Helping a man eat his cum

[curiusgirl]

Hi everybody! I am looking for some advice on how to help a man learn to eat (and love) his own cum. I do not see this person in real life, but I am helping him out with this. He is extremely interested in trying it and working up to being able to eat his entire load, but is nervous and wants someone to help "train" him to do this. Do any men or women have any pointers? Or can any men share with me how they started to eat their cum (solo, not with a partner)? I have never been with a man who would actually do this, so I would appreciate any and all feedback.

 

[Skeebo11]

If you go to the GLBT section, thee are whole threads on there where people are slurping up their own loads by the handful or mouthful.

Maybe you two can get hooked up on Skype and you can talk him through eating his load over the video camera as it is happening.

The biggest drawback to your friend eating his cum is the "post orgasm blues".

A method I used was to lay on the floor by a door. Get your legs stretched up on either side of the door, with his cock over his mouth. He can catch the cum by aiming the best as he can for his mouth. Another way is to hold a piece of paper slicked down with spray on cooking oil to get the cum to flow from the paper to his mouth. Crease the paper lengthwise and it becomes a trough. When he cums, he will be still excited as the cum flows down the trough into his mouth.

Hope this helps

 

[curiusgirl]

If you go to the GLBT section, thee are whole threads on there where people are slurping up their own loads by the handful or mouthful.

Maybe you two can get hooked up on Skype and you can talk him through eating his load over the video camera as it is happening.

The biggest drawback to your friend eating his cum is the "post orgasm blues".

A method I used was to lay on the floor by a door. Get your legs stretched up on either side of the door, with his cock over his mouth. He can catch the cum by aiming the best as he can for his mouth. Another way is to hold a piece of paper slicked down with spray on cooking oil to get the cum to flow from the paper to his mouth. Crease the paper lengthwise and it becomes a trough. When he cums, he will be still excited as the cum flows down the trough into his mouth.

Hope this helps

Hmmm, it never occurred to me to check there....I will look later tonight when I have more time. But thanks for the great suggestions.....I look forward to having him try those out!

 

[kaycee217]

If you go to the GLBT section, thee are whole threads on there where people are slurping up their own loads by the handful or mouthful.

Maybe you two can get hooked up on Skype and you can talk him through eating his load over the video camera as it is happening.

The biggest drawback to your friend eating his cum is the "post orgasm blues".

A method I used was to lay on the floor by a door. Get your legs stretched up on either side of the door, with his cock over his mouth. He can catch the cum by aiming the best as he can for his mouth. Another way is to hold a piece of paper slicked down with spray on cooking oil to get the cum to flow from the paper to his mouth. Crease the paper lengthwise and it becomes a trough. When he cums, he will be still excited as the cum flows down the trough into his mouth.

Hope this helps

I think that's a huge explanation to a guy not wanting to eat his own cum.

 

[curiusgirl]

I think that's a huge explanation to a guy not wanting to eat his own cum.

Yes, that's what I'm hearing.....any other ideas or suggestions on how to overcome this would be very helpful!

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

Get him to shoot in his own mouth by rolling back onto his shoulders and pointing his cock at his mouth while wanking.

 

[subwannabe]

There's a couple of ideas that would work with your scenario. The best way would be to make him do it in person, kind of against his will, so to speak. That's what I like. But, since being in person sounds like not an option for you, you have these two choices:

1. Make him save up loads of cum in a container and put them in the freezer and then make him eat those on a different occasion while he is horny. Then it won't matter if he ever eats his fresh cum or not. This option can allow for cheating though, even on camera, if he is so inclined. Most likely he would not, since this is his fetish and he really wants to go through with it.

2. Have him on camera and force him to do it for you so you can watch him. Tell him that if he doesn't eat it all with you watching that you will simply disappear and he may never get the opportunity again. This will be a high incentive. I would like this option myself if I were in your situation. If you don't have the camera though cheating is a real possibility.

 

[curiusgirl]

Get him to shoot in his own mouth by rolling back onto his shoulders and pointing his cock at his mouth while wanking.

Great idea, I have heard of this before and it seems like a great way to beat the "post orgasm blues" I've heard others mention. But do you have to be pretty flexible to do that?

 

[TallMan60]

I eat my cum all the time after I orgasm when I masturbate. I don't save it up or anything like that. I don't know what the big deal is. Sometimes it tastes good, sometimes bitter.

I guess I would imagine that he wants to be trained so he can have some interactions with the trainer. Maybe the trainer gets aroused thinking about him eating his own cum.

 

[curiusgirl]

There's a couple of ideas that would work with your scenario. The best way would be to make him do it in person, kind of against his will, so to speak. That's what I like. But, since being in person sounds like not an option for you, you have these two choices:

1. Make him save up loads of cum in a container and put them in the freezer and then make him eat those on a different occasion while he is horny. Then it won't matter if he ever eats his fresh cum or not. This option can allow for cheating though, even on camera, if he is so inclined. Most likely he would not, since this is his fetish and he really wants to go through with it.

