How many people have you had sex with?

[Orchidea73]

and you had to bring up cigars again



TBH those boasting of exorbitant bedpost notches ultimately must be useless lays - if they had been spectacular then someone would have claimed them - simple as that really.

Maybe one doesn't want to be claimed.

 

[twister947]

I'm unclear on what qualifies as "exorbitant "...

 

[BBCfan]

I would guess around a 100 or so women. If just blowjobs, likely more like 130 women and maybe 10 men.

I don't say that to brag...I was actually almost always looking for love and connection. Never did things as a player although I'm sure there were some insecurities I masked through pursuit of lovers.

 

[MassiveGiantBrain]

All of them

I am pretty sure that they were all people. I sure hope so. They looked like people.

 

[Orchidea73]

I am pretty sure that they were all people. I sure hope so. They looked like people.

LOL!

 

[gtnlynn]

One for me. 10 or so for my wife.

 

[Oldsoul991]

Almost 41 now. If including all sexual contact, not just intercourse, I'd say 10 with a margin of error +/- 2. I was a person that kept track, but I had a head injury a couple years ago and some things have gotten very fuzzy in my memory since then.

 

[LWulf]

...TBH those boasting of exorbitant bedpost notches ultimately must be useless lays - if they had been spectacular then someone would have claimed them - simple as that really.

Unless your name is Fraser Crane. Plenty of "acceptable" sexual encounters, but psychologically shoot yourself in the foot.

My brother was a man-whore. At one point, he was going out steady with 8 girls at the same time. He told each and every one about the others. As far as I know, he was no more "gifted" than the average (sized) man. Personality wise, his girlfriends wished he was more like me, which they liked to tell him in front of me (many times). So, it wasn't his award winning personality they liked, although I have to admit, he had a certain charm, that women would walk up to him and ask him out in a bar.

From what I know, he must have had over 60 girlfriends/lovers. He knew how to hook them and reel them in, but he never learned how to bring them home (marry).

 

[EmpressV]

From what I know, he must have had over 60 girlfriends/lovers. He knew how to hook them and reel them in, but he never learned how to bring them home (marry).

So more of a "catch and release" kind of guy?

I still miss Frasier. Great show.

 

[pfflyerhot]

Uh...

Again, not enough.

 

[goodolboy]

Why do you even care?

 

[Acktion]

I'm almost 60 (or did I pass it?), and I've slept with 11 people and remember each of their names
*knocks on wood*
...at least I think I do.

I'll counter the OP's question with one of my own:
For all of you people with hundreds of sex partners, What is your "failure to sleep with people" rate?

Either you have a failure rate in the thousands, or you must be Don Juan's and Xaviera Hollander's (quite polished with your craft).

I've had 51 unsuccessful encounters, & I remember each and every one.
(phone sex or sexting don't count either way)

This is why I said earlier "not as many as I would have liked." I had several that I tried and failed. And more than one the other way, that I turned them down.

And more than one that I regretted trying and not failing as well as a couple I regretted not riding that wave when it swelled past me.

And, yeah, a smattering that were phone or vid or text that then freaked the fuck out about anything more. Which made no sense to me as I'm not gonna do those with anyone I'm not willing to try more and see if we are compatible.

But, at the end of the day, the only ones worth mentioning are my late (great) wife of two and a half decades and my current sweet little spice. The rest crop up from time to time in half-remembered dreams. But, when awake and rational, I remember what just flat didn't work. Ergo, not much point in ordering off that menu ever again. Even if it was a happy meal while I was eating it.

On the other hand, I'm a codependent sex-addict. So, with surviving my wife, I couldn't not try to have sex again. And, yeah, I admit, I did try (both before her and after, and, I'm not proud to admit, during) with people I shouldn't have if I'd been paying more attention to the person possessed of the pussy, what they were like outside of the sexual heat.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

First post

60 yrs old , * give me a second to ponder the orginal question. How many people have I had sex with ?

I would say under 50 people , if , having sex with , is defined as penis penetration either vaginal or anal.

Non "penis penetration , under 75 total, to include the other fifty or so fuckers I mentioned above .

 

[Sweet_Lara]

None of your damn business

 

[goodolboy]

None of your damn business

Exactly

 

[Taster2]

Not enough

Not enough
14 women and 5 men

 

[emperor0379]

Not counting sexting, where I've lost track, seven women and one man. Doing the count I was surprised at how many yet sad it is so few.

 

[Rockymtnman]

Between 80-90 women Would be my best estimate.

 

[Jamie_and_Lisa]

"Four women," Jamie said, "and two men. The guys let's see, roughly 18,262.5 times each and ... Lisa how many times for us?"

"18,628.25 times so far, babe."

"That's funny, Lisa, 18,628.25 orgasms huh. I have 18,629.25."

"Oh, Jamie, remember June 12, 1978?" said Lisa, "you said 'take care of me and I will owe you one?'"

"Oh, yeah, I did. Didn't you collect?."

"I don't think so, well not yet."

"Well then, how about right now?"

 

[Wageslave]

Nowhere near enough

 

[Sweet_Lara]

Enough to make someone blush

 

[Lady2020]

Enough to know who I am, what I want, and what I'll put up with. Or negotiate for.

 

[satyr82000]

The number plateaued for a number of years but it's time to start counting again!

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Had to really think about and nearly forgot my (totally not memorable) first. 8 for full on sex and then add a couple for oral only.

 

[skippy34]

My number is 7 at 45 yo. It was only 2 until 2 years ago, I had some catching up to do!