Do subs struggle not to laugh? What happens when they do?

[Luv4hotwives]

This sounds silly, but I was watching various random things on youtube and came across a Conan O'Brien clip of him visiting a dominatrix.

As she was ordering him around, I tried picturing myself in the same situation and I don't see how I'd not be able to stop myself from laughing. Granted, that clip was meant to be funny, but still. The irony is I actually have a very submissive personality. The few times I've been tied up and lightly "dominated" I was aroused, but it was so hard to contain the giggles. In theory, I'd love to be in a gentle femdom type relationship, but somehow I don't think my hypothetical partner would be very pleased with me giggling as I squirmed.

Anyway, now onto my question. Are you a sub and do you laugh when being dominated? Or do you have a sub that laughs? Does it ruin the experience? It's something I'm genuinely confused about.

 

[Socci]

I used to be surprised and somewhat disappointed when, after setting up a strict and scary scene, and spanking a sub's bottom hard, the reaction I got was grinning and giggling

Until I decided to try receiving spanking on me, and I found myself also beaming like a Cheshire cat and battling the urge to laugh

It's a natural and involuntary reaction caused by endophines. Savour and enjoy whichever end you're on!

 

[magic_rat]

It can be a purposeful effort by the sub to provoke further punishment; bratty behaviour.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

I used to be surprised and somewhat disappointed when, after setting up a strict and scary scene, and spanking a sub's bottom hard, the reaction I got was grinning and giggling

Until I decided to try receiving spanking on me, and I found myself also beaming like a Cheshire cat and battling the urge to laugh

It's a natural and involuntary reaction caused by endophines. Savour and enjoy whichever end you're on!

That's funny! I guess there is something to be said for being able to laugh during sex

 

[Luv4hotwives]

Does is bother the dom generally?

 

[emme8]

I was taught the smile is instinct under stress. So are giggles, although much less effective.

I've always been a giggler.
Whip me with a flogger, there is a high chance I'm going to be giggling. Adding some harsh or humiliating words because I am enjoying it, would probably only intensifies it.

But my only experience has been outside of a 'discipline' scenarios. I'm there to receive spanking and sex. He is there because he likes administering spankings and sex.

Who knows how I would react in a discipline scenario

 

[Kumquatqueen]

Heh. I recall a friend telling me to stop laughing when I got a fit of the giggles. Followed by telling me he'd beat me until I stopped laughing.

That was a mistake! I think both of us were more sore in our chests from laughter than my backside or his shoulder were, after an hour or so.

BDSM is just like sex - sometimes you just have to accept that it really is very silly. Finding scenarios that are hot rather than just daft for both of you, is crucial.

 

[SPARTAN047]

This sounds silly, but I was watching various random things on youtube and came across a Conan O'Brien clip of him visiting a dominatrix.

As she was ordering him around, I tried picturing myself in the same situation and I don't see how I'd not be able to stop myself from laughing. Granted, that clip was meant to be funny, but still. The irony is I actually have a very submissive personality. The few times I've been tied up and lightly "dominated" I was aroused, but it was so hard to contain the giggles. In theory, I'd love to be in a gentle femdom type relationship, but somehow I don't think my hypothetical partner would be very pleased with me giggling as I squirmed.

Anyway, now onto my question. Are you a sub and do you laugh when being dominated? Or do you have a sub that laughs? Does it ruin the experience? It's something I'm genuinely confused about.

So like when you know your Dom/me is play acting and their strict behaviour makes you laugh? Even if they're yelling at you?

I'm not sure. I don't think I've ever been giggling when I was spanked and that was several times even in public. I have such a low pain threshold that I start crying out in pain almost right away, it just hurts my arse so much. I don't have the energy to giggle.

I've been told to get on my hands and knees to lick my Dom/me's feet and I didn't giggle. IDK if I was aroused or just humiliated enough not to laugh.

