Straight guys who like gay sex

[PleasureTime01]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

I used to share hand job sessions with a few male friends when I was in my early teens & before that had a friend who would suck me off, and I him. As I entered late teens I would have sex just with women (any age/size/single or married).

It wasn’t until my Middle ages hit that I became what most call bi-curious and stayed like that for a long time. Now, I don’t favour any gender/age/marital status. I’m just really horny and enjoy sex with anything living (that’s human, consents to and is of legal age). My age surprisingly hasn’t diminished opportunities too .

I guess what I’m coming to say is - do you need to justify your state of desire to others or just know & be yourself?

Not challenging other views by the way, just presenting ‘me’.

 

[Spurtulator]

I don't know what this is or isn't like. It is whatever it is. I don't know of a one-word label that describes my sexuality, and I wonder if attempting to summarize sexual orientation with a one-word label is even helpful in the first place. It seems a bit pointless.

I know I’m late to the game on this thread. Sexuality is on a spectrum. People can be attracted to both the opposite sex and the same sex. But they may have a stronger attraction to one or the other. Sometimes a person may feel more attracted to the same sex and other times be more attracted to the opposite sex.

There are also people have virtually no attraction to some of the opposite sex, and there are people who have virtually no attraction to people at the same sex.

My advice, don’t worry about the defining it. Enjoy what you have.

 

[BillyWalrus]

there are people who have virtually no attraction to people at the same sex.

I have never had any attraction to men but I just gotta do everything I can to make this little trans girl feel good.
https://imgbox.com/04CnJB80

 

[Vaslim74]

For me I have been trying to label myself has bi or bi curious. My experience with other guys has only been during mmf in my early 40's. The experience was fun and great, I never thought that I would even entertain letting a guy suck and play with my cock, let along me sucking a cock. It's been sometime now since that has happened. Now I just appreciate everyone sexual preference and kinks. Bottom line I became very open minded in my 40's.

 

[bromorob79]

It's so weird to keep seeing these topics come up, since the whole reason I recently joined this site was to share the story of how my best friend and I started fooling around. We are both happily married to women and have no interest in men outside of each other. I had no idea there were so many people who engage in similar behavior.

Edit: Since several people have asked for my stories, here you go:

https://www.literotica.com/authors/bromorob79/works/stories

 

[KinkStevens]

A highly scientific analysis that nobody asked for:

I'd argue being on top is more gay (statistically speaking). I mean to fuck a guy, you have to maintain an erection. Since that usually is a visible, outward (literally) sign youre turned on (I know, I know, there are exceptions)... It's is pretty aggressively gay.

A bottom can at least pretend he's enjoying it. I love bottoming but I usually stay soft without direct cock stimulation so there's no real outward sign (like a boner) that I'm actually turned on by the gay act I'm participating in.

The same most likely can't be said about the man with a raging hard-on who's pounding away at my obvious man-ass and about to cum inside me. Surely he feels the hair on my ass cheeks he's clinging to for dear life. Or my balls smacking back against his as he stares into my male-pattern bald spot. Super gay of him if you ask me.

I surmise that this all points to a randomly selected bottom having a higher likelihood of engaging in an act they might be less enthusiastic about than their top. Thus, less gay.

Conclusion: Statistically, tops are more gay than bottoms. This highly scientific analysis (lol anal) doesn't account for the outliers. Power bottoms, sissies, cum pigs and similar types will require a deeper (lol) dive into the numbers. As will the tops who may be capable of penetration but aren't happy about it. But on average, when two dudes are just consensually banging... The top is being more gay.

This is incredibly stupid

 

[Hitchiker69]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)



There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

 

[Hitchiker69]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

I appreciate your intelligent analysis and your attempt to understand, rationally, your urges and desires. But perhaps they are very separate things; logic and lust. Maybe you can just relax and enjoy frotting with a friend and your favorite lube, and enjoy the moment without having to understand it.

 

[TryGuy35]

For me I have been trying to label myself has bi or bi curious. My experience with other guys has only been during mmf in my early 40's. The experience was fun and great, I never thought that I would even entertain letting a guy suck and play with my cock, let along me sucking a cock. It's been sometime now since that has happened. Now I just appreciate everyone sexual preference and kinks. Bottom line I became very open minded in my 40's.

I think a lot of men are the same and are here to explore and open their sexual desires. Seems like the norm.

 

[cubbyfire04]

This is incredibly stupid

I won't argue there... But even though I was just being silly, the logic is sound

 

[KinkStevens]

I won't argue there... But even though I was just being silly, the logic is sound

No its not sound…just stupid. Funny though

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

It's so weird to keep seeing these topics come up, since the whole reason I recently joined this site was to share the story of how my best friend and I started fooling around. We are both happily married to women and have no interest in men outside of each other. I had no idea there were so many people who engage in similar behavior.

