Giving good head

[specter170]

Great head

All of the above plus this, I love when she stradles my legs and brushes her breasts along my thighs. The pressure point, or pleasure point to be more specific is to apply pressure just below the balls. One last thing, don't stop until he starts to soften. Worse thing u can do is quit when he's still riding his wave.

 

[savethebest4me]

I enjoy sucking it real gently at first, starting by just licking and sucking on the head real gentle, running my tongue along the rim, then gently sucking the whole cock into my mouth, making sure my mouth is very wet (sometimes little pieces of ice in my mouth just to get a little "oooooohhh" from you...I use my tongue quite generously all around the cock when it's in my mouth...I like when you take my hair and pull me down even deeper, and use my hair as your guide to how hard or how soft you want me to suck, I love to pull away and let you last longer, sucking on your balls, just stoking you gently to keep hearing your moans...hmmm...

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[married29]

i also love licking the head... taking small amounts into my mouth and back out, going deeper and deeper over his cock until I have taken him completely in... men do like the hand stroked at the bottom of their cock when not being deep-throated. i generally like my husband to fuck my mouth... well, i LOVE him to fuck my mouth... ladies, if you've never let your man do this... i beg you to try... it feels sooooo good.

 

[frisky-leo]

Has anyone ever had a heart attack from one of your BJs?

I have made someone pass out. Cool, but made me worry for a moment. Lol
One trick I do is flatten my tongue and drag it up his shaft and make swirling motions around the head. Most do request no teeth and no ass play, but my bf requires it.
I totally agree that you let yourself get into it. If he can see that you love it then he will enjoy it more.
If you do gag, then just take a moment to breath and you'll be fine.

 

[TikkaT3]

Enjoy yourself as you do it. Make noises. Look up into his eyes. Use your hands, touch him everywhere you can reach. Suck, slurp, lick, beg......beg for his cum. Insist he explodes into your mouth so you can drink every drop of his warm, rich semen. Then after he's done orgasming severely.....say "Thank you".

Now just look at the mess you made me make. Bad girl, and I mean that in a good way

 

[kskittles]

Lots and LOTS of practice.

 

[bakedbeams]

I like to start with one big lick from the base to the top, then slowly suck it in like a lolly pop.

I agree lots of tongue action up/down and around the shaft, swirls on the head. Hold his foreskin down when giving head action too. Little bobs of your head, and big sucking drops.

I also alternate between big sucks, taking as much in as I can, and lots of tongue work. I love cupping his balls in my hands and using the tips of my fingers to massage just behind em. I suck till he's got nothing left to give and then lick him like Im cleaning him and give his penis lots of little kisses at the end.. he loves that.

Hold a vibrator on your cheek for added sensations. Ice cubes in the mouth, warming your mouth with a cup of tea or coffee, kneel near a mirror so he can watch in profile.

 

[Shutterman]

Enjoy yourself as you do it. Make noises. Look up into his eyes. Use your hands, touch him everywhere you can reach. Suck, slurp, lick, beg......beg for his cum. Insist he explodes into your mouth so you can drink every drop of his warm, rich semen. Then after he's done orgasming severely.....say "Thank you".

WOW, Kskittles! You have delved deep into the hetero male psyche and articulated PRECISELY what most of us guys dream about. You should go on Oprah…or perhaps open your own therapy clinic!

If only more women were capable of your insight, marriages could be saved, petty squabbling between the sexes would end, and world peace might even break out. Seriously, you’ve hit the nail right on the, uhhh, head. (Umm..maybe that wasn’t the right phrase to use for this topic.)

Actually, while technique can be taught, true sensual understanding of the other gender takes time to develop. Open discussions like this go a long way, but unfortunately such talk never reaches the mainstream media.

All the techniques mentioned here are great…eye contact, etc. But one very important point to learn from Kskittle’s post is that it’s very important to talk sexy to your guy. The art of talking sensually (ok, ok, some may say ‘talking dirty’) seems lost on most women.

Ladies…we guys don’t understand it ourselves, but we very much like to hear just about any sentence that falls out of your mouth that has the word, “cum” in it…especially if you’re talking about our cum! And no, it does NOT have to be the over the top stuff that you might hear from your guy’s Gonzo porn vids. If done right, you can make it hot and nasty, but still keep it ladylike at the same time. Ever hear of the Whore/Madonna complex?