 

[Scarred65]

I've had it happen both ways. I have limited experience, admittedly, not really being in the scene and I can't be psychologically dominated anyway so it's just been a play thing really. One really Dom guy I hooked up with just stopped, still happy, as I think I was enjoying it too much for him lol so we just went at it semi vanilla. Another guy was just so bad at it I couldn't help laughing. I did the whole " it's me, not you" thing. He loved getting fucked so he was probably in bottom denial.

 

[Boat1]

My Domme Wife and I do everything... love, live, laugh and cry together. None of it is ever "put on" or fake.
We also share some really harsh sadomasochism and I can assure you, there's no chance of misplaced laughter.
I'm currently wearing the "markage" to prove it.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Hlo bitch

Hello.

 

[SPARTAN047]

How are you slutty bitch

Good, I think.

 

[Stejar1Dude]

This sounds silly, but I was watching various random things on youtube and came across a Conan O'Brien clip of him visiting a dominatrix.

As she was ordering him around, I tried picturing myself in the same situation and I don't see how I'd not be able to stop myself from laughing. Granted, that clip was meant to be funny, but still. The irony is I actually have a very submissive personality. The few times I've been tied up and lightly "dominated" I was aroused, but it was so hard to contain the giggles. In theory, I'd love to be in a gentle femdom type relationship, but somehow I don't think my hypothetical partner would be very pleased with me giggling as I squirmed.

Anyway, now onto my question. Are you a sub and do you laugh when being dominated? Or do you have a sub that laughs? Does it ruin the experience? It's something I'm genuinely confused about.

I don't know

So like when you know your Dom/me is play acting and their strict behaviour makes you laugh? Even if they're yelling at you?

I'm not sure. I don't think I've ever been giggling when I was spanked and that was several times even in public. I have such a low pain threshold that I start crying out in pain almost right away, it just hurts my arse so much. I don't have the energy to giggle.

I've been told to get on my hands and knees to lick my Dom/me's feet and I didn't giggle. IDK if I was aroused or just humiliated enough not to laugh.

SPARTAN, I lived life for many years as a hard-core biker, and lady as a rule women were TREATED LIKE SHIT. Please help me understand why you would choose to live this life? Let me explain. I was/still am into Bondage/BDSM and kinky as all hell, and when we'd play it would get wild and yes It could get rough, But they all knew it Was a GAME with SAFE words. MY WOMAN at Least, and yes I'd share Because I loved watching them get pleasure. It seems your OWNER sees u as Meet, I'm sorry. If he hurts you. Do u think he Loves you? Nop,e he's a Fuckibg loser, Any woman who allows herself to be hurt/humiliated in public. Join a Bike club. At least you will be passed around and smacked daily, What's the difference? Oh yes You can hang with other gals at the Clubhouse, some of the Bros will treat you cool .Not cool some od the things I read and see. Sorry. If you like it Hey who am I to judge?

 

[Britva415]

Does it ruin the experience?

Some doms/subs are into the whole brat/brat-tamer thing.

 

[lilmissdarling]

This sounds silly, but I was watching various random things on youtube and came across a Conan O'Brien clip of him visiting a dominatrix.

As she was ordering him around, I tried picturing myself in the same situation and I don't see how I'd not be able to stop myself from laughing. Granted, that clip was meant to be funny, but still. The irony is I actually have a very submissive personality. The few times I've been tied up and lightly "dominated" I was aroused, but it was so hard to contain the giggles. In theory, I'd love to be in a gentle femdom type relationship, but somehow I don't think my hypothetical partner would be very pleased with me giggling as I squirmed.

Anyway, now onto my question. Are you a sub and do you laugh when being dominated? Or do you have a sub that laughs? Does it ruin the experience? It's something I'm genuinely confused about.

It's varied. On the one hand, I've laughed trying to push buttons. To see how much I could get away with before getting punished.

But I've also experienced the other side as an automatic response. I've laughed and it was quickly followed by tears. Our bodies response to excitement, anxiety(nervousness) and pain can differ.

As far as the dominants response, it depends on the situation. Was the submissive being disrespectful, or was it an automatic response. They should react to both very differently.

 

[Sol41]

I used to think laughing during sex was a mood killer but its a normal part of our bedroom advantures now. And its enriched our sex life quite a lot.