How do you control sex drive?

[Lolaandteddy99]

Genuine question. Seeking advice. Hypersexual and trying to not focus on it so much but it is so damn hard especially when ovulating.

 

[oneoffAkind]

Genuine question. Seeking advice. Hypersexual and trying to not focus on it so much but it is so damn hard especially when ovulating.

Browsing here may be a good way ;-)

 

[Lolaandteddy99]

Browsing here may be a good way ;-)

Lol feel like I use here as relief but it also makes me want more

 

[Pabiporffor]

Wait! We're supposed to control it?

 

[Lolaandteddy99]

Wait! We're supposed to control it?

I mean ovulating horny is a different kind of horny!!!

 

[oneoffAkind]

I mean ovulating horny is a different kind of horny!!!

Mmm, yeah - 100% uncontrollable based on my experiences.

 

[9to5]

I thought it was a good horny. at least as a male and she gets that kind of horny is god for me

 

[Lolaandteddy99]

Mmm, yeah - 100% uncontrollable based on my experiences.

Hence the question.

 

[liqueur]

Genuine question. Seeking advice. Hypersexual and trying to not focus on it so much but it is so damn hard especially when ovulating.

So long as you stay safe, I see no value in controlling it.

 

[Lolaandteddy99]

I thought it was a good horny. at least as a male and she gets that kind of horny is god for me

It's a distracting horny. Id like to be able to focus on other things and not need to go to the toilets un work to touch myself because Brian in work smelt nice

 

[Lolaandteddy99]

So long as you stay safe, I see no value in controlling it.

I suppose thats the worry. At times it feels like a very tight rein to not do something stupid

 

[JennyCapricorn]

Genuine question. Seeking advice. Hypersexual and trying to not focus on it so much but it is so damn hard especially when ovulating.

Have a couple of your kids in the house; emotional and physical exhaustion will do a number on that!

In all seriousness, scheduled climax periods; turn the need into a waiting game, knowing you're only allowed to cum a certain times. Fine a Dom or Domme on here who will treat you right if you don't think you can manage it without supervision. Make the need part of the play and it can get a little easier.

 

[9to5]

It's a distracting horny. Id like to be able to focus on other things and not need to go to the toilets un work to touch myself because Brian in work smelt nice

then how about a chastity belt so you cant touch it? I use a chastity cage

 

[Lolaandteddy99]

Have a couple of your kids in the house; emotional and physical exhaustion will do a number on that!

In all seriousness, scheduled climax periods; turn the need into a waiting game, knowing you're only allowed to cum a certain times. Fine a Dom or Domme on here who will treat you right if you don't think you can manage it without supervision. Make the need part of the play and it can get a little easier.

Oh I like the idea of that...climax periods. I'd love anything that would make the need easier and less controlling

 

[liqueur]

I suppose thats the worry. At times it feels like a very tight rein to not do something stupid

Can you cum by squeezing your thighs together? I knew a woman who could do that— undetected— in public. And did. It kept her from going crazy when I, or her husband (or who knows how many others?) weren't around.

 

[Lolaandteddy99]

Can you cum by squeezing your thighs together? I knew a woman who could do that— undetected— in public. And did. It kept her from going crazy when I, or her husband (or who knows how many others?) weren't around.

I can when very horny but also a gusher/squirter so not subtly. I want a magic cure - put a cold spoon on your pussy and your sex drive will calm down

 

[liqueur]

I can when very horny but also a gusher/squirter so not subtly. I want a magic cure - put a cold spoon on your pussy and your sex drive will calm down

Whoo, I doubt that! Though there were the proverbial cold showers...

My advice is to cum as often as you can as many different ways as you can, when not at work, and make a game of self-denial when you are.

 

[Stopokochac]

I DON'T. And believe me, I've tried. The only way for me to control it is just to not feel horny, and I get horny easily. The only time I really controlled it, was when I was in a Muslim country for 2 weeks. I literally didn't feel horny at all So I guess you can go to an enviornment where you won't feel horny. I get the distracting part, but as long as you're not hurting anyone and it's not getting you in trouble, I don't really think there's a need to control it. You're 19, so it's completely normal to be horny

 

[Satyriac]

I've had it all my life. Used to jerk 10x per day when I was a teenager, later in life tried to have sex as much as possible (and more), compensated with jerking. Only a few girls could satisfy my urges.

Over time I discovered roleplaying helps, writing porn far an hour or two helps. Not talking about chat rooms, those are hell, proper storytelling with writing partners. Try that, read porn, write porn.

Or do gardening. Knew I girl who was proper nypho, she spends her days now growing tomatos and garlic haha...

 

[liqueur]

How do you control sex drive? Genuine question.

You're 19, so it's completely normal to be horny

@Lolaandteddy99 : I didn't know you were 19. Nobody controls their sex drive at 19!! Just have fun!

 

[Satyriac]

Ah, 19. Yeah, normal.

 

[Lolaandteddy99]

I know 19 is young but I spend all my time thinking about it. Instead of doing things at the weekend I'm humping teddy or touching myself.

I got 3 hours sleep last night because I couldn't stop touching. I cant do this forever!! I was meant to meet friends later and instead im chatting to a 50yr old man online.

 

[Stopokochac]

I know 19 is young but I spend all my time thinking about it. Instead of doing things at the weekend I'm humping teddy or touching myself.

I got 3 hours sleep last night because I couldn't stop touching. I cant do this forever!! I was meant to meet friends later and instead im chatting to a 50yr old man online.

NGL, that's actually really hot that you're THAT horny! You should be humping a dick though 50? WOW! I'm probably too young for you then

 

[Lolaandteddy99]

NGL, that's actually really hot that you're THAT horny! You should be humping a dick though 50? WOW! I'm probably too young for you then

Wasn't trying to be hot. I just want it to stop for awhile.

 

[Stopokochac]

Wasn't trying to be hot. I just want it to stop for awhile.

I know. I'm being selfish. I appologize