Some of the hit parade statements include, “Cum for me” and “I want to see you cum”. Other top favorites include, “I want to taste it”, and “Please, cum in my mouth” Then, of course, there’s the all-time chart topper, “Cum on my face.”

While these are great, there is so much more room for the truly creative. One of the hottest lines I every experienced came from a very quiet and shy lady that I’d just started dating. She had surprised the heck out of me one day by backing me up against a wall in her apartment. She’d positioned me so that we were perfectly framed in a nearby mirror. She dropped to her knees and began delivering an outstanding blowjob. (A surprise BJ is another GREAT technique, btw.).

Just at the right moment, while still locked in great eye contact, she pulled away, swiped her tongue sensually around her lips and said, “Feed me daddy, your baby is soooo thirsty for your cum.” I about flipped out! (BTW…not necessarily because of only this creative gift of hers…but I thought I should report that I eventually wound up marrying her.)

And girls…IF you decide to be so generous to us and allow us to cum on your face, please….do NOT give ANY indication that you might be fretting over your makeup, your hair, the sheets, etc. etc, etc. For a properly delivered finish on your lovely face, most of us guys would eagerly pay top price for a makeover, a trip to the hairdresser, new sheets, etc.!

AND, above all….please, please, please…stay in the moment for your man! As he cums, DON’T squeal, giggle, or give any other indication that you aren’t as turned on as he is at the moment (even if you aren’t). Stay the sensual, lustful, dying-for-it-gotta-have-it sex pot all the way through to the end. And when is that? It’s when the blood finally returns to his big head and HE indicates he’s through (“uhhh, honey, what’d we do with the remote?”).

If you can manage to do all of this…and more importantly…*IF* you can develop true enthusiasm for the lovely gift you’re giving your guy…you will end up with his dying devotion. Mama was wrong. The way to a man’s heart is NOT through his stomach!

 

[bakedbeams]

Absolutely the surprise 'I gotta have you now BJ' is one of the best.

I remember sitting on a bench at the beach... Mr SO was chatting away, when I just turned and said 'I need YOUR cock in MY mouth NOW'.

Well he couldnt get back to the car fast enough, was dropping his jeans as he leapt in the passenger seat. He loved it.

 

[kskittles]

I just think genuine desire to give a blowjob is the important thing. Maybe its rare or whatever--I don't know. But it makes it easy to do it well if you really want to do it.

Women should be nice, classy, and ethical...but in the bedroom, we can be different, sexy, wild....slutty even. Think about what would a slut do/say? The guy may act surprised, but it'll be in a good way.

The trick is making him understand you won't act that way outside the bedroom, lol.

 

[CherryBomb24]

curiousity - do pop rocks and mentos really work?

I've tried the pop rocks, and apparently had to much in my mouth and not enough saliva lol he said it felt like sand paper. lol yeah bad thing. i tried the mentos, but couldnt keep it in my mouth while giving the bj, so spit it out and kept going that way. <Do i eat it before giving head or did i do it correctly and suck on it while sucking on him?
whats a good way to work pop rocks / mentos or anything else into the mix of an awesome blow job?

 

[sterculius]

I just think genuine desire to give a blowjob is the important thing. Maybe its rare or whatever--I don't know. But it makes it easy to do it well if you really want to do it.

Women should be nice, classy, and ethical...but in the bedroom, we can be different, sexy, wild....slutty even. Think about what would a slut do/say? The guy may act surprised, but it'll be in a good way.

The trick is making him understand you won't act that way outside the bedroom, lol.

I wholeheartedly agree!! Our sexuality allows us the opportunity to behave in ways that might be diametrically opposed to the people we are in our every day lives. In my case, as a closet cocksucker, this is most definitely true.

 

[Maizie29]

I agree with all of the above, although my hubby does enjoy my teeth *lightly* scraping along his shaft and I love doing anything that he enjoys...so

Also, for those women with nice long hair....quit moving it out of the way and grab and handful of it and wrap it around his cock in your hand. Totally different sensation and I haven't known a man yet that didn't go wild from it. Also, don't just play with their balls with your hand, take a little time and put them in your mouth, suck on them gently and with a nice rhythm while jerking his cock with a handful of your hair. He'll go wild. And when you are sucking his cock most definitely don't leave your tongue as an innocent bystander along for the ride. Even while you're sucking, time it right, and flick under the tip every stroke for a few, then do one where you swirl it all the way around the head, then go back to flicking under the tip. And yes, how could you not be enthusiastic? If you're not...well......why bother?

