How can you tell?
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silverwhisper
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i'm married and have been for a while now. but i'm a guy, which means i can be a bit obtuse. :>
but yeah, i think it does vary by the individual and/or relationship. my wife isn't particularly demonstrative when she's in the mood, but she's better than she used to be about this so i usually have an inkling.
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but yeah, i think it does vary by the individual and/or relationship. my wife isn't particularly demonstrative when she's in the mood, but she's better than she used to be about this so i usually have an inkling.
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Hmm , you know i'm kinda still blur at this sometimes because he normally just hug, it makes no different than daily hugging. So I was thinking 'yes or no' ?. God, I felt so bad talking about him already. But sometimes I just ask straight. LoL
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I'm sure those with more considered opinions than me will concur when I say eveyone is different.
In my experience, with some people it's as simple as if they awake they're horny, with others it's impossible to tell till they stick their hands down your pants. With some people it can be both of the above, which doesn't make it at all easy. It could be that they smiling more than usual, or how they're dressed, or are do they seem a little more misty eyed than usual.
If the signs are subtle, I think it's just a case of getting to know your partner, and that takes a little time.
In my experience, with some people it's as simple as if they awake they're horny, with others it's impossible to tell till they stick their hands down your pants. With some people it can be both of the above, which doesn't make it at all easy. It could be that they smiling more than usual, or how they're dressed, or are do they seem a little more misty eyed than usual.
If the signs are subtle, I think it's just a case of getting to know your partner, and that takes a little time.
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It´s more about how he reacts to a kiss or a hug or perhaps some flirting, than anything else but I´m sure, like you said, everyone is different.
I think it depends very much on my own mood, if I notice or not.
I think it depends very much on my own mood, if I notice or not.
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i can tell when my boyfriends wanting to get laid lol its actually really adorable lol
He's easy to figure out when he's wanting some, me on the other hand - ya can never tell. I'm the type of person that i would rather please him no matter what mood i'm in.
I can tell when he's horny cuz he'll reach in for a hug, and give me a big hug then ask for a kiss. Its when he asks for a kiss that i know he's wanting some. lol sounds so quarky but its too cute. i love it.
He's easy to figure out when he's wanting some, me on the other hand - ya can never tell. I'm the type of person that i would rather please him no matter what mood i'm in.
I can tell when he's horny cuz he'll reach in for a hug, and give me a big hug then ask for a kiss. Its when he asks for a kiss that i know he's wanting some. lol sounds so quarky but its too cute. i love it.
Very well info fenghuang, thanks and yes understanding your partner's need and consideration really needs a little time
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Yup, I personally think the response is very important. There should be a click there as if u knew his answer without saying it out loud.
Seriously the mood part(when im moody) is the the thing that scares him the most lmao
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thats very cute. Did you both ever try a light scratching along the back spinal area working down the buttock? It sure puts a good start off. It works for me and my bf 
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He gets irritate when I tease him and i've no idea why but I loved it when he tease me so this part I leave it to him, ain't gonna spoil that moment if both of us are in the mood.
Good tips there thanks!
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It's easy with men. If they are breathing then they probably want it. With women I think there are two kinds. One kind teases by being sexy or wearing sexy clothing. The other does nothing and expects the man to make the moves and get the ball rolling. If she's in the mood then she'll do it. If not then she won't.
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Sadly, I fear that is often all too true
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Yup
That would be a good guess.
Communication of some form might play a part too.
Seriously ... when you've been with somebody for awhile and you've been PAYING ATTENTION you can usually figure out what kind of mood she's in just by her taste.
Hormones play a huge part so knowing where she is in her monthly cycle can help a lot. The close most women are to their period the hornier they are (generally) so those are the times to get wild, crazy and kinky. The other times she'll more than likely appreciate some sweet gentle loving. Again, that's GENERALLY. Result may vary as per:
That would be a good guess.
Communication of some form might play a part too.
Seriously ... when you've been with somebody for awhile and you've been PAYING ATTENTION you can usually figure out what kind of mood she's in just by her taste.
Hormones play a huge part so knowing where she is in her monthly cycle can help a lot. The close most women are to their period the hornier they are (generally) so those are the times to get wild, crazy and kinky. The other times she'll more than likely appreciate some sweet gentle loving. Again, that's GENERALLY. Result may vary as per:
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we're pretty comfy to just ask for it or suggest towards
I'm not an expert here Mr.G. Well he is my 2nd so there's still curiousity in me you know? But most of the time I just ask him straight, tired of guessing. There were times when he was really desperate for it I can tell. As for myself, he knows it everytime when I want it.
Heard from friends that men and women react differently depending on situation, how their
Partner treat them, their dressing, partner being kinky on dressing as different character, the environment, mood, or even the loves of a partner that being so considerate and supportive.
This subject were actually quite broad.
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I want it all the time. Only time I don't is if I'm sick and can't breath cause of a clogged nose...then I'll still accept a good blow job.
I had a super fever last year and was shaking and stuff and pretty much told her, "This is the only night we've been married that I don't want to have sex." Not that she wanted to have sex, but it was a real moment for me, no desire for sex. Under normal circumstances her face flushes when she's interested, but we're like most people, you talk about going to bed at 7 o'clock which means we're gonna have some fun.
I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years. The first few years we were together, when I wanted to get it on i'd just unbutton his pants and go to town. When he wanted to do it he'd say "lets go upstairs". We had a few bumps in our relationship and i havn't made any advances towards him in any kind of way in probably 4 years. If i'm horny I take care of it on my own after he goes to sleep. When he wants it he just says "we gotta do it tonight".
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