How old is too old? New Advice please!!

[Riles]

I tend to roll my eyes at the "age is just a number". It's cliche and doesnt give credit to the very real issue he's going through. Their respective ages may not be a problem for them, but I guarantee the differences in where they are at in life will require some deep discussions before they can move into anything with lasting potential.

...if it's just a tryst both are after, well, by all means...enjoy the ride.

 

[zyta]

I have been in this exact position-older woman much younger guy-I was really apprehensive having been married to the same man for a long time but we had the best fun and are still great friends now - so I'd say go for it and live for the day!

 

[Peppergarden921]

Age is relative

Personally, I prefer men who are older than me. They seem to be more attentive to my needs and desires. As long as he is passionate, loving, caring, and not a bragger then He is welcome in my bed. A man never tells and a girl never squeals on him.

Don't be a hard sell. Take it one step at a time.

 

[WynneWynneLife]

Why is age even an issue if all you want is an NSA "type" of relationship? If you have a connection then enjoy.

My husband was 20 years older than me and we had a fantastic sex life and a great marriage.

The only down side I have ever been aware of is the fact that if it becomes a serious relationship you both have to deal with the very real possibilty that you will outlive your lover as I did my husband.

So enjoy yourselves. Life is short.