Honey, Am I Fat?

[dolf]

the older i get the more i wish i could carry wieght. i envy my curvaceous younger sister
i think women with a little extra weight age beter than skinny women too. *sigh* at least i have hips now...having kids has its benefits
if i want to know how i look i only ever ask my sis...not only does she have an amazing sense of style but she can be brutally honest without my feelings being hurt. to ask a man, who you want to desire you, to point out your faults is just plain dumb!

i've asked the fat question when i was pregnant and hormonal, lol, but i think that's forgivable
xx

 

[TigerClaw]

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[TigerClaw]

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[dolf]

I think that is a big part of my liking women with a little more the the suggested weight besides being a little curvier(?). There is one woman at work who is Hot to look at but in actuality I have never thought to bed her. She is too thin. I do have the feeling I'd break her.

read my title!
xx

 

[silver_inari]

the older i get the more i wish i could carry wieght. i envy my curvaceous younger sister
i think women with a little extra weight age beter than skinny women too. *sigh* at least i have hips now...having kids has its benefits
if i want to know how i look i only ever ask my sis...not only does she have an amazing sense of style but she can be brutally honest without my feelings being hurt. to ask a man, who you want to desire you, to point out your faults is just plain dumb!

i've asked the fat question when i was pregnant and hormonal, lol, but i think that's forgivable
xx

Hey dolf, I will cheerfully give you my extra weight. I'm all too glad to share.

 

[Hajar]

And if Sliver doesn't have enough I'll gladly add some of mine.

I don't ask the fat question I am fat/thick/big boned whatever, I come from amazon looking women, 6 foot and big bones, and I'm the shortest at 5'6 and still with the big bones, which I am sure of cause that's what the doc told me at 14 when I threw my knees out thank u doc just want I needed to hear.
I don't think I care much, I used to be 47-36-47 and I've thickened in the middle some what, so my aim is really to take some off the middle, but I like my ddd's even if out of a bra they don't look like Pam Anderson and my better half loves it cause he can beat my ass and not worry

 

[Vixandra]

Just not nice to ask one's beloved "Do you think I'm fat?"

Course, I agree with many posters- today's image of "perfect" is too thin.

Flesh is a good thing, long as she's healthy.

 

[TigerClaw]

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[ownedsubgal]

I think that is a big part of my liking women with a little more the the suggested weight besides being a little curvier(?). There is one woman at work who is Hot to look at but in actuality I have never thought to bed her. She is too thin. I do have the feeling I'd break her.

...and this is a bad thing?? one thing i love about being somewhat small/slender, is the fact that it only makes me that more frail and helpless in a Man's hands.

 

[TigerClaw]

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[Desdemona]

When I was larger, I so wanted to feel frail and helpless. Actually, I'm not frail and helpless now, but I still like to feel that way. mmmm, there's nothing like being held down and unable to get away no matter how hard I struggle as someone does something to me that I really don't like, but still crave and need. It makes me feel incredibly feminine to be that helpless and feel that powerless. I bet alot of us enjoy that.

 

[wicked girl]

being a 'svelt' woman, i dont need to ask if im fat. im sumptuous and i wouldnt change the way i am for anything...

 

[Despina]

being a 'svelt' woman, i dont need to ask if im fat. im sumptuous and i wouldnt change the way i am for anything...

Nor would I, sexy.

I don't ever feel the need to ask if I look fat. It's normally an inner feeling with me anyway. Most times I don't think I look that different on the outside, but I can feel fifteen pounds heavier from one day to the next. Go figure.

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[TigerClaw]

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[TigerClaw]

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[Despina]

I think society puts too much emphasis on weight. Ok, so there is a preferrable weight for health and what ever other excuse. But in terms of attraction I find I have been attracted to many different women.

I agree completely.

As for what I'm drawn to, I find it has much more to do with who she is inside than what she looks like outside. I can be initially attracted to someone that is stereotypically physically beautiful, but it means nothing if she doesn't have what it takes to challenge me physically, emotionally and intellectually. These things make up the large majority of a woman's appeal to me.


~D

 

[Desdemona]

Oh you just had do didnt you.

Pant Pant Pant Pant

Yeah, I did. It was a sincere sentiment that I just had to express. Besides, I really do feel that way.

 

[TigerClaw]

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[silver_inari]

When I was larger, I so wanted to feel frail and helpless. Actually, I'm not frail and helpless now, but I still like to feel that way. mmmm, there's nothing like being held down and unable to get away no matter how hard I struggle as someone does something to me that I really don't like, but still crave and need. It makes me feel incredibly feminine to be that helpless and feel that powerless. I bet alot of us enjoy that.

Likewise. THere's not much I can say to that except that I so totally agree with it. If the guy can pick me up, so much the better.

 

[Desdemona]

I was going to PM but I suppose I can say it here. I will bet there are Men that enjoy being forceful. I dont want to really hurt my partner but the more she resists the better. I like the lustful expression being shown to my woman.

I know for a fact that there are men besides you who enjoy being forceful just as I know that there are plenty of women who enjoy being the recipient of that force. It's delicious match of polar opposites.


ooooh silver, being picked up and carried somewhere against my will....... I have no words for that.

 

[TigerClaw]

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[Desdemona]

Dare I mention I have picked women up even during sex and carried them to the bed, couch, etc.

Damn.... you just had to do that, didn't you?

pant, pant, pant

 

[silver_inari]

I know for a fact that there are men besides you who enjoy being forceful just as I know that there are plenty of women who enjoy being the recipient of that force. It's delicious match of polar opposites.


ooooh silver, being picked up and carried somewhere against my will....... I have no words for that.

Yup...it is something which is motivating me to keep working out.

I do enjoy being the one who is the weaker of the two. If I feel like I could physically take them some of the dynamic can be lost.

 

[Guest]

Damn.... you just had to do that, didn't you?

pant, pant, pant

Ummm Isn't that normal?????

 

[Desdemona]

Ummm Isn't that normal?????

I've led a depraved.... no.. I mean a deprived life. LOL


silver, I know exactly what you mean.