 

[zex95966]

Each guy is different.

I know that while i like to be lubricated, i don't like it when a girl spits on me. I do like noises a lot... when my cock just "pops' out of your mouth audibly... or some dirty talk in between things.

Jenna Haze has got what I and most guys like down pretty dam well.

I don't like gagging or deepthroating. what turns me on, is knowing that your having a good time, chocking on me doesn't really make me think so.

i would even go so far as to say that the best cocksuckers are the ones who truly enjoy it even if the physical sensation is less than what your used to. I believe sex is mostly mental and the physical is just an added bonus =)

 

[JHarrison01]

I may be unusual, but I prefer to stand and have the woman use only her mouth and tongue, keeping her hands to the side.

I like both being in her mouth and having her run her tongue and lips along the underside of my cock. I am large enough to know I cant thrust deeply, so I let her rock her head and body back & forth.

I do love having my balls sucked and licked gently and then when they are wet to have air blown across them

I will usually run my fingers through her hair, along the side of her face, her neck and gently across her lips.

Moaning sounds from her are a big turn on, but it has to be sincere. It is not difficult to discern a woman who truly loves being oral from those that think it s a requisite part of foreplay.

For those that want to touch, run your finger behind my cheeks, down along the crack and pause playfully at my little hole. I dont mind a finger entering a little bit, but not too far. Light stimulation is what gets me off.

I love someone that can swallow, but I don't cum easily from oral sex and I actually prefer not to. I think of oral more as foreplay than the final act.

 

[shllms]

As with everything else in life, it depends on my mood.

It seems I'm in the minority - at least on this thread - in that sometimes there's nothing I love better than an enthusiastic blowjob given by a girl who so wants to absorb my cock into her throat that gagging ensues. If I'm sufficiently turned on - and of course I will be, because a girl has decided to try to swallow my cock - this drives me past the point of no return rather quicker than usual. The sensation is directly pleasurable, but it's the dedication, abandon, near-panic and submission on her part, as well as the unmistakably crude and sexual noises, which really get me off.

Other things which will always get extra credit when I'm assessing a blowjob:

• enthusiasm. As others have mentioned, this is the single most important thing. If a girl (or guy, I assume) doesn't want to give head simply because they want/need to, then it's just not the same. I've only had a couple of lacklustre blowjobs, but no amount of writhing, moaning, sucking etc. can mask it when the girl has put your cock in her mouth because she thinks you want it, rather than because there's absolutely nothing else she'd rather be doing right now. I don't cum too easily from oral sex, so this really is a sine qua non for me.
• eye contact. Always amplifies the sensations by letting me know that she knows how she's making me feel.
• masturbation. She's so turned on she just can't quite help herself, and idly toys with her clit - or slides a couple of fingers into her pussy. Alternatively a spare hand might be playing with nipples/squeezing tits or even just rubbing her own stomach or sides (this last I've only seen with one girl, but found it strangely erotic as I'm not even sure she knew she was doing it).
• ass play. I'm hardly the shy retiring type, but please: not too rough to begin with. Once we're both warmed up, feel free to go to town, especially as I cum.
• dirty talk. Another point mentioned previously, but so very important. Don't bother, though, unless you find it coming almost unbidden. If she has to think about it too much, it will likely be counterproductive. Particularly sexy would be expressing enthusiasm ("I love sucking your cock") or asking/pleading/begging of any kind, particularly with reference to where I should cum. As a previous poster mentioned, it need not be an oratory masterpiece: any sentence containing some or all of the words "I", "want", "you", "cum" and a part of her body will do the trick nicely, thank you. Short phrases or sentences are best, because if she's talking, she's not licking or sucking...
• swallowing. I've never been with a girl who wouldn't, but unless she was artful about not swallowing (perhaps she should direct me to cum on her face/tits/ass/stomach/pussy/legs/hands/back/hair/neck etc.?) I doubt I'd be impressed and would likely lose my joie de vivre somewhat.
• don't forget the balls. Feather touch until things have really heated up, at which point you can be quite rough. I'll let you know if you overstep the mark...

In the end, I'll always be happy whenever receiving a blowjob. To set against that: I don't subscribe to the school of thought which holds the blowjob as some sort of sacred act for which a man must buy flowers/be eternally grateful; I will be more than happy to reciprocate, which should be an entirely fair trade. Thankfully I have yet to encounter this attitude in person, but one hears horror stories from time to time...

