Freeuse Questions/Discussion

[TammyTang]

I was under the impression that Free use could include "free to use at anytime" sex, not just "free to use women at anytime" sex. Is it hard coded to be more focused on maledom/submissive females?

It's still hot, but is there a more specific term for something more "equal"? My stories usually involve constant consensual sex between...everyone. When I write, it's often hot when the girls turn off their brains, but sometimes I just roll my eyes. I usually tag Free use because it's more mainstream than "hypersexual", but in my mind - girls wouldn't just wait around for the guys!

What exactly am I into - what should I call my stories? A Hypersexual saga? Egalitarian free use? A shameless society? Taboo-free world? All of the above?

 

[AnthonyT0715]

I vote for all of the above! I hd a few free use women in my life

 

[StaciRay79]

my friends and I use the term "Free Use" to apply to both men and women equally. I don't think it has to be a strictly male dom term. If you were to say "free use female" instead, then that get's more specific. And if you're writing a story where men only are free use, I would say use something like "female dominated society" to stress the dynamics.

 

[TammyTang]

I don't necessarily want a "female dominated society", but a super casual sex society. I'd like to sit on the line between "super slutty brain broken" sex and "Ignored socially obligated" sex. There is definitely a place for both, but I think it's more spicy to have everyone WANT to have sex all the time - in-between daily life.

I had a commenter on a recent story explain Freeuse focused on men using women, and incest was sometimes permitted. I never really considered it could be so "defined"!

I've read lots of freeuse stories, and I have noticed it usually revolves around a man taking whatever he wants. But I just wanted to clarify it can be both ways, right? In my current series, the male protagonist uses many women, but he also becomes the plaything for random women as well.

While I'm at it: how would incest fit in? Some people think everybody should be "step" this and that, but I also think it's equally hot to have that real incest taboo be broken so casually.

 

[AZsurfer45]

It’s your story. Do what you want.

Free use can be both genders though porn usually shows the women as freely open because demographics.

That said, I do quite love free use with my partner. I tend to fit best with submissive women and it’s natural to progress this way. I’m open about my needs as a man and they usually understand and are happy to help whenever I need them. Kneeling to undo my pants, being bent over for a quick mount, fingering them randomly because I can, etc. They love being of service and that I come to them for it. And my ego loves that I can take sexually from them freely. The unspoken dominance appeals to us both.

 

[StaciRay79]

I agree with AZsurfer45... it's your story and you get to write it how you like

Yes... free use can go both ways. How you use it is up to you. Same with incest... if you want that in your story without the "step" relationships, you can do that too. There's an entire genre filled with those! Haha

If I understand correctly, you're writing about a society where sexual norms are different than today. Rather than "define" your society, maybe explain how views on sex have evolved? You could even insert some sort of significant event that served as a catalyst for the change too.

 

[live4thebj]

Free use. Let me give you an example. After my divorce I ended up in a relationship with this mom. Total submissive and did whatever I told her. When I wanted to fuck we fucked. When I wanted a bj she sucked. When I wanted to fuck her ass I did. I even set her up in a gangbang. I also once woke up really horny while she was sleeping I took off her panties and fucked her and she woke up during it

That is free use. Oh she also sucked my dick
when her son was playing his Xbox.

 

[TammyTang]

I agree with AZsurfer45... it's your story and you get to write it how you like

Yes... free use can go both ways. How you use it is up to you. Same with incest... if you want that in your story without the "step" relationships, you can do that too. There's an entire genre filled with those! Haha

If I understand correctly, you're writing about a society where sexual norms are different than today. Rather than "define" your society, maybe explain how views on sex have evolved? You could even insert some sort of significant event that served as a catalyst for the change too.

Thanks all! I know I have creative freedom, but I was more curious how the community felt.

Yes I have some ideas on how society devolved (or evolved?) into a casual sex paradise, but I'm not sure if it should be some sort of sci-fi source (Aliens, mind control, malfunctioning neuro-computers), or "realistic" (The slow breakdown of social norms).

