Help please, how can I encourage wife to sleep around?

[Bbwcuckoldwannabe]

Hi married man with a very pretty mature wife , she gets lots of admiring looks from men as she is quite pretty but it's her huge boobs that get the majority of the attention. Whenever I catch men (and women) looking at them I get so turned on. She knows I like the idea of her sleeping with others and has "motorboated" men and women for a laugh. What can I do to encourage her to go much much further? Thanks

 

[Dmiller85001]

Have you ever talked to her about it? Is she interested - even hypothetically? What about a threesome with a woman at first? More information might be helpful.

-Dave

 

[Bbwcuckoldwannabe]

I have talked to her about it and she just doesn't want to, she is worried it would spoil the marriage. We both love each other and want to stay together and grow old together. Id just like to do it as well as see her lose herself in sexual exstacy with others...

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Obviously she is more committed to the marriage than you are.
Be careful what you wish for

 

[Bbwcuckoldwannabe]

I'm committed to her and our marriage and because of this I want her to have the most pleasure and fun that she can have, why is that wrong ?
I know that before we got together she was a bit of a tart and has had mmf and she regularly had sex with strangers .
I'm happy for her to resume these behaviours...

 

[LisaMayTurner]

Talk to her about it. She'll either love the suggestion or leave you. So there is a terrible risk involved.

 

[KatieDoes]

I'm committed to her and our marriage and because of this I want her to have the most pleasure and fun that she can have, why is that wrong ?
I know that before we got together she was a bit of a tart and has had mmf and she regularly had sex with strangers .
I'm happy for her to resume these behaviours...

If you want her to have the most pleasure and fun she can have, then why are you on here asking how to get her to do something that she has told you that she doesn’t want to do?

Your wife is an entire person. She’s not an object or something for you to play with. She is allowed to have her own preferences and make her own decisions. She is ABSOLUTELY in charge of who she does or does not choose to be intimate and vulnerable with.

You asked. She said no. Drop it. It’s not about you.