How do you overcome lust?

[James G 5]

Re: Re: Been There, Done That, but didn't Buy the Tee Shirt

Wonderful!

I would like to add that "Giving into the Lust." can be done with wife as well. Thought committed you don't have to suppress lust, just channel it. Form a physical perspective guiltless lust fulfillment is rather awesome. Virtuous and righteous Guiltlessness is better then lack of conscience Guiltlessness.

Virtuous, Righteous, God supported Pure Physical Pleasure. With the option for procreation. Body, Mind, and Soul: Lust, Desire and Spiritual fulfilled.

Argue that.

Oh, that's easy
Your God is a lie.


I'd already surmised from your other posts that your biased and hatefuly self-righteous stances were based on false religion, nice to know I was right

 

[sxylegs]

Its not easy, I have been really questioning monagamy lately.

Have you talked to your wife about another woman or a couple for you both to play with????

 

[bashfull]

Usually I just face reality when overcome by lust. My reality is that if I attempted to act, it would just end with her pointing and snickering at me.

Gotta' compliment your wife. Tis rare to find a partner in whom you can confide such desires...and even rarer to find one who will indulge and share your fantasies.

Bash

 

[BTK51]

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Oh, that's easy
Your God is a lie.


I'd already surmised from your other posts that your biased and hatefuly self-righteous stances were based on false religion, nice to know I was right

Tch, tch, tch! James, you usually put forth a more intelligent argument than attacking someone's religion. Most times I may disagree with your point of view but must admit that the logic makes me think and reevaluate my own beliefs. This was hitting below the belt though.

 

[James G 5]

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Tch, tch, tch! James, you usually put forth a more intelligent argument than attacking someone's religion. Most times I may disagree with your point of view but must admit that the logic makes me think and reevaluate my own beliefs. This was hitting below the belt though.

I didn't say God was a lie
I said HIS God was a lie
Since his concept of god seems to revolve around arrogance, self righteousness, close mindedness, and ignorance, it seemed appropriate
And he said "argue it" by making his God (or I should say his negative idea of God) the basis of his argument
At that point attacking his belief was the only logical response

I'd like to see him prove his God exists and exerts authority here

 

[Gods_Favorite]

Have you talked to your wife about another woman or a couple for you both to play with????

I asked her about it she said no.

 

[jacuzzigal]

I asked her about it she said no.

But she IS into fantasy and seems open to your being attracted to other women as long as you bring it home to her. I thinkt he suggestions to try new things to spice things up might help. Good luck!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Originally posted by Aaron Dazer


Monogamy is a higher state of being not a restriction. The only ones who challenge it are those too week to accomplish it.

I'm sorry, WHAT?

Way to stick your foot in your mouth and insult everyone on this board who is polyamorous. Like me. I'm capable of, and enjoy being in love with more than one person. I enjoy multiple partners. If my partner was a polyamorous person, I'm sure we'd have different lovers between us all the time. My partner is monogamous, and I respect his beliefs on fidelity, etc. It is only out of respect for him, and for his beliefs that I stay faithful.

I don't think there's anything wrong with loving one person (or more than one, for that matter) and sleeping with multiple people. I really don't. I think it's the more natural state of being.

However, my partner believes in loving and sleeping with one person at a time, and I love him and respect him too much to let this be an issue. I don't HAVE to fuck all kinds of people. I don't HAVE to love multiple people. It is my more natural state of being, yes, but I can control it, and do so for his sake. I love him, and he satisfies me both emotionally and physically (for the most part), so why lose the best thing in my life for mere sex?

I just.. want you to be aware of how your comment could be viewed as massively insulting.