How’s your married sex life?

[Anihotrod11]

How’s the ‘ol sex life doing on your marriage? I get every relationship is different and goes through it’s ups and downs. Just curious I guess. Let’s hear your ages, years married and times per week/month. I’ll start
Me 36, her 35
9 years married
I’d say 8-10 times a month.

Ok you go

Me 37 her 31
7 years married
Once a month

 

[Anihotrod11]

Appallingly
3 times a year

I feel you pain.

 

[babyface23]

Mine is horrible. He demands sex every other day. He is a terrible lover, so I would rather do myself. I have no privacy, so it’s not often that I get to.

Quite the opposite here. My wife is not a good lover. (A lot is self consciousness about her body.) We’ve had sex once in 20 months. So very sorry for you

 

[Polranny]

Non existent

 

[SirSparky]

No longer married but when i was , it was non existent in the later years

 

[drobert44]

Quite the opposite here. My wife is not a good lover. (A lot is self consciousness about her body.) We’ve had sex once in 20 months. So very sorry for you

I sleep with my x, no sex, better that way, I love porn.

 

[RoanMtn]

Appallingly
3 times a year

Been over 20 years for me.

 

[Trubbycat]

Been over 20 years for me.

Five here (I say five but I’ve actually lost count)

 

[AnnieLit]

Mine is horrible. He demands sex every other day. He is a terrible lover, so I would rather do myself. I have no privacy, so it’s not often that I get to.

Are there any things YOU like to do to him? Anything that you enjoy giving, not receiving? He might be a terrible lover in terms of what he can give, but he can still provide a live body for you to play with. Mental satisfaction is much better than nothing.

Been doing it for quite a few years now, over a decade probably. Might not make everyone involved totally happy, but at least makes life better for both sides.

Also, why do you need privacy for selfplay? He knows that you are not done (I hope), so why not grab that vibe right after he got his release?

 

[BDA73]

Minimal...but my wife does so much for me that i deal with it...marriage is a lot more than sex

 

[shrek100]

I am very lucky reading some comments on here.
Been together 21 years now and still enjoy an active and varied sex life.
I would say if we averaged it out twice per week. Some weeks none at all, some weeks almost everyday.
I am just heading to menopause and wonder how things will change

 

[AnnieLit]

I am very lucky reading some comments on here.
Been together 21 years now and still enjoy an active and varied sex life.
I would say if we averaged it out twice per week. Some weeks none at all, some weeks almost everyday.
I am just heading to menopause and wonder how things will change

Very similar situation: 30+ years married, usually 3-4 times a week for us. I hope that things are not going to change much with rapidly approaching menopause. I am 53, not sure how much longer my body will keep up with my mind.

 

[SirSparky]

My ex wife started menopause early, around 45, jsu ta coupke years after I had the snip. Sex was already on the downside. By the end it was less than once a month. Early years it was several times a week and a bit adventurous

 

[Sgts19]

Both age 70
Married 47 years

Sex? Minimum twice a week
Average 3 times a week
Maybe 4 times once in a while

We do have these weeks occasionally where one of us gets super horny and it fuck fuck fuck

 

[SirSparky]

Both age 70
Married 47 years

Sex? Minimum twice a week
Average 3 times a week
Maybe 4 times once in a while

We do have these weeks occasionally where one of us gets super horny and it fuck fuck fuck

You are so lucky and hope it continues

 

[AnnieLit]

Both age 70
Married 47 years

Sex? Minimum twice a week
Average 3 times a week
Maybe 4 times once in a while

We do have these weeks occasionally where one of us gets super horny and it fuck fuck fuck

It's good to know that there is hope! Changes are scary, especially the unpredictability of them.

 

[rthnck]

Minimal...but my wife does so much for me that i deal with it...marriage is a lot more than sex

I agree with this but at least for me, sex is an integral part of marriage. The lack of sex in an otherwise very good marriage puts a pretty significant strain on it from my side of the bed. Not so much from hers.

 

[ilovetoeat42]

If I had a sex life I wouldn't be here...

 

[Cultivateddesires]

Tame.

I tell myself it should be quality not quantity.
The quality is middle>>high from an extremely limited menu.

Like a restaurant that wants to be Gordon Ramsey but is staffed by McDs.

 

[drobert44]

Tame.

I tell myself it should be quality not quantity.
The quality is middle>>high from an extremely limited menu.

Like a restaurant that wants to be Gordon Ramsey but is staffed by McDs.

Exactly

 

[bisissyhusband1]

Our sex life was long gone and dead in the water! Then my wife found me watching pegging porn and ramming a dildo up my ass.
She asked me to show her my favourites. 3 videos in she was masturbating and came hard!
Since then, she bought a strapon harness and a set of dildos and started pegging me. Several months on and she still pegs me almost every night and has also shared my “sissy pussy” with several of her girl friends. I’m in pegging heaven

 

[Winchester3030]

Non existent
Can’t even talk about sex much less have any

 

[drobert44]

Non existent
Can’t even talk about sex much less have any

Lmao

 

[LittleGreene]

Me 38
Him 47
Together 16 years
Two kids
1-2 times a week. But incredibly satisfying. Quality over quantity

Catching up after he had a bad accident.

Maybe looking to open the marriage to playing with others. Our first visit to a swingers club is booked for 13 days time….

 

[Cultivateddesires]

Me 38
Him 47
Together 16 years
Two kids
1-2 times a week. But incredibly satisfying. Quality over quantity

Catching up after he had a bad accident.

Maybe looking to open the marriage to playing with others. Our first visit to a swingers club is booked for 13 days time….

1-2 a week is quantity !