Edit: Since several people have asked for my stories, here you go:

https://www.literotica.com/authors/bromorob79/works/stories

I read your stories and really enjoyed them. Congratulations on your 'suck'cessful fishing trips. I had a personal cocksucker when I was young. He was my father's age. I tried to "return the favor" but he had ED and this was before Viagra. Since then I've enjoyed many blowjobs from guys in ABS video booths, but never reciprocated due to worries about STDs. Having a suck buddy who is just that - both of us happily married, known to be "clean" and not interested in a romantic relationship - would be a dream cum (pun intended) true.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I travel for work, and I'm always hosting in my motel room. I offer easy, discreet sex. I'm a feminine bottom who doesn't desire any reciprocation. I just love pleasing men and making them cum. They can walk in, and use me, then leave. And I get with alot of guys who claim to be straight. In fact, I probably get with more straight guys then anything.

And I believe that they are straight.

In my opinion, being bisexual or gay means that one is attracted to the same sex.

These guys aren't attracted to men. They aren't looking for masculine men. They usually make that very clear. They also make it very clear that they don't want anything to do with dick.

They often want me to dress feminine. Sometimes they don't even want to see my face. They just want to use my hole and leave. And that's ok.

They are just horny guys, looking to fuck. And they know that us slutty bottom bitches are happy to oblige them.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

This is incredibly stupid

Yeah lol.

Guys don't need to be attracted to someone to maintain an erection. Guys fuck women that they aren't attracted to all the time!

 

[smoothwiener]

There are guys that just crave a cock that has no romantic feelings towards another man like they do women. I suspect a fair amount.

 

[bromorob79]

I read your stories and really enjoyed them. Congratulations on your 'suck'cessful fishing trips. I had a personal cocksucker when I was young. He was my father's age. I tried to "return the favor" but he had ED and this was before Viagra. Since then I've enjoyed many blowjobs from guys in ABS video booths, but never reciprocated due to worries about STDs. Having a suck buddy who is just that - both of us happily married, known to be "clean" and not interested in a romantic relationship - would be a dream cum (pun intended) true.

I'm glad you enjoyed them, thanks for reading! You're totally right about having a "clean" safe buddy, I can't imagine it any other way. I'm very lucky.

 

[Sounding22]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

Are you sure when watching straight sex and getting hard. Maybe it’s that gorgeous cock that is getting you hard?
I find women beautiful but like looking at art on a wall, and I don’t want sex with art, no offense to women or artist!
I was married and typical oral. She was. Well not good. Is it the same the other way? Just askin?
Was like the Dead Sea.
For having children of course, but sex. Don’t kid yourself, enjoy life as long as you can!

 

[TrailerHitch]

If a man likes cock, whether masturbation, blow jobs, or anal sex, he is not straight. He is at a minimum bi-sexual. Pretending to be straight has nothing to do with what they really are and more to do with protecting their fragile straight male persona. They want to fool themselves and their people into believing they are straight. Yes, it really is that simple. By the way, I am bi and open to my wife about it.

 

[TrailerHitch]

What about those who absolutely do not want a cock in their mouth or ass, but are ok letting a guy please them?
I've been with plenty of men like that. They aren't going to reciprocate, in fact they don't even want to see my cock. They just want to cum and go.
Straight men have been doing that with guys like me forever. They aren't gay or bi. They aren't attracted to men. They won't suck a cock. It's just easy sex.

I was re-reading some of the older posts and came across this. Let me respond. The fact that just won't go away is if you, as a male, are sucking another males cock you are both engaging is gay sex. He can pretend it's just a mouth, and you can pretend he's 100% straight, but it's bullshit. If he's straight why not hit a bar and pick up a woman to suck his cock, according to so many stories out there he should be able to find a slut to suck his cock in the bar bathroom, or alley, or front seat of his car. No, his cock is in your mouth because of the forbidden nature of the act of a gay blow job. The thought turns him on. The danger of being exposed is a huge turn on. I just don't buy that a guy getting his cock sucked by a gay guy is 100% straight.

By the way, I'm bi and if a guy that claimed he was straight approached me for sex I'd send him down the road unsatisfied. He's hiding and probably not STD tested.

 

[PersonalFavors]

If a man likes cock, whether masturbation, blow jobs, or anal sex, he is not straight. He is at a minimum bi-sexual. Pretending to be straight has nothing to do with what they really are and more to do with protecting their fragile straight male persona. They want to fool themselves and their people into believing they are straight. Yes, it really is that simple. By the way, I am bi and open to my wife about it.

You are not bi. You are gay and still get some pussy attached to one who does not care.

 

[TrailerHitch]

You are not bi. You are gay and still get some pussy attached to one who does not care.

Actually your post proves what a dumb fuck hater you are. My wife and I enjoy a very active sex life and my bi side is extracurricular activity. But honestly I couldn't begin to pretend to care less what you think about me.

 

[Davidwa1]

By definition, straight guys do not like gay sex. So a straight guy who does like that, is in fact not straight. He is bi.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Are you sure when watching straight sex and getting hard. Maybe it’s that gorgeous cock that is getting you hard?

Yes, I had come (and cum) to that realization years ago. Of course, I just love women and seeing them getting fucked or sucking cock - but honestly, it's always the cock that I'm focusing on. Not a fan of foreskin, so I want to see a cut cock with a nice mushroom head, and it's the cumshot that I wait for.

 

[tnnikon]

Guys shouldnt be afraid to say they are bisexual.

 

[Dougos]

True