Giving good head

i have been wondering - do you guys like it when a girl gags and chokes on your dick? as long as she doesn't puke of course lol.

If you gag its a turn off. If you can deepthroat then I'm all for that. But if you can't I don't need you to and the noises of you choking on it take the fun out for me.
 
If you gag its a turn off. If you can deepthroat then I'm all for that. But if you can't I don't need you to and the noises of you choking on it take the fun out for me.

Nothing sexy about gagging. I prefer anyone going down on me to spend a lot of time on the head anyway. And if a guy ever tries to force me to deepthroat, he better have insurance.
 
Nothing sexy about gagging. I prefer anyone going down on me to spend a lot of time on the head anyway. And if a guy ever tries to force me to deepthroat, he better have insurance.

Anyone tries that on a poor girl, they should bite the fucker.

Deepthroating is visually impressive, but the throat is very stiff and uncomfortable...who wouldn't want a soft warm hand and mouth instead anyway?!
 
the enthusiasm, mentioned before, is the biggest key. Learn from Young Frankenstein and make a "yummy noise" while you have him in your mouth. Create a bit of a vacuum and hum your approval. It creates a little bit of a vibration that they seem to like.

Also, I really can't deepthroat. I've tried, I can't do it, I have a a reflex, so from time to time, I'll just lick SLOWLY from the balls up the shaft, using a bit of pressure with my tongue. slightly off center seems to do the trick. Sometimes that'll shoot it off. hahaha.
 
Enthusiasm is definitely a key ingredient to any good BJ. However, to be amazing you need to stimulate all his senses:
Sight
Give your man a view of the action.
Make eye contact regulary.
Hearing
Make some noise ..ummm.
Tell him how much you love his cock and hot you are getting.
Touch
If you have long hair run it across chest and abs.
Use you hands
When you sense him getting close, massage his prostate via the perineum.
Smell/Taste
Show him how wet your pussy is. Wet your fingers and have him lick them off. Make sure wipe off some of your juices on his upper lip before you let him lick your fingers clean.

Lastly, you cannot stop before he cums. You don't have to swallow, but you can't be afraid to get some in your mouth, on your face and in your hair.
 
for what its worth ladies
once had a female friend take a mouthful of coca cola (I suppose pepsi would do =p )before she gave me a b/j...and it was friggin amazing sensation
 
its all good

except for the teeth, i like to see her taking it and if she plays with herself its a visual exciter, as far as a physical stimulator sucking , and rubbing just below the boys ,between the sack and anus, and if you go finger in the ass you are guarenteed a load, and if she doesnt swallow a facial is good with her toungue rubbung under the head, so she will get a taste anyway.
 
Enthusiasm is definitely a key ingredient to any good BJ. However, to be amazing you need to stimulate all his senses:
Sight
Give your man a view of the action.
Make eye contact regulary.
Hearing
Make some noise ..ummm.
Tell him how much you love his cock and hot you are getting.
Touch
If you have long hair run it across chest and abs.
Use you hands
When you sense him getting close, massage his prostate via the perineum.
Smell/Taste
Show him how wet your pussy is. Wet your fingers and have him lick them off. Make sure wipe off some of your juices on his upper lip before you let him lick your fingers clean.

Lastly, you cannot stop before he cums. You don't have to swallow, but you can't be afraid to get some in your mouth, on your face and in your hair.

Someone give you a gold star...i wish that would happen to me. I've never had a good blow job..ever...nothing that really gets me going enough to get off.
 
someone said it earlier: eye contact. eye contact is king, if you ask me.

ed
 
Have Fun & Do it Well!

Have fun, let him know you enjoy it! Look up at him & say things like “I love your cock”, “I love doing this”, “I want you to cum in my mouth”. Suck his balls, tease his ass. Make him relaxed & put him at ease. Learn to deepthroat & DON”T SPIT.
 
Look into my eyes and quit moving your hair, lol. I'll move it if I want to see.

Often we are moving our hair so that we dont get a mouth/face full of hair, sorry. (wow, just typing that makes me really really not miss long hair.) However, yes, I think most guys i've been with like eye contact during. :)
 
Enthusiasm is definitely a key ingredient to any good BJ. However, to be amazing you need to stimulate all his senses:
Sight
Give your man a view of the action.
Make eye contact regulary.
Hearing
Make some noise ..ummm.
Tell him how much you love his cock and hot you are getting.
Touch
If you have long hair run it across chest and abs.
Use you hands
When you sense him getting close, massage his prostate via the perineum.
Smell/Taste
Show him how wet your pussy is. Wet your fingers and have him lick them off. Make sure wipe off some of your juices on his upper lip before you let him lick your fingers clean.

Lastly, you cannot stop before he cums. You don't have to swallow, but you can't be afraid to get some in your mouth, on your face and in your hair.


completely agree.... i love giving head to my husband... i crave giving head to my husband.. and I do all of the things you've listed... reading that just makes me want to get on my knees for him...
 
for what its worth ladies
once had a female friend take a mouthful of coca cola (I suppose pepsi would do =p )before she gave me a b/j...and it was friggin amazing sensation


Interesting. I wonder how it would work with that sherbert stuff that pops and fizzes in you mouth?
 
