I would like to know how would a male learn to perform a striptease. It seems there are plenty of avenues for a female to learn but not males. So how and where could a man learn?
While there are few options for males where you live, have you considered contacting one of the places for females and seeing if they have any advice for you? The woman I took lessons from taught both women and men (she learned by watching male strippers). Even if they themselves don't teach men - they might know of someone who does and could point you in that direction.
Failing that, I'd try You Tube. Enter "male stripper", "male erotic dancer", "male exotic dancer", or "male dance revue" as search terms.
It'll give you an idea of some of the dance moves typically performed during a routine. You can decide which ones you want to emulate and work from there.
FWIW - when I took lessons, the instructor made it a point to mention that we should choose music that really speaks to us, rather than something someone else might think is hot. Not many people would consider Celine Dion's music as particularly alluring - but I used "Seduces Me" to great effect on my husband.
Last - if a particular movement makes you feel uncomfortable (with the understanding it might take some practice before it feels natural to you), then abandon it. If it doesn't feel right or natural to you, that's going to come across and spoil your routine.
FWIW - when I took lessons, the instructor made it a point to mention that we should choose music that really speaks to us, rather than something someone else might think is hot. Not many people would consider Celine Dion's music as particularly alluring - but I used "Seduces Me" to great effect on my husband.