How much porn do you need in your love?

[Svenskaflicka]

I think it's really sad when a couple are afraid to share their dirty fantasies with each other. Like, "I can't ask her to do this for me, she's think I', a pervert! I respect her too much, I better find some slut to fulfill my fantasies, so me and her can go on having a clean, sweet relationship".
Tragic.
Part of what makes it fun to be in a relationship is to play little games together, and be really naughty kids.

 

[Liar]

I think it's really sad when a couple are afraid to share their dirty fantasies with each other. Like, "I can't ask her to do this for me, she's think I', a pervert! I respect her too much, I better find some slut to fulfill my fantasies, so me and her can go on having a clean, sweet relationship".
Tragic.
Part of what makes it fun to be in a relationship is to play little games together, and be really naughty kids.

Aye. What good is a relationship of one can't even some out of whatever closet with the one one love?

#L

 

[CharleyH]

There was no answer for me- I write enough of it, and sure turns on for a second until i get all symbolic. I get well, almost enough with an online, but not half enough We will see after THIS POST, and I rarely watch unless i am in a room and yet lets talk about sex?

 

[Mysteryjj]

I think it's really sad when a couple are afraid to share their dirty fantasies with each other. Like, "I can't ask her to do this for me, she's think I', a pervert! I respect her too much, I better find some slut to fulfill my fantasies, so me and her can go on having a clean, sweet relationship".
Tragic.
Part of what makes it fun to be in a relationship is to play little games together, and be really naughty kids.

I so agree Svenskaflicka, it's the only way to a successful long lasting relationship, share you kinks, don't hide them from each other... Well not all of them

 

[SummerMorning]

I prefer erotica to pr0n... but then again...

 

[shereads]

For all the frustrations of long-distance relationships, there is at least no danger of overfamiliarity. Enjoy it, Svenska.

I was in a relationship for over a dozen years that might not have lasted six months if we had been living together - or even lived in the same county.



I know there are relationships where the romance is somehow sustained over time. I have a friend whose parents, both in their late 60s, were high-school sweethearts, never even dated other people, and still share a passion that's evident even to strangers. The first time I was a guest in their home, in a raucous crowd of their kids and grandkids, I noticed this couple's shared glances, flirtateous little smiles, the way he would reach for her hand and give it a squeeze whenever they passed each other on the way in and out of the kitchen.

Another friend told me that her mother had kept her father's interest for decades, by never allowing him to see her naked unless he removed her clothes himself.

But I can't help believing that for the most part, Dr. M is right. Familiarity and passion don't want to go together. If two people have endless opportunities to have sex, it can't be easy to sustain the mystery that invites discovery and conquest.