how do I make him my bitch?

[rbijon]

When she makes me her bitch ...or 'pussyboy'...she uses the strap-ons...panties...even stocking at times...and assorted riding crops, paddles, belts...

Yes it is fun, if it's your cup of tea. I enjoy it. We don't do it on a regular basis, but when we do...it's over-the-top hot!

I am the dominant one...but it's nice to have the tables turned once in a while.

Fun, and silly that is how my Mistress and I like it!
...and she does fuck me silly while I have on Her panties!

 

[FamilyGuyRocks]

strap-on dildo will really help.

 

[LadyWhiteWolf]

Confidence

I'm a very confident woman and I carry myself that way. I expect respect, I never demand it. Since coming here to Lit, I find myself having offers from men to be my sub. Now, I'm a hetero woman and am not into the dom/sub scene. But I have found that if you expect respect, you'll have men practically begging to be your sub "bitch".

Good Luck!

 

[hogjack]

I'm a hetero woman and am not into the dom/sub scene. But I have found that if you expect respect, you'll have men practically begging to be your sub "bitch".

The whip and your sultry deep voice help.

 

[LadyWhiteWolf]

I assure you hogjack, no whip is necessary. Just a smooth, sultry soft voice does the trick.

 

[cresteada]

I agree with most of the answers above but the issue is domination vs. BDSM. I’m not into the BDSM seen. Not into pain. Not into crawling. Not into collars or leashes. Not into being tied up. Not into being dressed up. Not into being belittled or humiliated.

BUT I do think it's a turn-on to be with someone who is assertive … politely controlling … lovingly dominant … wants to unpeel my onion and talks me into exposing my deepest fantasies.

I think if "most" men were honest, they'd agree that they are into someone who:
1) Tells him her favorite sex position and then instructs him on how she wants it.
2) Constantly explores erotic web sites in search of new ideas, new techniques, and new positions and then tells him what to do while we try them out.
3) Rides him cowgirl to his orgasm where she then helps him past the loss of his post-orgasm “blues” where she talks him into allowing her to sit on his face and eat his own cum from her for her enjoyment and orgasm just becuase it sounds so darn nasty.
4) Asks him if he'd like to watch her have sex with other guy so she can act out the “slut in her” and then have him watch while she does.
5) Asks him if he'd like to watch her have sex with another woman and then have him watch while she does.
6) Instructs him on how to have sex with another woman and then she watches while he does.
7) Sports a strap-on and tells him how she’s going to do him doggy with it and how much she's gonna love penetrating him that way.
8) Asks him to jack off for her and then she sits and watches him shoot.

So maybe it IS about being someone's "bitch" but as a guy, I think it's more about you taking the time to unpeel the onion of his fantasies that he craves the most.

Try it. You both might enjoy it!