How does a Dominant effectively handle a brat?

[Dhabidommetrix]

A close friend of mine also a pro domme over the weekend asked me the question above. But truthfully I never crossed my mind. All these years I just maintained consistency, creativity, and emotional intelligence.

Any other ideas out there are welcomed.

 

[mijayoo]

Simple just spank me !!!!!!!

 

[AnnaPurrs]

And count the spanks out loud

 

[AnnaPurrs]

And count the spanks out loud

I like the sound as much as the sting

 

[LtxGdss]

Depends on the brat! Assume there is good engagement between Domme and sub, they should talk about it more if either feel it’s not working.

 

[Devilish_red_65]

I think some Doms like brats. Mine did. He liked that I was spirited. But then it depends on the Dom and the brat.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

This will vary by brat and by relationship.

 

[MasterDarcy]

It's an impossible question to answer. it's nuanced.

Brats come in all shapes and sizes, a good Dom will instinctively know how to tame from getting to know the brat.

 

[OddLove]

You have to know them well enough to know what "taming" them looks like.

Otherwise, you might as well be on a stage performing in a play without knowing the script.

 

[J D Danger]

I have always loved the idea of a playful brat...but they can be a challenge for sure

 

[DrunkGorl]

I'd like to meet a dom who could properly handle a brat like me.....

 

[CarrieJohnson]

The one true Dom I had enjoyed me being bratty and feisty, and enjoyed punishing me even more for it.

 

[average_red]

I suspect that while the reality is that every dynamic is different, the trouble shooting chart is the same.

Do you want to encourage their current behavior? If yes, play into their goals, if no do the opposite.

Do they just want attention? If so consider a punishment that also gives them attention, and consider remembering to give them more attention before it becomes a problem.

Do they want to be punished with a story? She doesn't just want to be spanked, she wants to be spanked for a reason... Basically she just lacks whatever she needs to express her needs, give the poor girl what she needs. Consider proactively punishing her for minor infractions to move her needs to your schedule and prevent escalations.

Do they just want to roleplay a rebellion against an authority? .... I don't know. I'm a large and strong man, she probably wants to feel Daddy-bear's raw power. So gentle overwhelming force? Perhaps she wants to be re-assured of your mental superiority and a verbal smackdown is in order? She might/probably wants to feel your emotional stability and strength, so remain calm.

 

[Dearelliot]

I cant imagine being a brat with a femdom Thats like playing with a grizzly bear, You are going to pay the price...at least the femdoms I have known

 

[Boat1]

I cant imagine being a brat with a femdom Thats like playing with a grizzly bear, You are going to pay the price...at least the femdoms I have known

Spot On!
I do NOT intentionally draw the ire of my Domme Goddess Wife!

 

[Dearelliot]

Spot On!
I do NOT intentionally draw the ire of my Domme Goddess Wife!

Should I be so stupid, I would be told to hold it out for the riding crop, and BTW, I do have no choice, otherwise I might find myself tied spread eagle, on the bed, and then the play gets really rough...or at least it did years... ago... sadly not anymore.

 

[average_red]

A close friend of mine also a pro domme over the weekend asked me the question above. But truthfully I never crossed my mind. All these years I just maintained consistency, creativity, and emotional intelligence.

Any other ideas out there are welcomed.

It never really occurred to me, but looking at the previous posts I would assume that there were almost no male brats, for a variety of reasons. Given that you and your friend are pro dommes do you frequently encounter male brats?

 

[Dirtygirlndeer]

Spot On!
I do NOT intentionally draw the ire of my Domme Goddess Wife!

That is because you are my wise SSBW.