How can you really not like someone but still have sexual thoughts about them?

[JJScurious]

Part of the equation here is the opposite attraction. You see someone that goes totally against what you'd normally be attracted to, maybe it's a bad boy scenario or a large age gap or wildly differing personalities and looks that normally you find attractive. It's exciting to imagine how it would be to be with someone completely different. Sex appeal comes in all sorts of forms.

I think the attraction isn't even something that has anything to do with him personally. I think it's because of the position of authority, the way he seems unconcerned, and there also being that large age gap. I do realize that what happens in my head is something completely different than anything real. The real part makes me disgusted so that is why I struggle with myself as to how I can continue to think these things. Sex appeal does seem to happen so many ways.

 

[Leigh81]

I thought I needed therapy lol.
When my husband use to run one of his father's businesses the manager there was a man in his early 60's who was a disgusting obnoxious pervert who I loathed. Yet it was him who I fantasized about manhandling me & forcing me to do sexual things to him.

 

[JJScurious]

I thought I needed therapy lol.
When my husband use to run one of his father's businesses the manager there was a man in his early 60's who was a disgusting obnoxious pervert who I loathed. Yet it was him who I fantasized about manhandling me & forcing me to do sexual things to him.

God!! lol EXACTLY!

 

[SPARTAN047]

God!! lol EXACTLY!

Agreed, I've sometimes had thoughts about being forced into sexual submission by a group of horny nasty perverts. Close enough to the ugly bastard hentai genre.

Not my first choice, I'd go for the sexy shemales first but it's exciting either way.

 

[ChristyDancer]

A female praying mantis kills her mate -- often by eating his head -- after mating. I know a couple of guys I could fuck like that.

 

[JJScurious]

A female praying mantis kills her mate -- often by eating his head -- after mating. I know a couple of guys I could fuck like that.

At least a way of erasing the memory of the one I'm thinking of....it wouldn't take very much erasing with him...