I actually always thought that moving hair out of the way was actually kind of sexy. It kind of says, "I'm moving my hair out of the way so you can see better and so that I can do a good job".
 
Enthusiasm is definitely a key ingredient to any good BJ. However, to be amazing you need to stimulate all his senses:
Sight
Give your man a view of the action.
Make eye contact regulary.
Hearing
Make some noise ..ummm.
Tell him how much you love his cock and hot you are getting.
Touch
If you have long hair run it across chest and abs.
Use you hands
When you sense him getting close, massage his prostate via the perineum.
Smell/Taste
Show him how wet your pussy is. Wet your fingers and have him lick them off. Make sure wipe off some of your juices on his upper lip before you let him lick your fingers clean.

Lastly, you cannot stop before he cums. You don't have to swallow, but you can't be afraid to get some in your mouth, on your face and in your hair.


DAMN! Great post. You can give me a BJ anyday. :D
 
Enjoy yourself as you do it. Make noises. Look up into his eyes. Use your hands, touch him everywhere you can reach. Suck, slurp, lick, beg......beg for his cum. Insist he explodes into your mouth so you can drink every drop of his warm, rich semen. Then after he's done orgasming severely.....say "Thank you".

haha beautiful - just reading your advice made me hard :heart:
 
i PREFER THE SWIRLING OF THE TONGUE AROUND THE SHAFT AS THE HEAD BOBS UP AND DOWN....GOING AS DEEP AS YOU ARE COMFORTABLE. i ALSO LOVE A LOOK OF LUST AS I TELL YOU I AM ABOUT TO CUM AND EXTRA ENTHUSIASM TO HASTEN YOUR REWARD, WHICH YOU CAN EITHER SWALLOW (PREFERRED) OR TAKE AS A FACIAL
 
Suck as hard as you can as the guys starts to cum. to him, it'll feel as if the cum is being pulled out of his dick as well as being forced out.

Quite a sensation!

And give him a 'WINK' (Shara Palin style) as you swallow.
 
Use you hands
When you sense him getting close, massage his prostate via the perineum.

Even better use a finger. Get it up there and give the prostate a massage through the rectal wall. If you time it right and she keeps sucking as the orgasm hits and the prostate convulses it WILL FEEL LIKE SHE IS SUCKING YOUR ENTIRE SPINE DOWN HER THROAT. I don't believe there is a more intense sensation for a man than a full prostate massage AND a BJ (or a P-B/J ) at the same time.

For a LOT more info and ideas read this thread. It's called the MILKING thread.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=98657
 
These are the areas of interest for great head IMHO.

Enthusiasm - A must

Wetness - The sloppier the better

Pace - Vary the speed of the mouth strokes, until the end when strong and steady will make him pop.

Depth - Obviously the deeper the better, more cock in the mouth equals more sensation.

Balls- Visit the boys frequently while your hand continues to work slowly. It's a nice change-up and gives you chance to talk dirty without your mouth full.

Ass - Play with it. Gentle massage for the timid. A lubed finger or plug for the more daring.

Swallow or Facial - If you don't let him cum in your mouth, it better be on your face.

This is the jist of it but I would also say that if you have the right enthusiasm then things will just come to you. Meaning you love doing it, want more of it and want to please your partner.

For me there are also certain levels of pleasing a partner when it involves giving head.

You can suck it just to the point where it relaxes him but doesn't turn him on so fast he cums in your face a minute later.

You can tease it to point where he can't take the teasing and either demands you move faster or throws you on your back and fucks you because he can't take it anymore.

Or you can just go all out crazy and fuck his mouth - hardcore. Sometimes having cum in your face a minute later.

That's my take on it. Everyone is different though.
 
Enjoy yourself as you do it. Make noises. Look up into his eyes. Use your hands, touch him everywhere you can reach. Suck, slurp, lick, beg......beg for his cum. Insist he explodes into your mouth so you can drink every drop of his warm, rich semen. Then after he's done orgasming severely.....say "Thank you".

You are cool :cool:

guys love you huh? :)
 
i have been wondering - do you guys like it when a girl gags and chokes on your dick? as long as she doesn't puke of course lol.

hi all..my self l prefer to have my cock in a ladies pussy more than her mouth....tho l use to love to watch my ex getting face fucked hard and gaging on other guys cocks when at parties and l think most of the guy who got to witness it did...l must add she use to actually love the experience so possibly that is why enjoyed watching...l use to love it much more when we got home with a cum filled puss to play with....
 
Don't worry about taking a big cock in too deep. I like my girl to talk dirty when giving me head, and use her hand - kind of like stroking/pumping along with her mouth
 
To add to some of the great suggestions above:

When you are in the down position on the deep throat, gently nod your head up and down and side to side and make a little humming noise – guaranteed to drive him wild – they are called hummers for a reason.
 
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