The above list goes quite some way to explaining the difference in my mind between 'good' and 'great'. A lot of this is rather historical, however, as the last couple of girls I've dated have been very insistent that I fuck them as soon as possible on nearly every occasion - prior to that I was dating a true cocksucker whose pussy moistened at the thought of sucking cock, and whose enjoyment of giving was very much mirrored by my own in receiving

 

[RunningJib]

Do it like you love it

I remember the first time my high school sweatheart went down on me. It was great until I came in her mouth. She gagged. Hated the taste of me.

Great head is enjoyable. When my lover is having a good time, so am I.

This video is an example of that: http://www.tube8.com/amateur/amatuer-sex/114101/

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

It's been a very long time since I gave a man oral sex...but here's what I remember works well. The principles are essentially the same as for cunnilingus.

- Make it clear that you're appreciating and enjoying his cock. Stroke him, hold him, feel the heat of it. Smell his penis. Taste it. Perhaps hold him between your breasts, or graze your nipples over it.

- When you use your mouth, don't let him feel your teeth. Focus on firm but gentle licking of his foreskin - the most sensitive area - or hold your lips around the upper part of him. Sucking achieves little. Taking his penis very deeply into your mouth is worth it if it turns him on, but he won't feel much. Firm pressure from the weight of your tongue is more effective.

- Give plenty of attention to his testicles. This is an easy thing to overlook. Lick and suck his balls; take them into your mouth. From experience, men love this.

- Stroke his anus. (This works with women, too, certainly me).

- Use words to encourage him to orgasm for you. Tell him you want his come.

- When he does come, appreciate the orgasm. You've achieved it for him, and he'll want to share it for you. Orgasm, male or female, is poignant, serene, and emotional. Sense the weight and intensity of the orgasm. Be fascinated by it, and in awe of it. Murmur your own pleasure in experiencing your partner's climax. Again, this is important with women, too. Hold his balls gently while he comes - you can feel the orgasm there.

- During the orgasm, if you don't mind taking his sperm into your mouth, then continue licking the tip of his penis. He will be much less focussed on what you are, or aren't doing, with his come, than with what he can *feel* - so sustain his sensations while he comes, and don't interrupt or change them. My experience was that men are much less interested in coming all over you than porn suggests; moreover, they usually have their eyes closed at the time, anyway.

 

[kskittles]

One thing I didn't realize is that I kinda say "mmmm" as he cums, and apparently guys love that.

Second, keep sucking through the orgasm.....now I do this for selfish reasons, on the occasional instances that he stays hard and I can give him a second blowjob. But whether that happens or not, guys love when you suck for another minute or two until the erection is gone.

 

[silverwhisper]

kskittles quoth:
second, keep sucking through the orgasm.

while i know i don't speak for all guys, i personally find that exceptionally uncomfortable and sometimes, painfully so. this one is not universally appealing. :>

ed

 

[Salvor-Hardon]

One thing I didn't realize is that I kinda say "mmmm" as he cums, and apparently guys love that.

Second, keep sucking through the orgasm.....now I do this for selfish reasons, on the occasional instances that he stays hard and I can give him a second blowjob. But whether that happens or not, guys love when you suck for another minute or two until the erection is gone.

you really are quite remarkable kskittles. kudos to your expertise.

 

[sandiego1]

a facial is always nice too!!

 

[Eager2TRYRU]

One thing I didn't realize is that I kinda say "mmmm" as he cums, and apparently guys love that.

Second, keep sucking through the orgasm.....now I do this for selfish reasons, on the occasional instances that he stays hard and I can give him a second blowjob. But whether that happens or not, guys love when you suck for another minute or two until the erection is gone.

I would agree that I love it...

 

[sterculius]

One thing I didn't realize is that I kinda say "mmmm" as he cums, and apparently guys love that.

Second, keep sucking through the orgasm.....now I do this for selfish reasons, on the occasional instances that he stays hard and I can give him a second blowjob. But whether that happens or not, guys love when you suck for another minute or two until the erection is gone.

As a fellow cocksucker, I'd say that you are gods gift to men. And that's saying a lot considering that it's coming from an atheist

 

[boxmaker]

had a bj from my sister in law while my wife watched that was so cool....