How to dominate a man

[dramaqueen47]

So I would like to surprise my guy and be the more dominant one in sex once in a while. We do not go full out BDSM, we just like to have fun. The thing is, how do I do this? I am a foot shorter than my guy and weigh less than half of him. How do I do this without looking stupid? I'd tie him up and slap him, and all that good stuff, but I am so worried that it won't work because he's so much bigger and stronger than I am.

Any tips, comments, concerns?

 

[KarenDee]

Believe it or not, the domination will come when he wants it, and not you. If he wants you to take charge, the signals will be there, and you can just go right ahead and do your thing. Domination doesn't have to be whips, chains, and spiked torture instruments. It can be as simple as unzipping his pants when he least expects it and taking his cock into your mouth. If he reacts by putting his hand behind your head to urge you to go deeper, just firmly take it away, give him a quick "No" and continue your business. Anytime he tries to do something to show his assertiveness, do the same thing. He will get the point, trust me.

Get him onto the bed, sit on top, and control the amount of penetration and speed of thrusting. If he tries to touch your breasts, give him the "No" word again. Hold his wrists gently to the bed and slowly tease his cock, rubbing it against your vagina. Again, unless he's the world's biggest dummy, he'll quickly get the point. That's when you can start the teasing and controlling. Don't allow any penetration until you're ready. Reach behind you and scratch his balls with your nails, or insert a finger into his anus. Go at your own speed, ignore any of his "oh baby, I'm gonna cum" pleas...slow down and tell him "No."

See a trend here? Don't be afraid to use the "No" word, it works wonders when you finally realize he will do what you tell him to do. Men are good like that, since they quickly learn that there are repercussions; sex that is not as good as it could be if they'd just let you take charge!

 

[MichelleLovesTo]

This is a choice which is made by both partners. It will work if he wants it to work. If your dominating him makes his cock hard, you'll be more than able to dominate him even with a size difference. (In fact, that would make it HOTTER for a lot of guys!) If he's not interested it will simply fail. Domination will only work if there is submission on the other end.

Now if he IS interested, it's all in the attitudes -- yours and his! But you cannot want to be a lioness and act like a mouse. Let him know that you are hot enough and strong enough to take charge, and that he'll thank you later.

If I were to introduce the topic? Personally, I would start an "argument" on a minor topic, but not let it go too fare before I'd say something like, "Your drinking milk out of the carton is something I can't tolerate, and since you know it's wrong, and because I've asked you not to, I think it's time to punish you. If you choose to accept the punishment you so richly deserve, meet me in the bedroom." And then I'd give a wink and walk out. I think that if he's interested he will follow you to the bedroom, knowing you've clearly set the mood.

 

[dramaqueen47]

Again, unless he's the world's biggest dummy, he'll quickly get the point.

He is the world's biggest dummy sometimes. Great advice though. Makes me feel a lot more comfortable about the situation. Quick question, is that you in your avatar? If it is, you're gorgeous.

 

[dramaqueen47]

If I were to introduce the topic? Personally, I would start an "argument" on a minor topic, but not let it go too fare before I'd say something like, "Your drinking milk out of the carton is something I can't tolerate, and since you know it's wrong, and because I've asked you not to, I think it's time to punish you. If you choose to accept the punishment you so richly deserve, meet me in the bedroom." And then I'd give a wink and walk out. I think that if he's interested he will follow you to the bedroom, knowing you've clearly set the mood.

I like the whole argument idea. That's probably the best way to start this for me. It'll give me a good reason to start this, besides the wonderful pleasure my man will receive.

 

[KarenDee]

He is the world's biggest dummy sometimes. Great advice though. Makes me feel a lot more comfortable about the situation. Quick question, is that you in your avatar? If it is, you're gorgeous.

LOL...I'm sorry, it's not me. I wish I could do the splits like that...and I wish I were that young too! That's not a trick for a 35 year old mother of 2 teenage boys!

 

[TirelessTongue]

How can I dominate a man?

How can you dominate a man?

Easy !

Grab the remote control !!!