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Jada59

Jada59

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I don't mean playing with it to get it hard. I just mean playing with it and loving it just like it is.

One guy I was with used to freak out if he couldn't get an erection and then went to all kinds of ridiculous lengths to try to make himself hard. If he did manage to get hard, then I didn't really even want to have sex because of all the seemingly idiotic things he put himself through to get it that way. And if he couldn't get hard, he would berate himself and not let me touch it at all. He would just roll over and have no interaction at all.

I do love cocks. Hard or soft. But soft ones have a special appeal to me. They just feel so nice in my hand. I like to cuddle and kiss them. Treat them very lovingly and gently. And while I know that sometimes a guy can have an orgasm when he is soft, I recently read that some men find the orgasm to be even more intense when they are soft.

One BF would just let his cock go soft inside of me after we fucked and we would go to sleep like that. Sometimes I would wake up with him still inside of me. That was soooo sweet!

What do you like to do with a soft cock? Are there any other things you can do with them that I haven't thought of?
 
First, you can still suck it.
Second, with a bit of lube you can kinds stroke it, letting it slide in your hand. You can let it slide in and out of your hand by just squeezing your hand gently over it. You may run into problems trying to stroke down - then just don't. Stroke up all the way from base to the tip, release and start at base again. Or alternate between both hands, continuously stroking it up in a pulling motion, as if you are trying to take a super-long condom off. BTW this feels great on hard cock too.

You can still do palming too. Grab the limp cock in one hand so the head sticks out, lube the palm of the other hand and slide it over the head in different motions. Feels really nice.

If you don't mind some acrobatics, you can sit on top of your man cowgirl-style but with his cock not inside you, and rub it against your pussy, or play with it while it's so close to the one place it most wants to be.:cattail:

Also I should mention that a soft cock may be very small. My totally flaccid cock is like an inch in length, or even less in cold weather.
But while it does shrink quite a bit - it's very stretchy. It's elastic. You shoultn't be afraid to stretch it or bend it, as long as you feel no resistance - it doesn't feel bad for a man. Don't apply force, but don't be afraid or surprised at how flexible it is.

You could also play with balls. Some men love it, but be warned that others don't like it at all and even hate it. So you should ask before playing with balls.:cattail:

I guess the main idea is to not get discouraged, and it can be played with just fine.:cattail:
 
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There is a live theatre show called "Puppetry of the penis". Yes, really. Look it up. That might give you some ideas.
 
Same as you would any domesticated animal. petting, love, affection.
 
Nezhul said:
First, you can still suck it.
Second, with a bit of lube you can kinds stroke it, letting it slide in your hand. You can let it slide in and out of your hand by just squeezing your hand gently over it. You may run into problems trying to stroke down - then just don't. Stroke up all the way from base to the tip, release and start at base again. Or alternate between both hands, continuously stroking it up in a pulling motion, as if you are trying to take a super-long condom off. BTW this feels great on hard cock too.

You can still do palming too. Grab the limp cock in one hand so the head sticks out, lube the palm of the other hand and slide it over the head in different motions. Feels really nice.

If you don't mind some acrobatics, you can sit on top of your man cowgirl-style but with his cock not inside you, and rub it against your pussy, or play with it while it's so close to the one place it most wants to be.:cattail:

Also I should mention that a soft cock may be very small. My totally flaccid cock is like an inch in length, or even less in cold weather.
But while it does shrink quite a bit - it's very stretchy. It's elastic. You shoultn't be afraid to stretch it or bend it, as long as you feel no resistance - it doesn't feel bad for a man. Don't apply force, but don't be afraid or surprised at how flexible it is.

You could also play with balls. Some men love it, but be warned that others don't like it at all and even hate it. So you should ask before playing with balls.:cattail:

I guess the main idea is to not get discouraged, and it can be played with just fine.:cattail:
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Mmmm... Very nice! Thanks!
 
A warm and wet mouth feels wonderful, even when I'm soft. No real sucking or anything, just perhaps some tongue action. Granted, I don't usually stay soft for too long in that situation...
 
SMackenzie1 said:
A warm and wet mouth feels wonderful, even when I'm soft. No real sucking or anything, just perhaps some tongue action. Granted, I don't usually stay soft for too long in that situation...
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That sounds lovely!
 
My wife of 50 years loves playing with my soft penis. I'm in my late 70s so erections are few without assistance. Licking, edging ( oh how I love for her to do that). She can bring me to orgasm even with me less than firm. She gets a kick out the way it will vary in size as she plays with her "toy".
 
Really??

"You could also play with balls. Some men love it, but be warned that others don't like it at all and even hate it. So you should ask before playing with balls.:cattail:"

Really?? I never knew a man who was opposed:eek: thank you for the info!
 
WatcherRob said:
My wife of 50 years loves playing with my soft penis. I'm in my late 70s so erections are few without assistance. Licking, edging ( oh how I love for her to do that). She can bring me to orgasm even with me less than firm. She gets a kick out the way it will vary in size as she plays with her "toy".
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Nice.
 
Angedesoleil said:
"You could also play with balls. Some men love it, but be warned that others don't like it at all and even hate it. So you should ask before playing with balls.:cattail:"

Really?? I never knew a man who was opposed:eek: thank you for the info!
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I've come across a few. Perhaps they were fearful that I'd hurt them. Dunno.
 
I love getting the party started soft. Especially just holding it in your mouth. That said, the party ends pretty quickly, cause I'll be hard in about 3 seconds. Some gentle ball play is always a welcome addition!
 
Jada59 said:
I've come across a few. Perhaps they were fearful that I'd hurt them. Dunno.
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It's not that it hurts, and it's not a trust issue even. It's just physically uncomfortable for me if my balls are touched too much.

so yeah, there are such men. It's not about you, it's about me.
 
I enjoy being seen naked, soft or hard. It's interesting if what pleases you is the soft penis and what the consequences might be of becoming hard.
 
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