get ur husband to...

[ahnaggeeln]

hire someone to rape u? my husband has said many times that he wants to see me with someone else but has never done anything about it. I have rape fantasies and he knows about them so I would like it if we both could win! any suggestions? or even just to get him to follow through with his part (watching me with someone else) we don't know anyone who'd be into it and I think if we went on a sight to find someone we'd freeze up.... what do we do to make it come true and also find some one? how do u make it comfortable with a stranger??

 

[dirtycarol]

I can appreciate your fantasy hon, but sex with total strangers is kinda dangerous, (I've done it a long time ago, but wouldn't do it again in this day and age).

 

[subwannabe]

I have to agree. Even sex with so called friends can be dangerous. That being said, this is probably the wrong forum to be giving this advice. To answer your question, you need to start at square one and work your way up. If you are going to add another to the relationship I would start with someone you know (you may have to wait a while to achieve this since you don't seem to have a candidate now). Then when your husband feels comfortable about it (I hope you can trust his judgement) he can then set up something for someone he can trust to rape you. I think it would be important that this person is given something in writing that this will not blow up in his face if he would rape you. I'll probably get blasted for not having you be a part of this but if you are serious about having someone rape you it will not be the same if you know about it ahead of time. My best advice is to take it slowly and not jump into all of this willy nilly.

Even though you would know about it ahead of time it might send some erotic chills through you if your husband had you sign off in writing on your fanasy, giving someone permission to rape you, anytime, anywhere, of their choosing - a contract on yourself, so to speak. Even if it didn't seem like your husband had a candidate in mind you would always still wonder in the back of your mind if or when it is going to happen.

 

[CherryBomb24]

rape isnt all you think it is--its not what i would call fun and i dont think should be taken so lightly -but thats me.

 

[fgarvb1]

I think this has disaster written all over it.

It's one thing for someone you know and trust (knowing that you are hot for that kind of action) to "take you" and something else entirely for some stranger to do it...his way.

I had a girlfriend one time who liked "not to be asked" just suddenly restrained or not and used any way I liked.

(Did it suddenly get woody in here?)

I think many more members will weigh in on this one.

 

[Ravenwind]

Honestly, what you're asking for is trouble. First, if you don't know *who* will be raping you, you certainly will know less about what they might have. Next, everyone, even no-limit subs, has their limits (ie survival instincts at its most basic... though, I suppose a suicidal no-limit sub is truly no-limit... but I digress...), and since he doesn't know your own limits (both physically and mentally), that person may do considerable damage to you, be it intentionally or accidentally. Finally, consider those around you... he chooses a mutual friend of both of yours, and this friend rapes you, and it is by his hand that you awake to find yourself hospitalized... can you, in good conscience, consider him your friend, even despite the fact that he just raped you? Will he ever look at you in the same way again? Will that friendship endure what has been asked of him? Can you look at your husband the same way, knowing that he made a poor choice in an "assailant"?

Keep yourself safe. Why not roleplay with your husband instead, taking every precaution to keep both of you safe?

 

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[CherryBomb24]

JT - look at the name of this person who made this thread.

then go look at the other post, they put their email address into it...its the same name.

 

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