How does one find a long term chat partner on here

[Michaelcat17]

Thanks for everyones advice let’s not forget everyone is different

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

With no profile completed. There is zero interest

Ah, but there is interest in you.
After all, who on here would not be interested in an exhibitionist woman who enjoys nude beaches and resorts and has a clearn asshole.

 

[Saltfountain]

HAVE A PROFILE! You don't, so nobody knows what they are getting with you.

After you make a profile, post so that people see you are genuine to your profile.

While this may not guarantee you'll find someone, you'll certainly be more likely to than not having a profile at all.

This, wrapped up in fine linens and inlaid with precious jewels!

And try chatting on the forums. Get yourself known. Don't lurk in the shadows expecting people to come and seek you out!

Why do people expect to find treasure but refuse to do any of the digging?

 

[Michaelcat17]

Metal detector?

 

[Saltfountain]

Troll detector...

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Troll detector...

 

[Michaelcat17]

lol very good

 

[Michaelcat17]

Still wondering

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I usually tend to be a bit literal in how I read things, but I think I've slipped on this one.
Michael asked a question. We have all interpreted it as a question as to how HE could attract chat partner. But he does not actually ask that. He asks how a generic "one" can attract someone. And he has received some answers, for which he has expressed appreciation.
Although, his last post, indicating that he is still wonder, is a bit hard to explain.

 

[Michaelcat17]

Don’t worry

 

[Kelvin8or]

Can I pm you?

This is what everyone wants. Someone to initiate.

 

[TomTeacher19]

Be careful. Don't get too invested in someone who is just using you and doesn't actually care about you just because you are a good person and want it to be a real friendship. Narcissists will let you pour everything in and then lie to make themselves feel better when you finally stop giving. Good luck. Hope you find a good one.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I usually tend to be a bit literal in how I read things, but I think I've slipped on this one.
Michael asked a question. We have all interpreted it as a question as to how HE could attract chat partner. But he does not actually ask that. He asks how a generic "one" can attract someone. And he has received some answers, for which he has expressed appreciation.
Although, his last post, indicating that he is still wonder, is a bit hard to explain.

Well, he's British. Saying it that way is pretty proper. That being said, he's had a number of threads along these lines, and gets the same advice.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Well, he's British. Saying it that way is pretty proper. That being said, he's had a number of threads along these lines, and gets the same advice.

But
Has he actually asked for advice.
I can offer this:

Most of the catsyou meet speak of true love,
Most of the time the time their sitting and cryin at home or of these days, they’ve gotta get goin,
Out of the door and down to the street all alone.

 

[barefootgirl69]

But
Has he actually asked for advice.
I can offer this:

Most of the catsyou meet speak of true love,
Most of the time the time their sitting and cryin at home or of these days, they’ve gotta get goin,
Out of the door and down to the street all alone.

Yes. It's the title of the thread.

 

[Kelvin8or]

I mean I read the thread because I was wondering the same thing. How does one get on the inside? Seems like clicks of you know each other and share jokes but feels awkward just joining in

 

[barefootgirl69]

I mean I read the thread because I was wondering the same thing. How does one get on the inside? Seems like clicks of you know each other and share jokes but feels awkward just joining in

Go to the Playground and start posting. Little things in conversation threads help us get to SEE that you exist here. I promise, people will notice and, the more you participate, the more people will talk to you, in threads or in PM. Sharing the things that interest you or your thoughts in the "thinking" thread help us see what you're about. It's like a conversation at a party. If you don't talk and open up, how are others going to know what to say to you?

Also...you don't even have you inbox open.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Yes. It's the title of the thread.

au contraire.
He asks how "one" can find a partner.
It does not necessarily follow the "he" is interested in or willing to make the effort to do so.
It could be an anthropological study.

 

[barefootgirl69]

au contraire.
He asks how "one" can find a partner.
It does not necessarily follow the "he" is interested in or willing to make the effort to do so.
It could be an anthropological study.

Apparently, you've not seen his previous threads. They're pretty much the same thing, asking how to find a long term partner - for voice, not PM. This is why many of us here sound a bit exasperated about the topic of this thread. We've repeatedly advised him how one can go about finding a partner on Lit.

 

[Michaelcat17]

Thanks

 

[JBoy1952]

This is what he always does

He’s asked this before and lots of people have wasted lots of time trying to help him.

I’ve come to the conclusion that he just doesn’t have a personality.

Because the advice is always some form of ‘show your personality’ and he says that it’s good advice and then shows……. This.

He appears to be an immature game-player; possibly under-age.

 

[Michaelcat17]

Thanks everyone

 

[Wet_panties]

I'd love to know this too