How to.. better Sex! :) Help?

[Elendariel]

What do to with your hands??

Title changed to: What do to with your hands?

So.. Making out.

I'm always at a loss with what to do with my hands. I want to be touching the guy I'm with, but .. well let's see, when kissing.. you can rub your hands randomly over/through hair, neck, ears, throat, ect.. pinch nipples.. or when he's kissing parts of you.. neck.. ear.. body, ect.. you can do some of the same.. it just always feels so.. unexciting. There must be more I can do to please him.. thoughts?

Thing is.. I feel like the guys have more to play with.. namely the chest..(not that I dont' pinch his nipples) they are usually able to reach all areas of you.. women can usually only reach the top half of them.

What do you do with your hands, where and how do you touch during making out?

I feel like a moron in this aspect.

Guys, what do you enjoy having done to you during foreplay/making out?

 

[NippleMuncher]

You need to be asking these questions of your partner, because ultimately it is what turns them on that is important.

My experience with women is that they think guys only have one erogenous zone, the penis, and I suppose for some that is true. I personally have several, and probably quite a few I don't even know about, but the women I've been with don't explore my playground. Occasionally my SO will pay attention to the one she knows about, but she's never in our relationship gone searching for them, instead concentrating her efforts on just the penis.

For what it's worth, my left nipple can be extremely sensitive, and when it's aroused properly it sends tingles straight down to my scrotum. Interestingly, another big turn on is just to have my SO taking the time to explore and enjoy my body, like I do hers, rather than the usual "get on, get off, get it over with" kind of thing that tends to happen when she's in charge.