How To: Face Slapping During Sex

[HeyItsDani]

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[Shyguy1369]

As I have said before, your writings are always so concise and informative. This would not be something that interests me. I am a little more traditional in my sexual practices and I don't think I could slap my partner in her face. However, I think the information here in will help others who do enjoy it. Also, I do like how you laid it all out with warnings and suggestions.

 

[amofiga]

I feel much better about ass slapping/spanking or tit slapping than face slapping. Like you said, face slapping that isn't controlled enough can bloody a nose or hit an eye, etc, and nothing would kill a sex session more than real injury, unless you're really into that level of pain. I personally am not. A good red ass from spanking, or perhaps some dick whipping to the face (which usually couldn't cause too much impact) is more to my personal liking. I would thinkg that dick whipping can also provide a pretty good level of submissive message. Just my personal thoughts.

What's your opinion of of relatively save face squeezing with humiliation via insults, ie "you fucking cunt hole" or "you cocksucking asslicking slut"? If a guy wants a sub position, grabbing his dick and telling him, "That little piece of shit isn't worth my time." can be relatively mind bending. However, I suppose it's dependent on if physical contact is more important to a person than "mind games".

 

[ZeroLance]

As I have said before, your writings are always so concise and informative. This would not be something that interests me. I am a little more traditional in my sexual practices and I don't think I could slap my partner in her face. However, I think the information here in will help others who do enjoy it. Also, I do like how you laid it all out with warnings and suggestions.

Huza!!!!!! Save for I think I *may* try this now. Befor I would be worried I know from sparing that a slap can do large amounts of damage to soft tissue. But now do to the prof of sex I think I *could* perhaps give it a shot. thank you "Sweet Lady Dani".

 

[statton]

Face slapping can be sexy if its controlled. Its more psychological. Its not at all sexy if its abusive, however.

 

[jack30341]

one person's humble take on it...

I agree with the previous poster that said that abusive slapping is not appealing and should never occur.

Having said that...

There are some situations where people are into power exchanges or psychological plays/roleplaying where this can come up. It can also enhance the power exchanges or roleplaying.

The better and safer course is to build to it (a slap) with either a hand firmly gripping the face or a gentler touch (than a slap) to gauge the reaction of the person that may be slapped.

This will both inform the person in power as to the other's comfort, and it may prepare the person receiving the slap.

The problem is that sometimes if you talk this out in advance it can detract from the exchange itself. Not always, but sometimes.

just sayin'...

 

[jack30341]

something else different

Has anyone else heard about spitting? Evidently, there are some who spit on or at their partner.

 

[more_snow_plz]

Why would anyone want to slap a person's face during sex? I think that would be rather distracting.