How do you feel about men?

[bandelero]

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My vote went for men, being one myself it swayed me more in that direction than voting myself as gloop in a pie...

Also I just think it is the mixture that creates the best state...just not entirely sure what mix would be best....

Have to agree with shy_guy regarding the head shake at what some men are capable of, then I think about some of the "scorned woman's revenge" stories I have heard, and find the old head shaking again.

I would just take the best that can be in either man or woman and lie down with that

 

[Homburg]

My man IS pie filling. I want to eat him. He is delicious. He is big and furry. SO FURRY! I love it. I pet him a lot...I also bite some times, with out thinking about it...he's none to thrilled.

I do find it funny though, when ever men think there existence is in question they mention the whole "continuation of the species thing" like that is all they are good for. I challenge all those with danggely reproductive parts to think of a more valid argument!

Generally, I'm one to rise to such a challenge. That said, there's enough bilious hate brewing in this thread for my half of the species that such an effort is pointless.

It comes back to one of the core issues I had with my former pet. She'd been abused and kicked around by damned near every male in her life. Sure, it can be argued that she was selecting these males by bringing them into her life, and thus her selection process was at fault, but it still bothered the hell out of me. It bothered me both because I know so many other women who've been similarly kicked around, and, more personally, because I have two daughters. Those daughters will likely be associating with my half of the species eventually, and doing so in a manner that will expose them to possible kicking.

I don't want to have to kill somebody for hurting one of my baby girls.

It really ticks me off, as I see it time and again. Sure, some of the anecdotes are skewed by the bitterness of the person relating them. Just like so many men decide the ex-girlfriend was psycho, an awful lot of women find their boyfriends perceived Utter Fucking Bastard Quotient rises astronomically once "ex-" is put in front of his title. So I discount some of the ranting. Other times, I see that, yep, said dude really is an UFB, Bibunny's Ben for example. Fucking coward. It bothers me to share the descriptor 'male' with that sort of person.

As a result of this, I try that much harder to be the Good Guy. And I will make damned certain that my two sons are Good Guys as well. Not doormats (though my oldest is such a sweet, affable, genuinely good kid that I'm afraid it's what he'll be to the distaff side of the species), but not monsters either. As much as I won't tolerate someone hurting my kids, I'm not going to tolerate my sons being UFB's either.

In short, and to quote one of my favourite lines, "I seek to bring a measure of Grace to the world". It may not be sufficient to prove that my half of the species has worth beyond continuation of same, but, right this cynical second, it's what I've got.

In other words, we're not all bad.

NOTE: I am still capable of being an Utter Fucking Bastard. Have done so in the past, and will do so in the future. I just seek to be more Good Guy than UFB.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I love men because they aren't women. Most of my friends during high school and college were men. Then when my husband went into the military most of my friends were men. My career (20 yrs ago at least ) was male dominated.

Then I had my children and became a stay-at-home-mom. I went to mommy and baby clubs and spent all my time around wmen. I enjoyed myself, made some incredible friends but I missed men so much it hurt.

Men (in my opinion) think differently then women. They see a situation in different ways than women. Now of course, I am speaking in purely general terms which I try not to do. But the men who I am drawn to both as friends and lovers are those that see things differently than me.

I am sure that there are women who see things differently than me also. Perhaps it is just because I enjoy talking to someone who I am also sexually attracted to that makes men more interesting to me.

I have nothing against women. I do have female friends. But I have more fun the men in my life than the women.

Plus, I just really adore sucking cock..especially big chocolate ones.

 

[FatherNature]

I love men because they aren't women. Most of my friends during high school and college were men. Then when my husband went into the military most of my friends were men. My career (20 yrs ago at least ) was male dominated.

Then I had my children and became a stay-at-home-mom. I went to mommy and baby clubs and spent all my time around wmen. I enjoyed myself, made some incredible friends but I missed men so much it hurt.

Men (in my opinion) think differently then women. They see a situation in different ways than women. Now of course, I am speaking in purely general terms which I try not to do. But the men who I am drawn to both as friends and lovers are those that see things differently than me.

