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Genuine question about Fisting

cubbyfire04 said:
Use gloves... Especially if it's the first time, or it's been a while. It's not really about it being "your thing" as much as the purpose they serve.

Of course there's the protection aspect. When you're taxing the delicate tissue in and around the vagina (or anus) there's bound to be at least some micro-traumas (small tears, abrasions, inflammation, etc.).

The gloves obviously provide some protection against microbial contact. But I think, more importantly, they smooth out all of the contours of your hand/wrist. Deep knuckle grooves, hair, nails, hang nails, calluses, etc... they all increase friction. It may not seem like much, but the most sensitive parts of the body will respond to their cumulative effect.

As for the non-dominant hand, I don't love that theory. I'd say the difference in size is negligible when you consider you have far more control and fine motor skills with your dominant hand.

A thicker lube helps too. Find something that will stay put (and is compatible with your glove) and use a lot. Prepare for a huge mess (excess lube and possible body fluids - including pee) and have fun with it!

If she's up for it and you're both patient, and you communicate clearly, it will be a mind-bending experience. The accomplishment alone creates excitement that's overwhelming. Nevermind once you've both settled in and behind to work towards climax.
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You almost had me climaxing just from imagining this.
 
Bigboobbabe said:
My current man and I talked about this as a bucket list item when we were compromised one night. I may need to remind him.
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You should absolutely remind him... Then report back because now you've got ME almost climaxing imagining this!
 
My wife's fingers added one at a time loosen up my sissy hole with lots of lube and a bottle of poppers......for her fist to fuck me into a trance......perfect size to fit up to her wrist!
 
cubbyfire04 said:
Use gloves... Especially if it's the first time, or it's been a while. It's not really about it being "your thing" as much as the purpose they serve.

Of course there's the protection aspect. When you're taxing the delicate tissue in and around the vagina (or anus) there's bound to be at least some micro-traumas (small tears, abrasions, inflammation, etc.).

The gloves obviously provide some protection against microbial contact. But I think, more importantly, they smooth out all of the contours of your hand/wrist. Deep knuckle grooves, hair, nails, hang nails, calluses, etc... they all increase friction. It may not seem like much, but the most sensitive parts of the body will respond to their cumulative effect.

As for the non-dominant hand, I don't love that theory. I'd say the difference in size is negligible when you consider you have far more control and fine motor skills with your dominant hand.

A thicker lube helps too. Find something that will stay put (and is compatible with your glove) and use a lot. Prepare for a huge mess (excess lube and possible body fluids - including pee) and have fun with it!

If she's up for it and you're both patient, and you communicate clearly, it will be a mind-bending experience. The accomplishment alone creates excitement that's overwhelming. Nevermind once you've both settled in and behind to work towards climax.
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Gloves are a good idea.
 
BobRocket said:
My (m) wife (f) has recently talked about us trying to explore stretching her with the ultimate goal of me using my whole hand inside her.


We’ve been using a large dildo and my fingers up until now.


I’m a well built man, my hands are quite large and she has always , even after childbirth been quite small down there. I’m well aware of the marvels of the female anatomy and know that that can accommodate a babie so I know my hand should not be an issue.

Do we have to build up to my how hand over a long period? If anyone has any experience with a new partner doing this how long did it take before you could fit in your hand .

And did it give your partner the pleasure they expected?

This is a genuine question so please treat the answers genuinely.

Thanks
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took me a month we fucked every day for 12+ hours i started with 2 fingers and went up to 4 pretty easy the trick was getting my thumb inside her i twisted it slightly and it slid in she love it then we found out she was a squirter
 
Maya_Vakker said:
🤣 you’re correct! Bad proof reading on my part. It was about 3.75 across.
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Whereas the exhibit Emily provided is just over half that.

Tapers are good, as she already said, especially if you're still experimenting. The problem with graduated beads or plugs is that if the guest of honor decides this has gone from experiment to ordeal, if they suddenly have to sneeze, if you get distracted doing other things for a while, they can clamp down and now you have a bigger problem going backward than forward. Some (most?) people relax after reaching climax but not all do.

That said, before you graduate to large things with a negative taper, you want to bring in smaller things with a more aggressive taper (eg, plugs or beads versus human hand), to practice relaxation for removal, when the stakes are lower.

Also some more recent info that I've seen is that while the muscle is in fact extremely flexible, it's helpful to give the skin some time to accomodate your plans by practicing over a course of days or weeks instead of hours.

But I'd say the best trick once you can comfortably accommodate 2 fingers is to move them in a widening circle, like you're sneaking batter from the side of a mixing bowl. My suspicion about its efficacy is that it feels psychologically safer than someone jamming 4 fingers in there and creating a human speculum. It's just two fingers in there after all, and that's not too scary.
 
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