Going out dressed like a slut

[infinity706]

Because that's assuming most people will be glancing approvingly without being insulted and wanting that person to leave the public establishment for indecent exposure.

I think sometimes you forget, not everyone is as sex-positive as you.

Well, actually, I'm wondering if anyone on the planet is as sex positive as I am. Ideally, I'd prefer if safe sex were available anytime, with any person and it would actually be good sex for all involved.

 

[TallMan60]

I did something like that with an ex-bf some years ago. I only had the guts to do it because we were halfway across the country, so there was very little chance of bumping into a friend or co-worker or something. To make the story short, I dressed in a flimsy, too-tight t-shirt with no bra underneath and a short skirt with no panties underneath. The shirt wasn't see-through, but the darkness of my aureoles could be perceived. And, to put it mildly, my nipples were quite evidently poking the thin material. I usually wear bras that hide my natural pokiness, but now they were impossible to miss. Once I got the gumption, we went to a mall and shopped for a while. One thing I learned is that people aren't nearly as good at stealing glances without getting caught as they think they are. I also learned that walking around like that could be extremely arousing.

Love that. How did you take care of your arousal when you were done with your walk? Of course if I were with you, I would have helped you take care of your arousal *during* your walk.

 

[satindesire]

Well, actually, I'm wondering if anyone on the planet is as sex positive as I am. Ideally, I'd prefer if safe sex were available anytime, with any person and it would actually be good sex for all involved.

Yes, there are people out there that are a sex-positive as you are. But there aren't many, and that's what you should keep in mind.

 

[infinity706]

Oh, I do keep it in mind. I just can't very well find them without advertising. It's not like I claim my advice applies in all cases.

 

[zanderstar]

My ex used to do this all the time. It deff turned heads and if your only plaining on doing it the one night then go for it. but be warned you may love all the attention your getting while it makes him very jelous. just a thought. but good luck and have fun... fish nets r nice to. the keep the imagation going.

 

[BongoGal]

Sort of off topic, I guess, but just yesterday I put on a little show by accident. It's been crazy hot here, so I've naturally been dressing for the weather. When I went food shopping last night, the air conditioning in the market felt like an arctic blast, and my nips went into full-on high beam mode. Unfortunately, I didn't even notice this until I saw some college-aged guy nudge his buddy to check me out. I didn't know what piqued their interest until I looked down. Grrrr.... Yep, it was time to cross my arms until things settled down.

 

[teran]

I say....
dip your toes in the water first.

How about one of those lightweight black dresses that looks sexy but not too risque normally, but has has the habit of becoming more transparent under a camera flash?

http://images.thesun.co.uk/picture/0,,2004221602,00.jpg

You can take a bunch of flash pictures if the mood strikes... though observant onlookers *might* notice even without seeing the pictures, if they are paying attention when the flash goes off.

 

[Joankraig]

I agree with the others that it's too much. I say go braless OR pantyless not both @ same time. but there are a million ways you can dress "slutty" without offending others or getting TOO much attention. it's all about the fantasy you & hubby are creating... my version of slutty would be a tight t shirt, skirt, thigh highs, lingerie & hot pink or red lip gloss... Mmm!!

I've got to agree. Dressing slutty can be a turn on for both of you, but IMHO it is possible (sorry guys) to over do it. Good luck - Have Fun!

 

[NightL]

I suggest you do a little research into what clubs there may be in your own city... find a safe environment to be dressed up in (or undressed in)... In my city there is a growing scene of events and clubs where it is encouraged or even stipulated that people be dressed in an erotic manner. These are not swingers events... and although things can get hot and steamy in darkened corners and back rooms... the events are more about providing a safe environment where couples and individuals can freely express themselves in a sensual / erotic / fetish manner without fear of the type of attention that may lead to harm...

Of course he would also be expected to dress up as well...

...basically a kick arse dance party with everyone wearing wonderfully sexy costumes and outfits... sometimes just outragious... and sometimes nearly nothing at all... everyone looks and everyone wants to be looked at...

 

[PassionateStars]

Great thread here

Just found this thread and about to read it from the top to the bottom, so to speak.


David

 

[bisexualsmoker]

I did something like that with an ex-bf some years ago. I only had the guts to do it because we were halfway across the country, so there was very little chance of bumping into a friend or co-worker or something. To make the story short, I dressed in a flimsy, too-tight t-shirt with no bra underneath and a short skirt with no panties underneath. The shirt wasn't see-through, but the darkness of my aureoles could be perceived. And, to put it mildly, my nipples were quite evidently poking the thin material. I usually wear bras that hide my natural pokiness, but now they were impossible to miss. Once I got the gumption, we went to a mall and shopped for a while. One thing I learned is that people aren't nearly as good at stealing glances without getting caught as they think they are. I also learned that walking around like that could be extremely arousing.

Yes. It's amazing the things you can do when you are in a city where
nobody knows you. I've had some amazing times like that.
One can be fully free. Gay, bi or whatever.