How do you get a woman to notice you???

[CantSayNo]

LMAO....you're right too

~CantSayNo~

 

[BamaBelle]

I have to agree with the consensus, BE YOURSELF. Be honest and genuine. Ask her questions and remember the answers. If its chemistry, she will pick up on your intentions to know her better. If its just a way to pick HER up, she'll pick up on that too. In the words of my wise and wonderful Granny...Be true to yourself FIRST, the rest will come naturally.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

A little more about that 'natural play between man and woman'...it has to be NATURAL! Just be relaxed and confident, and things will flow along smoothly.

 

[SpankMyMonkey]

Fart really loud.....

Then say. "Did I do that?"

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No seriously, just be yourself. Don't lie, don't be fake, just be you. Women will see you for you.

Bump
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Spank

 

[Ange1icflowers]

be yourself....and (though it's hard) don't be nervous

a girl can always tell what you want generally before you do. For me..in high school and college (which weren't so long away for me) almost all of my guy friends wanted to be with me. i knew it...and flirted with them (even though i was in a long term relationship). Open your eyes for signs. Don't think it's your imagination...that leads to missed opportunities. If she flirts...flirt back. When i flirted with these guys i always moved closer to them and looked directly into their eyes. Alot of times...some sort of connection was made...and it went from there. Had i been single...they would have had more of a chance at a long term relationship. but they got some fun !!!
One thing that was really sweet was something my (now husband) boyfriend did when we were first dating. He asked me before he went further. It showed that he was interested and respected me. I REALLY appreciated that.
he was also subtle when he let me know that he liked me....he snuck me out of a pep rally through the boys locker room and then in the library...in a secluded area....pulled me onto his lap and told me that he was madly in love with me and wouldn't let me up until he knew, either way, how i felt about him. I think this worked because we had been flirting awhile and were friends long before that.

well i hope my advice (or lack thereof) helps!

good luck!
angel

 

[BamaBelle]

Re: be yourself....and (though it's hard) don't be nervous

a girl can always tell what you want generally before you do. For me..in high school and college (which weren't so long away for me) almost all of my guy friends wanted to be with me. i knew it...and flirted with them (even though i was in a long term relationship). Open your eyes for signs. Don't think it's your imagination...that leads to missed opportunities. If she flirts...flirt back. When i flirted with these guys i always moved closer to them and looked directly into their eyes. Alot of times...some sort of connection was made...and it went from there. Had i been single...they would have had more of a chance at a long term relationship. but they got some fun !!!
One thing that was really sweet was something my (now husband) boyfriend did when we were first dating. He asked me before he went further. It showed that he was interested and respected me. I REALLY appreciated that.
he was also subtle when he let me know that he liked me....he snuck me out of a pep rally through the boys locker room and then in the library...in a secluded area....pulled me onto his lap and told me that he was madly in love with me and wouldn't let me up until he knew, either way, how i felt about him. I think this worked because we had been flirting awhile and were friends long before that.

well i hope my advice (or lack thereof) helps!

good luck!
angel

That is the sweetest story. My hubby and I had sort of the same thing happen to us. He had told me that he loved me as a friend and would only go further if I showed more interest. That having me as a friend was the most important thing to him. One night after we had been at a picnic, Pumpkin went back to my house while I took my neighbor home. The song by Garth Brooks came on the radio and I realized that I HAD to tell Pumpkin how I felt. I did love him and that was all that mattered. We had some minor hurdles to get over but we worked thru them and two weeks later he proposed on his knee at midnight in his parents front yard. I fainted. He caught me and kissed me until I said yes.

 

[Ange1icflowers]

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

Need I say more??? That is soooooo sweet!


angel

 

[Guest]

As usual I have to agree with Harold. Getting noticed is a cakewalk. The serious question is what do you want to get noticed for?? If you seriously want to talk to this woman, introduce yourself in a genuine & sincere manner. Find something that you both have in common, make idle chit chat over it. Don't talk about yourself... aks about her in a non-invasive way. Be humble and yet confident, but most of all...be you.

You'll know that if she doesn't like you for who you are, then it's not gonna have any future.

Good luck.

Ditto what Engine said, and I'd like to add one more............

If you do this and it DOESN'T work, KEEP TRYING, meaning if she and the next 10 women tell you to take a hike, go to number 11, 12, and so forth and keep trying - don't get discouraged..........I've heard SO many guys just give up on dating and meeting women completely b/c they've "hit" on the wrong women and they (the guy) can't handle the rejection.

If rejected.........dust yourself off and move on to the next one.......develop a thick skin and you'll be fine - AND eventually you WILL meet that women whose eyes light up when she sees you walk into the room and head in her direction!

Good Luck!!

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