How do I let my boss know I'm interested?

[infinity706]

So...not to hijack the thread but along the same lines....how do I let my ex-boss know that I'm interested next week when I see him? Or do I just keep quiet?

Well, I'd assume, just like any other guy. You could ask him out to dinner or something. That's typically how people do it unless you're talking hookups. Of course, if he's as openminded as me, just asking if he'd like to go back to your place and fuck your brains out later that night might work.

 

[SweetErika]

So...not to hijack the thread but along the same lines....how do I let my ex-boss know that I'm interested next week when I see him? Or do I just keep quiet?

You said you're staying in the same hotel, right?

If so, could you ask him if he'd like to have a drink/nightcap with you, then come back to your room to 'catch up' or something similar?

I know it's cliche, but he should get the message loud and clear because of that, in part. Not being too blatant would also give him an out if he's not interested for whatever reason.

 

[Felix_Jones]

*Astonished*

I agree it's very unwise to get involved with colleagues or bosses but YOU PEOPLE CAN GET SACKED FOR THAT????

Over here we would see that as a massive violation of our rights as human beings. The only way someone her could get sacked would be if the affair was affecting their work - and the sacking would have to be entirely about the quality/quantity of their work.

Two people wanting to shag each other and then proceeding to shag each other is not sexual harrassment!

You assum that the United States is a nation familiar with the rule of law. Not the case.

 

[infinity706]

You said you're staying in the same hotel, right?

If so, could you ask him if he'd like to have a drink/nightcap with you, then come back to your room to 'catch up' or something similar?

I know it's cliche, but he should get the message loud and clear because of that, in part. Not being too blatant would also give him an out if he's not interested for whatever reason.

I don't know about not being too blatent. Even today, I still miss a lot of hints. Of course, I'm probably just one of the weird ones that wishes someone throwing theirself at me actually meant shoving me up against a wall and having thier way with me.

 

[NomadLady]

I don't know about not being too blatent. Even today, I still miss a lot of hints. Of course, I'm probably just one of the weird ones that wishes someone throwing theirself at me actually meant shoving me up against a wall and having thier way with me.

Oh Trust me....he's the kind of "hot" that I'd love to shove aganist the wall and have my way with......we HATED each other at first when our two companies merged and he became my boss, then we got to know each other and got along really well. Then another company merger and he hasn't been my boss in about 18 months now. We are friends on Facebook and twice in the past year he's asked me to fly in and work at his offices to train new employees.

I know he likes good cigars and I told him I'll bring him some left over from my last bike rally and he is looking forward to that I know.....

(waiting on the Bill Clinton cigar jokes now)...LOL