GAY GUYS: Anal Poll From Straight Guy

[TheMysticMan]

You would never be defeated by the " you wouldn't let me do THAT TO YOU" story again!

HAhaha genius!

Thanks again for all the replies people. Even though it was 2 years ago and half of you have probably left. It was the perfect place to clarify the thoughts I'd been dwelling on.

Oh and no, I havn't tried it. Still really not keen, but I find the nature of different orgasms fascinating.

Happy cumming!

 

[woman_inside]

dunno -- it seems like a pretty big step.
I'm also a little afraid of where things could go if he makes me feel as good as I suspect it would. that's where it could get tricky.

Yes, it's a pretty big step on the one hand - on the other, not so much: a straight man will simply not enjoy it and confirm his straightness, otherwise he'll connect to his gay or bi side that was already there, not conjured up out of nowhere the moment a cock goes in.

I don't have a phobia about a real cock (heck if anything I readily admit my desire to experience a nice-sized beauty inside me). but you make it sound so clinical. they are the organs of other human beings. for me, I'm almost certain the physical payoff would be absolutely mind-blowing; of course, that's why it's so tantalizing a prospect. but I can't imagine sex devoid of at least some emotional component. for me, sex with another man would have to involve a level of trust that frightens me and turns me on at once.

Why should it be clinical? The right guy will want to make your first time special - you can cuddle, kiss, etc.

I'm also a little afraid of where things could go if he makes me feel as good as I suspect it would. that's where it could get tricky.

I can totally relate. OK, I'm a sub femboy rather than a regular gay man, but this was long exactly my worry, not just about losing my gay virginity, but about carrying out certain fantasies. Both fearing and hoping a real man would pick me up and make me his bitch, my virginity would've been his pretty much for the asking. I don't know if I was lucky or unlucky it didn't happen. What I do know is what happened - me roleplaying a complete stranger's maid, my shaved legs on his shoulders while his cock took my virginity. Other things like going to a gay sex club and letting anyone, provided he used a condom, fuck me, no matter what he looked like, and I know I'll do it again. My point is that if part of you wants it badly enough, you'll probably end up doing it anyway. Maybe the equivalent for you is a romantic date with a man leading to passionate lovemaking.
If it sounds like I'm trying to convince you and other guys in the same situation to try receiving gay sex, well, I am - not because I have anything to gain, I don't know you and even if I did I've never penetrated a man and probably never will, but because I wish someone had convinced me.

 

[multipleJ]

i had a pm last night asking me the same question

You know I have found pleasuring my husband anally absolutely fascinating! I have always been fortunate to be able to have multiple orgasms. But for 19 years my husband only came once. I wanted him to lose control like I did. When we started using the prostrate massager WOW! I understand he is bi curious & we may never invite a man into our marriage bed but we are both very talkative about what if...

Now this is the way my husband explains it. We set up for the anal excursions by getting very clean first, even together most times as this is an act of lovemaking for us. I can make him cumm at least 20 times anally. He experiences close to what I do. The build up, tensiing his whole body, then he begins to clench his ass, then BAM. I better hold on because its all I can do to stay on & in. Then he comes downs to earth & I fuck him long & deep a minute & then here comes the build up again..... He normally only oozes pre cumm. After a while I make him ejaculate. Then we start over with his ass. When he begs me to stop we go outside & I'll blow him for a 2nd if he hasn't cumm in me yet.

He says the penile ones are just different. Like my clitoral ones are for me. But, I can't have my man staying hard all night!

OP, give it a try with a woman. My man is very manly & he has never been attracted to the other sex only the anal sex.

 

[sarod]

experiment

You just need to experiment. If my opinion counts, buy a suction cup dildo, I prefer an actual penis shaped one because it has texture to it, smooth long vibes never felt that good, I like to feel the textures from the shape of a penis dong as it pentrates, don't just jam it in with your hand, use your ass muscles to squeeze your little hole slowly over the dildo ( by sitting on it, but do it slowly) use your body weight and slowly lower yourself over it. It hurts the first time, so go slow. Then once it is in, get used to the feeling by slowly raising your body and lowering yourself onto it, then when you feel more comfortable with it, just use your imagination to guide you. This is the only way you will quench your curiosities thirst for adventure is to try it yourself. Wondering will get you nowhere, hope this helps..y

Wow, thanks for the response guys. Although it was slightly traumatising for me, I'm pretty squeamish about gay sex.

gayTopher: No, I could never be penetrated by a guy, unless I went through some major changes in my sexuality. The thought horrifies me to be honest.

I am very jealous that they are apparently so much better, especially if I may never be able to experience one even if I dared put something up my ass. Haha. But I spose you gay guys have to put up with a lot of shit, so you deserve some good compensation.

Thanks for the info everyone! Now I know a lot more about it and will be able to make an informed decision at some point. Hehe.

 

[Wellmoore]

I used to be frightened by the idea of anal sex now I've come to the point where I'd actually like to try it with someone who would be gentle.

I think I'd like to feel a real cock up my ass, the idea of my ass making someone feel good would make me cum.

