How does one become 'bubbly'?

[Calamity Jane]

Seriously. There are these people here (and in real life too) that are so - up -. They're full of es and es and s and they're nice to just about everyone.

How?

I'm not a mean person, but I don't get the niceness... the constant state of friendliness. Don't they every feel like telling people to get the fuck away from them? Don't they have a single moment of their day when they want to light a cigarette and pretend no one else exists?

My step mother is one of these people. She's so sweet, it almost makes you gag. But it never ever rings true with me. No one is that nice all the time.

*edited because I didn't even know how to make one of the flowers*

 

[wicked faerie]

someday that bubble will burst

 

[Susano]

Try drinking lots of bubbly, if it puts you in that mood, then acting like that all the time.
Or become really, genuinely interested in, trusting of, appreciative of, and encouraging to anyone. That's what "How to Win Friends and Influence People" boils down to, and I think Dale Carnegie would be described as bubbly.

 

[Dillinger]

I need a smoke.

 

[amelia]

well...speaking for myself..it makes me feel better about myself to be positive then it does to be negative...i have my times when i do want to tell everyone to fuck off..but..most of the time..i just try to treat people the way i want them to treat me...

 

[desert spike]

well...speaking for myself..it makes me feel better about myself to be positive then it does to be negative...i have my times when i do want to tell everyone to fuck off..but..most of the time..i just try to treat people the way i want them to treat me...

Have I ever told you are one of my favorite Lit women. Love your attitude.

 

[CarolineOh]

Oh, there are lots of times I want to tell some stupid motherfucker to go fucking pound sand up his or her goddamn pimply ass while I shove my fucking fist down their sonofabitchin throat until they fucking choke to death.

But, it's really not my style.

 

[amelia]

Have I ever told you are one of my favorite Lit women. Love your attitude.

awww..thank you that's very sweet of you to say!

 

[Calamity Jane]

I need a smoke.

me too

 

[Guest]

 

[freakygirl]

PCG

You just need to practice.. and you to can be bubbly. Come stay at my house for a few days.. I'll show you how to do it. I'm that way all the time. Never get pissy.. Never let anything bother me at all



's, 's and 's











ah fuck it.. *lights a cigarette*


Let's go kill something

 

[Siren]

 

[Calamity Jane]

ah fuck it.. *lights a cigarette*


Let's go kill something

I you

 

[InnocentAngel81]

i'm like that alot, but once my mom comes near me i am so grumpy

 

[Summery]

I am genuinely sweet. It comes natural to me, to want to make people laugh and smile. That doesn't mean I don't bitch, whine and complain and have bad days like anyone else. I am moody and emotional at times as well. Somehow though, sweetness prevails in the end. *I try and keep that nasty side hidden* Some people know it's there though.

 

[freakygirl]

I you

and I you too

Wanna fuck?

 

[Calamity Jane]

and I you too

Wanna fuck?

Yes. And can Siren join us with her ?

 

[SailorC272002]

Oh, there are lots of times I want to tell some stupid motherfucker to go fucking pound sand up his or her goddamn pimply ass while I shove my fucking fist down their sonofabitchin throat until they fucking choke to death.

But, it's really not my style.

Does Sam know this side of you?

 

[CarolineOh]

Does Sam know this side of you?

He has heard me discuss my ex-mother in law, so yes.

 

[Never]

pagancowgirl:
"I'm not a mean person, but I don't get the niceness... the constant state of friendliness. Don't they every feel like telling people to get the fuck away from them? Don't they have a single moment of their day when they want to light a cigarette and pretend no one else exists? "

I'm by no means 'bubbly' but I've never felt the need to tell others to get the [deleted] away from me or pretend no one else exists. It's not that difficult to be nice.

 

[freakygirl]

Yes. And can Siren join us with her ?

like you had to ask?

 

[calif_hunk_2002]

well...speaking for myself..it makes me feel better about myself to be positive then it does to be negative...i have my times when i do want to tell everyone to fuck off..but..most of the time..i just try to treat people the way i want them to treat me...

Well said ... This is how I choose to react to life / situations .... You are not alone on this one ....

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Where is that pack of smokes?

 

[celiaKitten]

It's not that difficult to be nice.

Exactly how I feel, as I've stated many times. Yes, everyone has their moments (lord knows I've had mine) where you just blow up at someone. But, mostly, I find life a lot easier to live being pleasant to others. Those who know me well know that I am by no means an optimist. I'm cynical and sarcastic, people tend to bother me when they become mean or selfish. But, I've never seemed to have any fun when I was constantly pissed off.

You're exactly right, Never, it isn't that difficult to be nice.