Grey sex

[cousin_chuck]

I don't find many posts or stories involving sexually active people in their 60s, 70s, or 80s. I know it goes on. My current GF is in her 80s and has two paramours besides myself in their 50s. Makes for interesting stories but I never find them online. What's the opinion of old folks and sex? As the song says Nobody loves you whren you're old and gray." Is it true? I've not found it to be true.

 

[Rob_Royale]

You're talking about the difference between real life and fiction. As a 58-year-old, an older partner would be very enticing. I have a 72-year-old neighbor that I would love an opportunity with. But as a writer and reader my interests lie elsewhere.

 

[sirhugs]

I don't find many posts or stories involving sexually active people in their 60s, 70s, or 80s. I know it goes on. My current GF is in her 80s and has two paramours besides myself in their 50s. Makes for interesting stories but I never find them online. What's the opinion of old folks and sex? As the song says Nobody loves you whren you're old and gray." Is it true? I've not found it to be true.

Have you checked out the Mature category? I have been writing there since 2002.
I have written senior characters in that category and various other categories since then. As I have aged, I have written a number of stories featuring horny senior involving grandparents, neighbours, and others.
There have been intermittent dedicated threads on this forum, including my recent Snuggling Seniors thread. Some of us also introduce seniors variations in more general threads, such as the contest ideas threads.
So happy to see you start your thread.
The stories are out there, keep looking.
But we could use more and hopefully this thread will encourage them.

 

[cousin_chuck]

I have skimmed through the Mature category and learned that to most Literotica customers, "mature" means 40ish. What about those people whose children are 40ish? Or even 60ish? To read stories about women with sagging tits and drooping butts having good sex with men dealing with erection issues seems depressing if not farcical. Young people don't know what it's like for old folks to need to get out the blue pills and a tube of lube just to prepare for the foreplay, until the effort to have sex is not quite worth it. Not worth the time, effort, and erosion of dignity.

 

[ronde]

I qualify as being in the "matured" mature age group. I can tell you that the urge doesn't go away. It does diminish somewhat, but it's still there. It's also a bit different for men and women.

Men tend to have erection problems as they age. I'm not talking about what a doctor would diagnose as clinical ED. It's just that things don't get as stiff as fast or last as long and it takes longer for a repeat. That can be a self-sustaining problem if the man is particularly worried about aging.

Women in normal physical condition can always accept a man, though as they age they lubricate less and need some help. They may also feel less sexually attractive because of normal body changes.

Both are more mental issues than physical barriers, and successful couples approach them that way. Older couples can still enjoy intimacy through manual methods. Sex isn't always intercourse. It can be both partners pleasing each other in ways the fine enjoyable.

 

[sirhugs]

I have skimmed through the Mature category and learned that to most Literotica customers, "mature" means 40ish. What about those people whose children are 40ish? Or even 60ish? To read stories about women with sagging tits and drooping butts having good sex with men dealing with erection issues seems depressing if not farcical. Young people don't know what it's like for old folks to need to get out the blue pills and a tube of lube just to prepare for the foreplay, until the effort to have sex is not quite worth it. Not worth the time, effort, and erosion of dignity.

Well, I've written several, and I'm just one writer. There are others. It might not be the "mainstream" but it is out there. "most" readers don't like watersports either but there are watersports storiess for that fetish.

 

[PandaLover00]

I've written a couple of stories where the main character is in her 60's, but it's over in the Fetish section. Boss lady/mommy vibes.
I am working on one where one of the characters will be an 84 year old widow, that will fit squarely in the Mature section, no Fetish or BDSM planned for it.