Going bigger, evolving sex life.

[Darkenz]

I started this journey years ago when we went to a hotel for a weekend away, just the two of us. After a few drinks, my very vanilla wife agreed to watch a naughty movie. The only theme available was well-endowed guys pleasing women. To my surprise, my wife got quite turned on watching it.
She agreed to try toys in our play and found that she enjoyed them. From that point on, I slowly introduced larger toys. I started with ones just a bit larger than me, and every so often I would add a newer, larger toy. About four years or so ago, I increased both the frequency of new toys and how much I increased the size.
We went from slightly bigger than me, to a fair amount bigger, to very large — so thick there’s no way to wrap your hand around it.
We went from me always picking out the toys, to the last one being ordered with her looking at the selection, pointing to one even thicker than I was going to suggest, and saying, “Get that one.”
We went from having to start with me to get her ready, and me having to work myself into her, to me entering her easily to get her ready, to her being ready easily, to not needing much warm-up at all, to having no problem starting with the biggest toy.
We went from her having an occasional orgasm, to an orgasm every time, to mind-blowing orgasms every time.
What surprised me the most is how, as she’s become looser the better she feels to me — and how much more often we have sex now. She used to put off a night for almost any reason, but now we have more nights together, and she rarely puts it off.
Has anyone else had an evolution like this, or something similar?

 

[JoeBeans2751]

I started this journey years ago when we went to a hotel for a weekend away, just the two of us. After a few drinks, my very vanilla wife agreed to watch a naughty movie. The only theme available was well-endowed guys pleasing women. To my surprise, my wife got quite turned on watching it.
She agreed to try toys in our play and found that she enjoyed them. From that point on, I slowly introduced larger toys. I started with ones just a bit larger than me, and every so often I would add a newer, larger toy. About four years or so ago, I increased both the frequency of new toys and how much I increased the size.
We went from slightly bigger than me, to a fair amount bigger, to very large — so thick there’s no way to wrap your hand around it.
We went from me always picking out the toys, to the last one being ordered with her looking at the selection, pointing to one even thicker than I was going to suggest, and saying, “Get that one.”
We went from having to start with me to get her ready, and me having to work myself into her, to me entering her easily to get her ready, to her being ready easily, to not needing much warm-up at all, to having no problem starting with the biggest toy.
We went from her having an occasional orgasm, to an orgasm every time, to mind-blowing orgasms every time.
What surprised me the most is how, as she’s become looser the better she feels to me — and how much more often we have sex now. She used to put off a night for almost any reason, but now we have more nights together, and she rarely puts it off.
Has anyone else had an evolution like this, or something similar?

Try reading my stories..in the masturbation/toy section. The John Holmes Model..You and the wife might enjoy them

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I started this journey years ago when we went to a hotel for a weekend away, just the two of us. After a few drinks, my very vanilla wife agreed to watch a naughty movie. The only theme available was well-endowed guys pleasing women. To my surprise, my wife got quite turned on watching it.
She agreed to try toys in our play and found that she enjoyed them. From that point on, I slowly introduced larger toys. I started with ones just a bit larger than me, and every so often I would add a newer, larger toy. About four years or so ago, I increased both the frequency of new toys and how much I increased the size.
We went from slightly bigger than me, to a fair amount bigger, to very large — so thick there’s no way to wrap your hand around it.
We went from me always picking out the toys, to the last one being ordered with her looking at the selection, pointing to one even thicker than I was going to suggest, and saying, “Get that one.”
We went from having to start with me to get her ready, and me having to work myself into her, to me entering her easily to get her ready, to her being ready easily, to not needing much warm-up at all, to having no problem starting with the biggest toy.
We went from her having an occasional orgasm, to an orgasm every time, to mind-blowing orgasms every time.
What surprised me the most is how, as she’s become looser the better she feels to me — and how much more often we have sex now. She used to put off a night for almost any reason, but now we have more nights together, and she rarely puts it off.
Has anyone else had an evolution like this, or something similar?

Beautiful!

 

[Darkenz]

Try reading my stories..in the masturbation/toy section. The John Holmes Model..You and the wife might enjoy them

Sounds fun, I’ll give it a read

 

[JessForFun37]

I started this journey years ago when we went to a hotel for a weekend away, just the two of us. After a few drinks, my very vanilla wife agreed to watch a naughty movie. The only theme available was well-endowed guys pleasing women. To my surprise, my wife got quite turned on watching it.
She agreed to try toys in our play and found that she enjoyed them. From that point on, I slowly introduced larger toys. I started with ones just a bit larger than me, and every so often I would add a newer, larger toy. About four years or so ago, I increased both the frequency of new toys and how much I increased the size.
We went from slightly bigger than me, to a fair amount bigger, to very large — so thick there’s no way to wrap your hand around it.
We went from me always picking out the toys, to the last one being ordered with her looking at the selection, pointing to one even thicker than I was going to suggest, and saying, “Get that one.”
We went from having to start with me to get her ready, and me having to work myself into her, to me entering her easily to get her ready, to her being ready easily, to not needing much warm-up at all, to having no problem starting with the biggest toy.
We went from her having an occasional orgasm, to an orgasm every time, to mind-blowing orgasms every time.
What surprised me the most is how, as she’s become looser the better she feels to me — and how much more often we have sex now. She used to put off a night for almost any reason, but now we have more nights together, and she rarely puts it off.
Has anyone else had an evolution like this, or something similar?

Anything John Holmes. Movies would be more vintage like, compared to today.

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

As you sized up the toys and have stretched her out over time, when you penetrate her now, do you last longer? Hoping you’re getting a win-win situation and she’s enjoying the toys and some longer fucking.