2. Have him on camera and force him to do it for you so you can watch him. Tell him that if he doesn't eat it all with you watching that you will simply disappear and he may never get the opportunity again. This will be a high incentive. I would like this option myself if I were in your situation. If you don't have the camera though cheating is a real possibility.

Hey Sub (or anyone else out there), have you ever done the "cum cubes" yourself? If so, do you have to nuke them? Let them thaw out?

And I plan to have him on cam so I can make sure he's following instructions, and the threat of leaving is a very good idea, which I am sure would work well in this case.

 

[curiusgirl]

I eat my cum all the time after I orgasm when I masturbate. I don't save it up or anything like that. I don't know what the big deal is. Sometimes it tastes good, sometimes bitter.

I guess I would imagine that he wants to be trained so he can have some interactions with the trainer. Maybe the trainer gets aroused thinking about him eating his own cum.

Hehehehe, yes, the trainer does get aroused thinking about it.

I've read things about how what you eat that day affects how your cum tastes, like coffee, spicy foods, and smoking makes it taste bitter, while fruits, juice, and water make it taste better......but I guess that's a little off-topic here.

 

[cumuncut]

You have to work slowly up to it, the easiest way is to taste some while you are still cumming that way you do not get the post orgasm blues as they were referred to hope it helps!

 

[Joankraig]

Snowballing. Have him cum in your mouth, then kiss him trading the cum back and forth. Something my husband and I do on a regular basis.
Good luck - once he starts there is never enough cum for both of you!

 

[curiusgirl]

You have to work slowly up to it, the easiest way is to taste some while you are still cumming that way you do not get the post orgasm blues as they were referred to hope it helps!

Good idea, I'll have him try this. I've also heard that if you can stop yourself from finishing cumming, then you still have that sexual desire to eat it, so you are less likely to just say forget it. But seeing as how I'm not a man (last time I checked, at least!), I am not sure what that's all about. How does a man stop himself from finishing? Is it just something they either know how to do or not, or are there any tips?

Snowballing. Have him cum in your mouth, then kiss him trading the cum back and forth. Something my husband and I do on a regular basis.
Good luck - once he starts there is never enough cum for both of you!

Yeah, while that would be really hot, this is something that he is doing solo. I am just helping him with some ideas on how to do this.....I am not around to actually help him out with it unfortunately!

 

[therealultimatedarkone]

Build up the "doses". Start small, work him up the latter to full load. The more he tastes it and gets used to it, the less likely he will be grossed out by it. I did it that way and it doesn't bother me anymore.

Incidentally, this works for learning to eat a strange food, too. Sometimes the first taste of a strange substance can be jarring. After a couple tries it can be easier.

 

[curiusgirl]

Build up the "doses". Start small, work him up the latter to full load. The more he tastes it and gets used to it, the less likely he will be grossed out by it. I did it that way and it doesn't bother me anymore.

Incidentally, this works for learning to eat a strange food, too. Sometimes the first taste of a strange substance can be jarring. After a couple tries it can be easier.

Good idea, darkone! I think the first time I have him taste it, it will be just a little lick off the end of his finger. And then will progress from there.

 

[sterculius]

I eat my cum all the time after I orgasm when I masturbate. I don't save it up or anything like that. I don't know what the big deal is. Sometimes it tastes good, sometimes bitter.



Same here. But in my case, I just love the taste. Mine or anyone else's. Just the thought of eating cum is very erotic. Incidentally Curiousgirl, how did you come to be the "trainer" of this distant acolyte?

 

[curiusgirl]

Same here. But in my case, I just love the taste. Mine or anyone else's. Just the thought of eating cum is very erotic. Incidentally Curiousgirl, how did you come to be the "trainer" of this distant acolyte?

Well, it's someone who I told about one of my fantasies of having a man slide down me and lick our fresh cum out of my pussy. And he shared with me that he really wants to be able to do that, and one thing just led to another.

 

[Graydon1966]

Well there is the suggestion that someone else has made, bend over on your back , legs over as far as possible and wank into open mouth, if he is a shooter then he should be able to cum into his mouth once he has the aim right !!..

With my wife, I sometimes cum over her tits and lick it up as she fingers herself to a cum, it erotic listening and watching her cum that I still feel horny enough to carry on

 

[Graydon1966]

Well, it's someone who I told about one of my fantasies of having a man slide down me and lick our fresh cum out of my pussy. And he shared with me that he really wants to be able to do that, and one thing just led to another.

Yes. I enjoy licking the fresh cum from wife's pussy as well....one of her fave's

 

[teemeup]

I tried to post this yesterday but my computer and I didn't get along well yesterday. So.......

I've recently learned how to get past the post orgasmic let down phase to be able to enjoy eating my own cum, both during masturbation, or licking it from my wife's pussy.

