouldn't be the wiser. That would be SAD!

Please, if you have tips, advice, ideas, variations, different techniques for the same result - COME BACK AND SHARE.