How does one find a long term chat partner on here

[Winchester3030]

I’m always open to try a chat partner! Hit me up and we try it if you like

 

[Michaelcat17]

Interesting

 

[Michaelcat17]

Still wondering

 

[ABiGuy84]

You have to ask The Chat Fairy if she will find you one.

 

[Michaelcat17]

And who is the chat fairy lol

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

One of the definitions of "idiot" is a person who keeps doing the same thing but expects different results.

Right now, this applies to you.

I and several others have told you multiple times to make a profile and advertise the hell out of yourself. I don't know how much more clear we could be about that.

I'm done with you. Tried to honestly help, but it seems you'd rather continue feeling sorry for yourself, hoping some woman will feel sorry enough for you that they will reach out to you in pity. Good luck with that.

Hope you don't mind me interjecting here, but that is actually a definition of "insanity," supposedly attributed to Albert Einstein, but without any evidence that he is the source.

I'm not sure what is going on here, but its a little different. He has gotten some answers to his question which reflect an effort to be helpful. He ignores those completely. That leads me to conclude that he actually has no interest in an answer to his question. I don't think he is actually even interested in finding a chat partner. If I were to guess, I think he is looking for people to tell him its not his fault that he is so lonely, so that he doesn't have to try.

 

[Newreality]

The key is determine who is likely to self-sabotage and avoid those people.

 

[Michaelcat17]

Very wise people

 

[DarkFlameDesires]

Perseverance, patience, steadfastness...

Nothing and no one comes into your life without first putting yourself out there. Just as we do when we are away from Lit, you provide exposure to who you are by your interactions with others. Sure you can fake-it-'til-you-make-it, but is that really what you want? If a connection is truly what you desire, then you'll put the effort to put yourself out there.

Based on what a couple of others have posted and a quick look at your profile, a reasonable observation would suggest you're not truly making that effort. Perhaps you're an introvert and feel more comfortable with someone engaging you first. If so, as others have suggested, build that profile so people have a glimpse of who you are. Maybe my words are empty to you, maybe they're not meshing with what you are looking for or what you're willing to do, but you asked a question and you got many good answers.

Best of luck to you.

 

[Michaelcat17]

Thank you very much very well explained

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Thank you very much very well explained

I hope I do not sound cold
but
If you think you are getting good advice
why aren't you making any effort to follow that advice?

 

[Michaelcat17]

Good point

 

[barefootgirl69]

A number of us have given you great feedback in your other posts. Be active in other forums so people can get a feel for you.

 

[KatieDoes]

I hope I do not sound cold
but
If you think you are getting good advice
why aren't you making any effort to follow that advice?

A number of us have given you great feedback in your other posts. Be active in other forums so people can get a feel for you.

One of the definitions of "idiot" is a person who keeps doing the same thing but expects different results.

Right now, this applies to you.

I and several others have told you multiple times to make a profile and advertise the hell out of yourself. I don't know how much more clear we could be about that.

I'm done with you. Tried to honestly help, but it seems you'd rather continue feeling sorry for yourself, hoping some woman will feel sorry enough for you that they will reach out to you in pity. Good luck with that.

This is what he always does

He’s asked this before and lots of people have wasted lots of time trying to help him.

I’ve come to the conclusion that he just doesn’t have a personality.

Because the advice is always some form of ‘show your personality’ and he says that it’s good advice and then shows……. This.

 

[barefootgirl69]

This is what he always does

He’s asked this before and lots of people have wasted lots of time trying to help him.

I’ve come to the conclusion that he just doesn’t have a personality.

Because the advice is always some form of ‘show your personality’ and he says that it’s good advice and then shows……. This.

But, he's been told he has a sexy voice.

 

[DarkFlameDesires]

But, he's been told he has a sexy voice.

I only speak for myself here...

It took me a long time to make the leap to actually answer anything on here let alone leave a vocaroo.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I only speak for myself here...

It took me a long time to make the leap to actually answer anything on here let alone leave a vocaroo.

Can I pm you?

 

[DarkFlameDesires]

Can I pm you?

Of course.

 

[annmsguy]

I’ve been a member for much longer, but only ever read or listened to stories for years. I’ve only stuck my foot in the water of the chat side of lit in the last few weeks. I’m not here a lot (yet), but it seems a lot of people have shared a lot of good advice here. Notthing worth having comes easy. We have to put the work into it.

I’ve seen some very longtime posters on here say they’ve struggled to find a long term chat partner. Nobody should think that will come easy. It doesn’t take long here to figure out that you get out of it what you put into it. As others have said, this fantasy world has a lot of RL in it. Good hunting, all!

 

[Michaelcat17]

Thank you for al your input

 

[Michaelcat17]

Start of a new week

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Start of a new week

Since you are so persistent, I guess I will ask.
Why don't you follow any of the suggestions that have been offered on here?

 

[Michaelcat17]

Why do we do anything

 

[Michaelcat17]

How’s everyones week

 

[Luv2bnaked4u]

How’s everyones week

With no profile completed. There is zero interest