I know I should post in the story forms for brainstorming, but my current thoughts are a combination of both; maybe a virus that changes hormonal receptors, makes libidos higher, then society has to adapt. Overall, it's just background flair for steamy scenes.

Also: I'm not sure how you people are finding free use partners, I'm a little jealous!

 

[dirk2024]

I don't necessarily want a "female dominated society", but a super casual sex society. I'd like to sit on the line between "super slutty brain broken" sex and "Ignored socially obligated" sex. There is definitely a place for both, but I think it's more spicy to have everyone WANT to have sex all the time - in-between daily life.

I had a commenter on a recent story explain Freeuse focused on men using women, and incest was sometimes permitted. I never really considered it could be so "defined"!

I've read lots of freeuse stories, and I have noticed it usually revolves around a man taking whatever he wants. But I just wanted to clarify it can be both ways, right? In my current series, the male protagonist uses many women, but he also becomes the plaything for random women as well.

While I'm at it: how would incest fit in? Some people think everybody should be "step" this and that, but I also think it's equally hot to have that real incest taboo be broken so casually.

You are the author of your stories, so 'free use' can be what YOU want. The guys you mention above have their biases. You can have yours too. Personally, I am more of a 'it goes both ways' kinda guy.

Regarding incest, again, its what you want to do. But, if you have incest, even step incest, it would have to be in the Taboo category. And of course, over 18 years old.

 

[dirk2024]

Thanks all! I know I have creative freedom, but I was more curious how the community felt.

Yes I have some ideas on how society devolved (or evolved?) into a casual sex paradise, but I'm not sure if it should be some sort of sci-fi source (Aliens, mind control, malfunctioning neuro-computers), or "realistic" (The slow breakdown of social norms).

I know I should post in the story forms for brainstorming, but my current thoughts are a combination of both; maybe a virus that changes hormonal receptors, makes libidos higher, then society has to adapt. Overall, it's just background flair for steamy scenes.

Also: I'm not sure how you people are finding free use partners, I'm a little jealous!

I usually check out the Story Ideas thread and there are a few other regulars there as well, tossing out idea's, some good others less so.

I've seen stories here about viruses, and am working on one myself. Those that I have seen usually become harem stories, as is my work in process (WIP). Doesn't mean you can't have a virus that somehow manifests into a free will society. Usually when I read free will stories, its a dystopian world with not much to live for and sex is a bargaining chip. So something different that that would be nice.

I think I'll check out your stories.

 

[AZsurfer45]

Finding free use partners?

I’ve had a few partners who were into it like I said. It’s not for everyone clearly. They were naturally submissive and I’m naturally dominant. I do think you have to have that dynamic in place as the free use gets enjoyment from being used just as much as I do from using. They often call it being of service though and I like explaining it that way. After that I’m just open and honest about my needs and desires. I’m not afraid to share once that comfort level is there which is the final piece. They have to feel safe with you to be able to be comfortable being exposed or used with little to no warning.

It’s great when you have that relationship. Like your story sounds like, we replace traditional norms with our own. Using her freely is just part of our relationship and how we connect and share and cum together at that point. For us, it works.

 

[Britva415]

I don't really consider "hypersexual woman (or bottom man)" to intersect with "free use."

 

[Aleisterwolfe]

I was under the impression that Free use could include "free to use at anytime" sex, not just "free to use women at anytime" sex. Is it hard coded to be more focused on maledom/submissive females?

It's still hot, but is there a more specific term for something more "equal"? My stories usually involve constant consensual sex between...everyone. When I write, it's often hot when the girls turn off their brains, but sometimes I just roll my eyes. I usually tag Free use because it's more mainstream than "hypersexual", but in my mind - girls wouldn't just wait around for the guys!

What exactly am I into - what should I call my stories? A Hypersexual saga? Egalitarian free use? A shameless society? Taboo-free world? All of the above?

I’m not sure I have an answer to what you should call your stories but I certainly look forward to reading them!

 

[lily_wall_]

free to use at anytime

This is what I thought too. Maybe usually more men take the initiative than women

 

[Kolejdayz]

I think it might be one of men's biggest fantasies. fun, fucks and hardly any effort