What I've found is that if I stop thrusting into my wife during intercourse or jerking myself during masturbation, just as I get to the "point of no return" phase of an orgasm and control myself enough to stop, my orgasm is a little less intense,and I more ooze cum rather than a more forceful "spurting" ejaculation, and don't experience that let down phase. I think this is somewhat close to the Tantric "male multiple" orgasm situation, and I don't totally lose my erection and am able to then continue onto a "full blown" orgasm right away.

It's great to be able to do this with my wife and a couple of different sessions have been me stopping thrusting into her and pulling out and then oozing my cum on her clit, then going down and eating her and my cum and bringing her to a huge orgasm, and stopping thrusting, pulling out, standing up over her and allowing my cum to drip down on her tits, and stomach, then going back to intercourse and smearing my cum between us while licking her tits clean as I'm fucking her. Nothing so great as being able to cum gently once and then again without waiting to regain another erection.

I will say that it doesn't happen often enough, because it's hard to control not wanting to go for that "BIG" orgasm right away.

 

[subwannabe]

Curiousgirl:

Yes, I have eaten cum cubes. Sometimes they have begun to thaw by the time I eat them but for the most part they are still frozen. I have never thawed them out completely. I have often wondered what that would be like. Nuking them seems unappealing to me since it would be difficult to have a consistant temperature throughout and I suspect that the consistancy would be different than fresh cum, probably watery.

There are good and bad parts to cum cubes. I personally don't care for the frozen cube in my mouth but the good parts outweigh the bad part. The good parts are it is easier to eat when you are in a state of arousal instead of after ejaculation and just doing it makes me quite horny thinking that I will be eating several loads of cum all at once instead of eating just one load. I guarantee he will be very horny if you make him put several loads of cum in a container and knowing that at some point he will have to eat it all. You could make a game out of it and have him jerk off every day or several times a day, not knowing at what point you will make him eat it all, whether it will be 2 or 3 loads or 10 (or more)!

What I personally prefer the most is my wife making me eat it fresh but that doesn't seem to be an option right now for you. Maybe later or maybe you could find someone to watch him or make him find someone to watch him (in person).

 

[curiusgirl]

Curiousgirl:

Yes, I have eaten cum cubes. Sometimes they have begun to thaw by the time I eat them but for the most part they are still frozen. I have never thawed them out completely. I have often wondered what that would be like. Nuking them seems unappealing to me since it would be difficult to have a consistant temperature throughout and I suspect that the consistancy would be different than fresh cum, probably watery.

There are good and bad parts to cum cubes. I personally don't care for the frozen cube in my mouth but the good parts outweigh the bad part. The good parts are it is easier to eat when you are in a state of arousal instead of after ejaculation and just doing it makes me quite horny thinking that I will be eating several loads of cum all at once instead of eating just one load. I guarantee he will be very horny if you make him put several loads of cum in a container and knowing that at some point he will have to eat it all. You could make a game out of it and have him jerk off every day or several times a day, not knowing at what point you will make him eat it all, whether it will be 2 or 3 loads or 10 (or more)!

What I personally prefer the most is my wife making me eat it fresh but that doesn't seem to be an option right now for you. Maybe later or maybe you could find someone to watch him or make him find someone to watch him (in person).

Ooooohh, I like your idea about making him jerk off and saving it every time, making him wonder when he'll have to eat it.....that is such a wonderful, evil idea!

Also a good idea about having someone there to make him eat it fresh, but I'm not sure if that's a possibility right now, but I'm not 100% sure on that yet.

 

[curiusgirl]

I tried to post this yesterday but my computer and I didn't get along well yesterday. So.......

I've recently learned how to get past the post orgasmic let down phase to be able to enjoy eating my own cum, both during masturbation, or licking it from my wife's pussy.

What I've found is that if I stop thrusting into my wife during intercourse or jerking myself during masturbation, just as I get to the "point of no return" phase of an orgasm and control myself enough to stop, my orgasm is a little less intense,and I more ooze cum rather than a more forceful "spurting" ejaculation, and don't experience that let down phase. I think this is somewhat close to the Tantric "male multiple" orgasm situation, and I don't totally lose my erection and am able to then continue onto a "full blown" orgasm right away.

It's great to be able to do this with my wife and a couple of different sessions have been me stopping thrusting into her and pulling out and then oozing my cum on her clit, then going down and eating her and my cum and bringing her to a huge orgasm, and stopping thrusting, pulling out, standing up over her and allowing my cum to drip down on her tits, and stomach, then going back to intercourse and smearing my cum between us while licking her tits clean as I'm fucking her. Nothing so great as being able to cum gently once and then again without waiting to regain another erection.

I will say that it doesn't happen often enough, because it's hard to control not wanting to go for that "BIG" orgasm right away.

That sounds great! It may take some practice, but wouldn't it be a fun thing to keep practicing!

 

[curiusgirl]

Yes. I enjoy licking the fresh cum from wife's pussy as well....one of her fave's

Lucky woman!