how to aproach someone about a blowjob

[TORQED]

My wife recently told me to get someone to take care of my blowjob request.I have someone in mind but do not know how to approach her about it any advice.

 

[Super-Surprise]

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[Super-Surprise]

Have at least two or three of these in your hand when you ask...

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[imallears]

My wife recently told me to get someone to take care of my blowjob request.I have someone in mind but do not know how to approach her about it any advice.

bad wife

 

[CuteBrat]

My wife recently told me to get someone to take care of my blowjob request.I have someone in mind but do not know how to approach her about it any advice.

I have always found a hard grab of my hair, rough pressure on my shoulders and growling the words "suck it, bitch" to be remarkably effective. But, hey, that's just me.....

 

[tinawill77]

Not that I know anything about the blow job giving market but $200-300 seems like a lot for a blow job.

 

[imallears]

sometimes we women can be so mean

So you gave up? To me that means you don't want one that much ^^

I said no too... many times. Then I changed my mind.

Now the fact that she tells you to ask somebody else to take care of that worries me though.

 

[imallears]

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[Boundlife]

Questions with out answer get the best replies

 

[HeyAll]

Try watching those Czech amature porn videos that are online where the guy goes around getting blowjobs when he offers them some money.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Do you have a healthy sex life with your wife other than not getting blow jobs? I find it hard to believe that she'd give you permission to go elsewhere, regardless of the state of your sex life. This has all the ear markings of a very bad situation that is about to get worse!

I would recommend that you try to resolve your relationship issues with your wife BEFORE going outside the relationship for sexual favors of any kind. If the differences are irreconcilable, then maybe you shouldn't be married anymore.

Whatever resolution you find, I wish you luck.

 

[Eilan]

I'm not necessarily condoning what you want to do--NippleMuncher has pretty much said what I was thinking--but I am curious about what's in this for the person you want to approach. Are you going to reciprocate in any way, or is she just going to suck your cock once in a while and be done with it? I should think that the novelty of servicing you would wear off pretty quickly. Unless, of course, she's a cumguzzling fool.

Your best bet might be to find out where the "straight" men with cock fetishes hang out and let them take care of you.

 

[exhibitinlight]

I think Nipplemuncher pretty much hit the nail on the head here. Your plan raises three main points for me:

1) The fact your wife would rather you get sucked off by someone else than do it herself (even if she finds the act slightly distasteful) is...worrying. Do you perform oral sex on her ever?

2) Is getting a blowjob THAT important in the scheme of things?

3) I think seeking a woman prepared to give you a blowjob, without you offering anything back is...well, at best, selfish. And if you are intending to reciprocate...is your wife okay with that?

Not wanting to mess with your plan, just all sounds a bit dubious.

 

[Craufurd]

asking for a blowjob

There are a lot of "straight" men out here(myself included) who love to suck cock. Reciprocation is not always necessary(appreciated, but not necessary,lol). You might check out that angle. If you're around Bryan, Texas, send me a pm, I'd love to take care of your problem.

 

[nakdsub]

Sometimes I think people

post questions on here just to hear themselves type.

 

[HeyItsDani]

In the absence of a mutually beneficial sexual encounter (planned or spontaneous), or the promise of financial remuneration, just randomly approaching someone about sucking your cock is going to be fraught with the risk of...being murdered.

 

[amofiga]

Do you have a healthy sex life with your wife other than not getting blow jobs? I find it hard to believe that she'd give you permission to go elsewhere, regardless of the state of your sex life. This has all the ear markings of a very bad situation that is about to get worse!

I would recommend that you try to resolve your relationship issues with your wife BEFORE going outside the relationship for sexual favors of any kind. If the differences are irreconcilable, then maybe you shouldn't be married anymore.

Whatever resolution you find, I wish you luck.

I sort of understand nipple-muncher's comments, but actually, if your question is legit, I could indeed see where your wife may have actually said "go out and get it somewhere else". However, did she really mean it or was this on of those set ups that some women love to pull. You need to think about the scenario where she could be setting you up for a pretty nasty divorce if she learns that you took her up on her offer and she wasn't beeing true with you. Does she really want to be married to you and if so, I would think that she might be more willing to explore more mutually satisfying sexual activity.

If you do have someong that "you have in mind", how sure are you that she also has you in mind? It could be pretty awkward of this is someone who is part of yours and your wife's general circle of friends. If so, not a good idea.

How far have you gone to try to make your wife understand your wishes. Are you being an asshole about it or are you really discussing the need to expand your sexual repertoire. If you approach it as a desire to truly expand your sexual scope, and if you are just as happy to provide oral pleasure for her, than perhaps she'll be understanding. There are many books and "educational" videos that might help, including those by well known sex therapists like Dr Laura Berman and others. If that approach hits a wall, then there are chat rooms and such where you might connect with an equally frustrated woman on the other side of the fence that might want to connect with you. Trust me, there are indeed women out there that enjoy the activity you crave.

 

[Que]

Surely you have to know your wife is testing you on two fronts...

One, she is trying to hold the power in the relationship by discounting your sexual request. (This isnt to say she must acquiesce but a valid response is not, "Oh windows are not one of the services we offer")

and Two: she is not actually giving you permission to go get it elsewhere unless she is already getting something elsewhere herself.

No couple has an "exclusive except for blowjobs" relationship.

 

[Cameo_Fleur]

This has "DISASTER" written all over it.

 

[hzzrn1]

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[nakdsub]

Maybe his wife

found him getting a BJ and shot him.