 

[Darkenz]

As you sized up the toys and have stretched her out over time, when you penetrate her now, do you last longer? Hoping you’re getting a win-win situation and she’s enjoying the toys and some longer fucking.

I did not notice much difference in how long I lasted when we first started but, now we are on to thicker toys and we have sex more often so she is getting even more stretching and I am lasting longer. The lasting longer has lead to bigger and better orgasms for me as well.

 

[sonicor]

That is awesome. I have known a handful of wives that have owned toys and always kept them on the small side to avoid hurting their husband's feelings. That or afraid of stretching out and have their husbands lose interest if you will. This is a great perspective to that.

 

[hotjimmy]

Would love to hear more about this and how big some of the toys are. Is she still trying to go bigger ?

 

[Wageslave]

Are you ever going to swap the toys for other men?

 

[BobRocket]

My wife and I have started to explore ‘fisting’ over the last few months. shes always liked the feeling of being stretched but something clicked recently and she’s been asking me to take it further. So we’ve been using toys a lot and then increasing the fingers and how far I push my hand in. We’re so close to getting my hand right in. And the sex has been amazing

 

[Darkenz]

That is awesome. I have known a handful of wives that have owned toys and always kept them on the small side to avoid hurting their husband's feelings. That or afraid of stretching out and have their husbands lose interest if you will. This is a great perspective to that.

I cannot speak for others but while how she feels has changed it has only improved for me.

 

[Darkenz]

Are you ever going to swap the toys for other men?

I am more open minded than my wife, I would give it a try, I know our relationship is very strong and it would not hurt it one bit. I also know she would enjoy it if she gave it a try. My wife however is a no go there. She just does not like the idea of bringing in a new person to our sex life.

 

[Darkenz]

Would love to hear more about this and how big some of the toys are. Is she still trying to go bigger ?

I hope this link works and it is an actual toy in the play-box. https://www.theadulttoyshop.com/10-inch-large-natural-relaistic-dildo.html . The image and description does not do it justice . If you were to put a measuring take around it, it would come in at over 7’’. We also have one that is tapered and about 8.5’’ at the base, she cannot take all that one yet but when and if it happens I will look for more. My wife is all about the girth, not the length.

 

[LeeKee]

My wife and I have started to explore ‘fisting’ over the last few months. shes always liked the feeling of being stretched but something clicked recently and she’s been asking me to take it further. So we’ve been using toys a lot and then increasing the fingers and how far I push my hand in. We’re so close to getting my hand right in. And the sex has been amazing

Long ago, wife and I used to play like this. Was an amazing time!

 

[Samantha47]

My wife and I have started to explore ‘fisting’ over the last few months. shes always liked the feeling of being stretched but something clicked recently and she’s been asking me to take it further. So we’ve been using toys a lot and then increasing the fingers and how far I push my hand in. We’re so close to getting my hand right in. And the sex has been amazing

That's awesome

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

Curious…with the fisting, is the focus mostly on her—or when do the fellows get off? Before, after, same time…and do the guys go first when she’s tighter? Complementary activities? Egalitarian teamwork for this or is there some level of submission or dominance?

 

[BobRocket]

Curious…with the fisting, is the focus mostly on her—or when do the fellows get off? Before, after, same time…and do the guys go first when she’s tighter? Complementary activities? Egalitarian teamwork for this or is there some level of submission or dominance?

For me the focus is all on her pleasure. Does that get me hard and excited. Yes. How do i get off? It depends but can be oral, sex or handjob after we’ve been stretching her.

 

[Lucien_Al]

I hope this link works and it is an actual toy in the play-box. https://www.theadulttoyshop.com/10-inch-large-natural-relaistic-dildo.html . The image and description does not do it justice . If you were to put a measuring take around it, it would come in at over 7’’. We also have one that is tapered and about 8.5’’ at the base, she cannot take all that one yet but when and if it happens I will look for more. My wife is all about the girth, not the length.

My wife is exactly the same. We find the described length does not seem to factor in girth. We have a 9 inch which she feels has similar girth but much longer than I am. She does not like it when we use the full length as she finds it painful if it is too deep.

 

[BobRocket]

My wife is exactly the same. We find the described length does not seem to factor in girth. We have a 9 inch which she feels has similar girth but much longer than I am. She does not like it when we use the full length as she finds it painful if it is too deep.

My wife has always said length is massively overrated (and over estimated but that’s another story) with penises

 

[Samantha47]

My wife has always said length is massively overrated (and over estimated but that’s another story) with penises

Girth is better

 

[JamesandAnn]

My wife likes girth in a toy.

We've explored some of the more tame toys up to a medium Topher Michaels. She has to be in the right mood and ready for play of that size.

We've also been exploring some of the offerings from Bad Dragon. We have a Stan in medium that really pushes her limits. Also have a Cole in medium that I really like using on her while eating her, love watching her lips flare around the knot.

We've also been playing with a small soft Razor from Bad Dragon, it was initially used as a warm up toy prior to anal. During play one evening she suggested trying DVP with Razor. That was a big hit for both of us.

 

[Darkenz]

Curious…with the fisting, is the focus mostly on her—or when do the fellows get off? Before, after, same time…and do the guys go first when she’s tighter? Complementary activities? Egalitarian teamwork for this or is there some level of submission or dominance?

Mostly i get her off first and then she puts effort into me, she is much better a dirty talking once she had had that first big orgasm and can talk, working up to thatnfirst orgasm she gets too into it to talk much at all, just some fun moans and sounds.