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Yes, most definitely.

Has your SO ever fallen asleep during sex?

Nope, I keep hoping, but she says she enjoys it too much.

HYE thought about randoms things like changing your oil, getting your cat neutered, or what you need at the grocery store while having sex.
 
Nope, I keep hoping, but she says she enjoys it too much.

HYE thought about randoms things like changing your oil, getting your cat neutered, or what you need at the grocery store while having sex.


Yes, i went through a period of time with an uninspirational partner. I've also tried thinking about random things like that to try to hold off orgasm longer, but I'm unsure how well that works without killing the mood.

Have you ever found yourself really wanting to hook up with someone purely because something they said made you suspect there was some kink beneath their reserved exterior?
 
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Yes, i went through a period of time with an uninspirational partner. I've also tried thinking about random things like that to try to hold off orgasm longer, but I'm unsure how well that works without killing the mood.

Have you ever found yourself really wanting to hook up with someone purely because something they said made you suspect there was some kink beneath their reserved exterior?

Yes I have. Didnt quite pan out as I had hoped.

HYE takem a date to an adult book store?
 
Yes I have. Didnt quite pan out as I had hoped.

HYE takem a date to an adult book store?

Yes indeed, we spent way too much money on toys and went right home and used them on each other. Really great time.

HYE worried friends or family by spending so much time with a new partner that they wondered where you were or if you were ok?
 
Yep recently

HYE felt intensely connected with someone online and met and it crashed hard?
 
Yep recently

HYE felt intensely connected with someone online and met and it crashed hard?

Yeah, long time ago. Immediately discovered we weren't into each other at all. heh.

HYE gotten teased or heard comments from neighbors or roommates about the noise from your sexual activites from the previous night?
 
Yeah, long time ago. Immediately discovered we weren't into each other at all. heh.

HYE gotten teased or heard comments from neighbors or roommates about the noise from your sexual activites from the previous night?

Not really....we were almost always at her place.

HYE found out a friend or roomie was kinkier than you though?
 
Yeah, long time ago. Immediately discovered we weren't into each other at all. heh.

HYE gotten teased or heard comments from neighbors or roommates about the noise from your sexual activites from the previous night?

When we lived in a condo, yes!

HYE knocked on a wall in a hotel because the people were too loud?
 
When we lived in a condo, yes!

HYE knocked on a wall in a hotel because the people were too loud?

Haha no, but my exgf and I had neighbors who got loud sometimes, mostly we'd just listen and make snarky comments among ourselves. Or get turned on.

HYE told someone after the fact that you would have slept with him if he'd asked?
 
Not even once.

Have you ever purposefully combined fear and sex?

To a degree, public sex, which I've done my share of times, does just that with the fear of discovery. So yes, and since I was discovered once, it was pretty fearful. We did finish, however.

HYE been in a turned on by a stranger so much that your spouse calls you on it?
 
To a degree, public sex, which I've done my share of times, does just that with the fear of discovery. So yes, and since I was discovered once, it was pretty fearful. We did finish, however.

HYE been in a turned on by a stranger so much that your spouse calls you on it?

Not yet. But hope springs eternal, no? :)

Have you ever allowed yourself to be touched inappropriately by someone who shouldn't be touching you inappropriately?
 
Well, yeah, but only if I can reciprocate.

HYE been so thoroughly touched by someone who shouldn't be touching that you end up touching back?
 
Well, yeah, but only if I can reciprocate.

HYE been so thoroughly touched by someone who shouldn't be touching that you end up touching back?

Hasn't happened yet, no.

Have you ever encouraged your spouse to flirt with someone else (while you watched)?
 
Yes. I wish she would more. It's a turn on for me and eases my own guilt (some) for my flirty ways.

HYE discerned that someone your spouse is talking to really wants to get into his or her pants?
 
Yes. I wish she would more. It's a turn on for me and eases my own guilt (some) for my flirty ways.

HYE discerned that someone your spouse is talking to really wants to get into his or her pants?

Yes.

HYE flirted with someone to get a rise/reaction out of your spouse?
 
No.

HYE talked to said someone trying to score with your spouse and fucked with their head some?
 
No.

HYE talked to said someone trying to score with your spouse and fucked with their head some?

Yes actually a lot

HYE Flirted with someone who thought they had the upper hand on you only to crush them publicly and humiliatingly?
 
Yes actually a lot

HYE Flirted with someone who thought they had the upper hand on you only to crush them publicly and humiliatingly?

Once. It was high school and he was an awful person.

HYE had an instant spark with someone you just met?
 
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