 

[PricelessT]

I've recently become somewhat curious about anal penetration as a guy, mostly due to my extreme jealousy of female orgasms. Are male anal orgasms more like female orgasms? Do you prefer penile orgasms or anal orgasms?

It's not really an "anal orgasm." Scientific evidence has not shown that the anus produces the orgasm. It's the prostate that produces it, and the prostate is related to penile stimulation, so a prostate orgasm is not completely independent of penile stimulation. Researchers, for example, typically don't categorize men's orgasms into two categories: penile orgasm and prostate orgasm.

Saying "female orgasms" is somewhat overgeneralizing - clitoral and g-spot orgasms feel different. I have heard g-spot massage compared to prostate massage (and anal sex feels good to a male partly because it massages the prostate). But, since there aren't any people who have both g-spots and prostates, I don't know how anyone can really say whether they feel the same. At least for the clitoris, we have medical evidence that it's more or less equivalent to the head of the penis, so clitoral stimulation ought theoretically to feel similar to penile stimulation.

Not just the head of the clitoris. Most of the clitoris is the equivalent to the male penis, which is why most women can only reach orgasm through direct stimulation of the clitoris. And since all humans start out as female and the penis is only formed once exposed to male hormones, the penis is technically "the male clitoris." And the G-Spot (female G-Spot, I mean) is highly disputed among researchers. Some state that it doesn't exist; most others are stating that it's an extension of the clitoris and that G-Spot orgasms are therefore just a different type of clitoral orgasm. Recent research, since 2005 (starting with Helen O'Connell, who claimed the connection in 1998), has found that clitoral tissue extends into the anterior wall of the vagina. Other research shows that erectile tissue of the clitoris engorges and surrounds the vagina, which likely means that women who achieve vaginal orgasm via stimulation of the G-Spot are able to do so because "the highly innervated clitoris is pulled closely to the anterior wall of the vagina when the woman is sexually aroused and during vaginal penetration." Basically, most researchers are saying that the G-Spot is the clitoris/G-Spot orgasms are a different type of clitoral orgasm.

 

[Rolando2]

You know I have found pleasuring my husband anally absolutely fascinating! I have always been fortunate to be able to have multiple orgasms. But for 19 years my husband only came once. I wanted him to lose control like I did. When we started using the prostrate massager WOW! I understand he is bi curious & we may never invite a man into our marriage bed but we are both very talkative about what if...

Now this is the way my husband explains it. We set up for the anal excursions by getting very clean first, even together most times as this is an act of lovemaking for us. I can make him cumm at least 20 times anally. He experiences close to what I do. The build up, tensiing his whole body, then he begins to clench his ass, then BAM. I better hold on because its all I can do to stay on & in. Then he comes downs to earth & I fuck him long & deep a minute & then here comes the build up again..... He normally only oozes pre cumm. After a while I make him ejaculate. Then we start over with his ass. When he begs me to stop we go outside & I'll blow him for a 2nd if he hasn't cumm in me yet.

He says the penile ones are just different. Like my clitoral ones are for me. But, I can't have my man staying hard all night!

OP, give it a try with a woman. My man is very manly & he has never been attracted to the other sex only the anal sex.

GEEZ!! that is so damn "TURN ONing!! WOW!!https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-kjDD5gAG_Is/T5NHy2as2fI/AAAAAAAAARQ/2CEdG_-0rHc/s100/1.gif

 

[smooth-boy]

You know I have found pleasuring my husband anally absolutely fascinating! I have always been fortunate to be able to have multiple orgasms. But for 19 years my husband only came once. I wanted him to lose control like I did. When we started using the prostrate massager WOW! I understand he is bi curious & we may never invite a man into our marriage bed but we are both very talkative about what if...

Now this is the way my husband explains it. We set up for the anal excursions by getting very clean first, even together most times as this is an act of lovemaking for us. I can make him cumm at least 20 times anally. He experiences close to what I do. The build up, tensiing his whole body, then he begins to clench his ass, then BAM. I better hold on because its all I can do to stay on & in. Then he comes downs to earth & I fuck him long & deep a minute & then here comes the build up again..... He normally only oozes pre cumm. After a while I make him ejaculate. Then we start over with his ass. When he begs me to stop we go outside & I'll blow him for a 2nd if he hasn't cumm in me yet.

He says the penile ones are just different. Like my clitoral ones are for me. But, I can't have my man staying hard all night!

OP, give it a try with a woman. My man is very manly & he has never been attracted to the other sex only the anal sex.

This is how it is for me too. Far better than penile.

 

[PressNightly]

Haven't had a chance to read through the whole thread but I voted 'Bottom'.

I would say receive every time. Getting fucked in the ass by a knowledgable guy is pretty much witout equal. My wife loves to use our huge dildo on me because I moan more than any straight sex I've ever had. Its an intense feeling, part pain but mostly pleasure and even if I don't cum from a cock itself I've got a few hour window where any orgasm will be heightened to an unbelievable state. Moreover an anal O usually doesn't leave me with the post cum blues that normal sex does, and I'm usually ready for round 2 within a couple minutes.

Its a shame there's so much of a social taboo against guys getting it in the ass, cause to be honest there's nothing like it!