How’s your married sex life?

[BioRef172]

I have posted her before - but some further tips. The wife and I have some 'night time rules'.

Always come to bed ready.
Always come to bed nude.
We have a single pillow, that we share.

Add those three rules, and by nature, you are going to have two naked people, fresh and clean, smashed together in bed.

It has been very successful for us.

 

[Playfull2024]

How’s the ‘ol sex life doing on your marriage? I get every relationship is different and goes through it’s ups and downs. Just curious I guess. Let’s hear your ages, years married and times per week/month. I’ll start
Me 36, her 35
9 years married
I’d say 8-10 times a month.

Ok you go

It's Great! Looking to find a lady to sext with on here! I would love it and my man would really love it

 

[Samtran123]

58 and 53. 3 to 5 times a month. She’s passed her menopause, but lube gel helps.

 

[Mtnmike]

Ugh. Same. None at all.

Same here for the past 15 plus year's

 

[drobert44]

No wife, my married woman is 9 hours away.

 

[Z2e9P3]

Hotter than ever! Both of us are exploring each other's secret desires more, after 25yrs married.

 

[Curiousmn]

Infrequent & boring!

 

[MH2024hot]

Hotter than ever! Both of us are exploring each other's secret desires more, after 25yrs married.

That's the way it should be, congrats.

 

[jackthelad11]

I’m 54, she’s 56. We’ve been married 32 years and together about 36 years. 2 boys in mid-20’s still at home. If I’m persistent enough, we have sex 7-8 times...per year

7-8 times...per year.....really?
Is that because your sons are still living at home and sex is not "appropriate" when they are home....or is there another reason?

 

[PMarky2]

Just about non-existent, old love! The missus has only bad luck on the health front.

 

[Norfolkguy49]

None at all

 

[Trubbycat]

 

[El_Dempo]

34 (me) and 33 (wife), painfully infrequent and strictly vanilla sex. Same story for years.

 

[Roswellcurious]

Mine is quite complicated. We've been married 25 years, and at the get go sex is pretty much what we based things on. We were both ready to go anytime. She is mid 40's and I'm 50 her desire for anything other than just do it and get it over left about 10 years ago. Then she went through a phase she didn't want it at all. Now it's sporadic at best but as I have gotten older my desire for her has changed. I find her attitude off putting, and she isn't as attractive to me as she used to be. I'm not saying that's right but just being honest, we have settled into a roommate situation where we get together once every 6-8 weeks.
I've realized that if we're not splitting and I'm not going out of the marriage then I am stuck and the only gratification I'm gonna have is with myself or whatever pleasure internet activities afford.

I understand all too well

 

[Roswellcurious]

7-8 times...per year.....really?
Is that because your sons are still living at home and sex is not "appropriate" when they are home....or is there another reason?

One lives at home and it is an excuse she uses but the real reason boils down to lack of interest on her part.

 

[Sgts19]

How is it? I feel like tapping out sometimes but don't tell her

 

[Bbl87]

Both 37.

Married 12 years.

MAYBE 1-2 times a month. Been that way all 12 years, unfortunate.

 

[hulmule]

In a sexless marriage... Do alot of stroking here.. Sad im wasting away. Been so long for some good necking and love making.

 

[zcraft5]

Both mid-40’s
Married 21 years
2 adult kids living at home

Just 5 years ago I could never complain. The only nit I had back then was that we were both subs so initiation could sometimes be an issue, but horniness would override that for one or both of us.

Now it sucks. We haven’t had sex since 2021 and we haven’t even come close. Despite mostly compatible schedules, she avoids me like the plague. She sits on the toilet for hours goes to bed so late that I can’t stay up to talk with her let alone have physical intimacy. When we do have time she doesn’t want to touch me, and reluctantly will give me a closed mouth kiss but only after I feel like I’m forcing it upon her like a creeper.

The thing is, I could handle the lack of physical intimacy but it’s the lack of emotional closeness that is driving me mad. I’m not tempted to have a physical affair more than I crave an emotional one.

same here

 

[zcraft5]

That’s awesome.

good for you your doing it right

 

[El_Dempo]

we're basically roommates, if that's enough of an answer..

 

[asaxon]

About once a month still.

 

[drobert44]

No wife, my married woman is 9 hours away.

At least I have a sissy an hour out.

 

[Deleted member 6903436]

See, a couple times a month after more than 20yrs. There is touching, cuddling from both of us. As my libido appears on the way up, a little more set would be nice.

 

[CliimaxForYou]

Appallingly
3 times a year

That’s 3 times a year more than I had for the last 3 years, my friend. Just finalized the divorce last month.