I am sure that there are women who see things differently than me also. Perhaps it is just because I enjoy talking to someone who I am also sexually attracted to that makes men more interesting to me.

I have nothing against women. I do have female friends. But I have more fun the men in my life than the women.

Plus, I just really adore sucking cock..especially big chocolate ones.

I like that last line cause i'm chocolate

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Edited.

 

[HottieMama]

I love men because they aren't women. Most of my friends during high school and college were men. Then when my husband went into the military most of my friends were men. My career (20 yrs ago at least ) was male dominated.

Then I had my children and became a stay-at-home-mom. I went to mommy and baby clubs and spent all my time around wmen. I enjoyed myself, made some incredible friends but I missed men so much it hurt.

Men (in my opinion) think differently then women. They see a situation in different ways than women. Now of course, I am speaking in purely general terms which I try not to do. But the men who I am drawn to both as friends and lovers are those that see things differently than me.

I am sure that there are women who see things differently than me also. Perhaps it is just because I enjoy talking to someone who I am also sexually attracted to that makes men more interesting to me.

I have nothing against women. I do have female friends. But I have more fun the men in my life than the women.

Plus, I just really adore sucking cock..especially big chocolate ones.

ecstatic..i agree with this completely. i couldn't "hang" in the mommy and baby clubs...Too one-dimensional. My closest friends are men. They do see things differently, and i appreciate that perspective.

 

[Etoile]

It probably doesn't surprise anybody that I voted opposed. I don't love men, I'm not sexually attracted to men, and I don't "get" men. The ways their brains work are all a mystery to me. Sure, I have some male friends, but they are mostly effeminate and usually gay. This is all regarding IRL friendships though - online is very different. I have male friends online, though more women than men. But IRL, men scare me because they are totally incomprehensible to me.

Hence the whole lesbian thing...

 

[ecstaticsub]

I like that last line cause i'm chocolate

Very nice to meet you...

 

[doveofserenity]

To the Gentlemen on here, my post was not in regards to any of You. Accept my apologies if You thought it was.

Merry Christmas to everyone.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Personally, I don't have much use for them, other than to entertain me (NFL, etc., and some television shows/movies). If I were the last one left on the planet, 'twouldn't bother me a bit. (There would be plenty of old movies and stuff for entertainment, if need be.)

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

That said, there's enough bilious hate brewing in this thread for my half of the species that such an effort is pointless.

The Maurice Chevalier conversion, was it going too far ..........












: laughs :

 

[Netzach]

I am perplexed by males, but I am equally as perplexed by women. And I definitely get along better with the butchest most macho of dudes better than I do anything in a "mommy's club." I became persona non grata for the suggestion at a gathering of young indie knitting dykes that a dirty look for not shutting your screaming offspring up in public is not the antifeminist antichrist but right on, in my book.

 

[snowy ciara]

In general they scare me. But there are a few exceptions to the rule. And I've noticed that if I count my closer friends the majority are men. And when push comes to shove, women scare me as much as men, but in different ways. Men scare me physically, and women scare me emotionally. No-one knows how to lacerate a woman's better than another woman and it seems as if women are more likely to go for the jugular, revenge wise.

 

[Bi_Kitty]

Stupid. That's the first thing that pops into my head. But if I sit back and think for a minute, "couldn't live without" comes in my mind. Although, some people (who shall remind namless) think I would be happy as a lesbian, lmao. They say this because I didn't fall head-over-heels for them, and they don't really know that I love me some men

 

[BiBunny]

So I discount some of the ranting. Other times, I see that, yep, said dude really is an UFB, Bibunny's Ben for example. Fucking coward. It bothers me to share the descriptor 'male' with that sort of person.

I you!

And at least there's one person around who realizes I'm not just a cold and bitter bitch.

 

[Bi_Kitty]

Other times, I see that, yep, said dude really is an UFB, Bibunny's Ben for example. Fucking coward. It bothers me to share the descriptor 'male' with that sort of person.

I don't think I could had said it better myself. tumbs way up