How do I attract a woman?

Scarlet Kai

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I've been bi-curious since I first began even thinking about sex. I fantasize about women constantly... but I've never had the opportunity to act on my urges. Every time any of my friends would have a drunken "accidental" all-girl orgy I happened to not be there for some reason or another... I've never been in a traditional college environment - in which I hear often that many "experiments" occur...

I'm not single, but I would happily welcome the chance to be with a woman and I know my significant other wouldn't mind either. But how on earth do I get this to happen? I’m sick of waiting around for it to happen to me, and I’ve tried to “pick up” girls here and there, but I soon find out that they aren’t curious – without really making my curiosity known. I have ended up making many friends though.

I’m an attractive girl… I’m in great shape and men seem to think I’m visually pleasing… I have no problem picking up men, but I have no idea how to get a girl.

Anyone have any tips?
 
Yes, thank you, I've already browsed there, but honestly, I've never been a fan of having physical relationships through online meetings. I'm main question is how to attract women in real life situations.
 
Then I wish you all the luck. It can be hard. You might want to check around see if you can post a personal in a magazine in your area. Or find a local swinger's group where you can meet people.

Other than that I am out of ideas.
 
Oh thank you for helping though :)

I might try out a singles only thing, there are a few singles gettogethers around here that I could try out. I didn't even think of that idea. Hopefully there I might run into another curious person like me :)
 
"HELLO!" Go to a gay bar/club/talk. There you will have evened up the odds a little of her definately being gay. Bi at least, no curious at least. Or a Pansexual bar/ / / if you enjoy the frison of having to guess her sexuality? where the girls may well be staight.

You might want to check out with your bf, does he mind if you have a sexual relationship without him being involved in any way?

Or put up a advert here in personals. There is a high likelihood someone will want to personally help. Purely in a altruistic sense of course:p
 
By way of a ps.
Do me a favour though, dont attract a girl in your beauty now, then go cut your hair, wear army fatigues, or checked shirts. You dont have to lose your femininity, to be bi.

Have fun!
 
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