How To Avoid Bashing the Berries

[AppleBiter]

Okay, so this is kind of embarrassing. But, what the hell.

My SO and I have sex on a daily basis. Lately, he's been reporting that after we have sex, his testicles are sensitive. In his words, "It's like someone flicked them." He thinks that this is stemming from a particularly rough session we had a few nights ago and that they'll take some time to heal. Apparantly, he had this problem quite a few years ago, when we were in our teens, unbeknownst to me.

Anyhow, we've been continuing with sex and it doesn't affect his performance. He says everything feels good until about 3-5 minutes after he cums . . . then the pain starts. He says it's diminishing, but it will just take a while. Anyway, I want to avoid as much contact with the testicles as possible, to diminish some of his post-coital discomfort and we talked about trying positions in which his balls wouldn't be slamming into some part of my anatomy, but we couldn't come up with any. That's where you good people come in.

I told him I'd ask my friends on the How To board if they had any good advice. So, if you do, we'd sure appreciate it. Thanks in advance!!

AppleBiter

 

[LadyJeanne]

The only ones I can think of are with you on top while he's lying down or sitting - that way you're doing the moving, and his boys can kinda be tucked out of the way, so to speak.

Maybe this link will give you some ideas:

http://www.canal96.com/extra/strange/kamasutra/

 

[silverwhisper]

i for one have had similar experiences but only when using female superior/cowgirl. does he have any idea which positions he wants to avoid? a visit to the doctor wouldn't be a bad idea, i would think.

i'm otherwise at a loss, though, AB.

ed

 

[AppleBiter]

The only ones I can think of are with you on top while he's lying down or sitting - that way you're doing the moving, and his boys can kinda be tucked out of the way, so to speak.

Maybe this link will give you some ideas:

http://www.canal96.com/extra/strange/kamasutra/

I suppose I should've mentioned (about the me-on-top thing) that, while that position works for some people, we haven't found it to be one that suits us. It seems as though there isn't enough range of motion available to us. But, some of those positions that you linked to look delicious and I'll definitely look through those with him when he gets home. Thank you so much, LJ!

 

[AppleBiter]

i for one have had similar experiences but only when using female superior/cowgirl. does he have any idea which positions he wants to avoid? a visit to the doctor wouldn't be a bad idea, i would think.

i'm otherwise at a loss, though, AB.

ed

Well, in general, he wants to avoid positions in which his balls, for lack of a better term, slap against any part of my anatomy. So, missionary and rear-entry, specifically, are out. I asked him if he thought he should go to the Dr., but since he has had this problem previously, he wasn't concerned about it. I, personally, think he should go if it doesn't clear up in a few days. But, good luck to me at getting him to actually go!

Thanks for the help, Ed!

 

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[TBKahuna123]

My SO and I have sex on a daily basis.

Now you're just bragging, and that's not nice!!!

I had a similar issue jsut a few weeks ago. I took a shot to the groin playing hockey that was so hard I felt like someone kicked me, even through my cup and all that gear. That night sex was excrutiating ad the only position that worked was reverse cowgirl with her on top facing my feet. Not that I'm complaining, mind you.

I was still sore two days later, though not as bad. I'm fine now, and I think our method of healing is probably what you need: stop having sex!!! My wife left town for 3 weeks and I've had plenty of time to heal. I was fine for about a week, but now their starting to hurt again. I think that's a different cause now though. Time for reverse therapy!

Seriously, maybe his nuts just need some time to rehab. Or switch to just having oral sex or something for a couple of days. Either way, if there's a little minor bruising it's going to hurt because the testicles are so sensitive. If he isn't better in a few days he damn well better get to the Dr. though. How can you ignore your buddies when they're crying?

 

[LadyJeanne]

I suppose I should've mentioned (about the me-on-top thing) that, while that position works for some people, we haven't found it to be one that suits us. It seems as though there isn't enough range of motion available to us. But, some of those positions that you linked to look delicious and I'll definitely look through those with him when he gets home. Thank you so much, LJ!

Glad to be of service! My SO and I are big fans of that link. We're thinking of making our own animated Kama Sutra page.

(and no, we won't be posting on a website, so I won't be giving out any links!)

 

[phoenix1224]

One question: How does he position his legs during sex?

If his legs are positioned fairly close together, his balls will wind up being squeezed further out than they would normally sit... Which will cause them to be smashed repeatedly during sex.

If this is the case, suggest to him that he spread his legs further apart during sex... That should solve the problem.

 

[AppleBiter]

One question: How does he position his legs during sex?

If his legs are positioned fairly close together, his balls will wind up being squeezed further out than they would normally sit... Which will cause them to be smashed repeatedly during sex.

If this is the case, suggest to him that he spread his legs further apart during sex... That should solve the problem.

He's not doing the splits, but he's not crunching them together, either. It isn't really a problem of his nuts being pushed out by his legs. The problem is that they're in motion . . . swinging . . . and bumping against my anatomy. Thanks for the input, though. I appreciate it.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Glad to be of service! My SO and I are big fans of that link. We're thinking of making our own animated Kama Sutra page.

(and no, we won't be posting on a website, so I won't be giving out any links!)

You big tease!

 

[LadyJeanne]

You big tease!

Tease? Stripping naked, pushing him onto the arm of the couch, and giving him a long, slinky naked lap dance til he can't stand it anymore...that's teasing.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Tease? Stripping naked, pushing him onto the arm of the couch, and giving him a long, slinky naked lap dance til he can't stand it anymore...that's teasing.

No, I meant teasing US! Telling us you were gonna make an animated Kama Sutra and not share. That's mean.

 

[LadyJeanne]

No, I meant teasing US! Telling us you were gonna make an animated Kama Sutra and not share. That's mean.

ROFL!

I suspect it will be a long project with many practice takes...it's good to have hobbies.




Make your own - that's half the fun.

 

[M's girl]

He's not doing the splits, but he's not crunching them together, either. It isn't really a problem of his nuts being pushed out by his legs. The problem is that they're in motion . . . swinging . . . and bumping against my anatomy. Thanks for the input, though. I appreciate it.

Maybe it's a stupid idea, I don't know.... but how about have him wear a boxer short during sex. A somewhat tight one. Have him take his dick out but leave the balls in. Looks kinda sexy too, IMHO. No swinging motion and the rest you should take care of by assuming the right position.

 

[Emerald Eyed]

http://www.canal96.com/extra/strange/kamasutra/

*clicks bookmark*

 

[TBKahuna123]

ROFL!

I suspect it will be a long project with many practice takes...it's good to have hobbies.




Make your own - that's half the fun.

I get the feeling I'd make a shitty director.

Cut, Cut, cut! No no, it's thrust, roll, thrust thrust, roll. Not roll roll thrust thrust roll!

Fuck, its so hard to find good talent these days. Get me a stunt cock!

 

[riftheotherone]

The sitting on top position but facing his feet is the only one I can think of where there's no chance of his balls coming ionto contact with you but if it does nothing for you whats the point....only other thing would be restricting yourself not to reach down and grab a handful ;-)

As for stripping/teasing only, if his balls ache already thats not likely to help, I find prolonged teasing like that, especially if you don't come gives me ball ache *lol*

 

[LadyJeanne]

I get the feeling I'd make a shitty director.

Cut, Cut, cut! No no, it's thrust, roll, thrust thrust, roll. Not roll roll thrust thrust roll!

Fuck, its so hard to find good talent these days. Get me a stunt cock!

Mmm, let her direct while you play cameraman??? Just a thought...