How to Prepare for Anal?

[redheadfantasy]

My step dad has told me he wants to take my ass as a belated birthday present. I won’t lie, he’s enjoyed me anally before, but I’m still nervous. The past few times he’s taken my ass, it only hurts a bit at first, but the entire time I feel so full and it’s so intense, I can’t stop whimpering and shaking from being spread open that way.

It always ends up feeling amazing and he always makes me cum, but I just feel like I don’t “know” how to have anal sex and be good at it. Does anyone have any advice on how to prepare better this time? Would a butt plug help, maybe?

 

[KyleR215]

Yes, a butt plug would help. Any prep would help.

 

[redheadfantasy]

Yes, a butt plug would help. Any prep would help.

What other prep can I do aside from a butt plug? In the past when he’s taken my ass, my step dad always uses lube and takes it slow at least until I start getting used to the first inch of his cock in me that way.

 

[StarSided]

The main thing that comes to mind would be relaxing. Which a plug might help with. Another one is remembering to stop periodically. There's no natural lube involved so you have to be more conscious of that. Preferably before it becomes an issue rather than after. Though if you've already done it, didn't run into any issues and both of you enjoyed it, I think that qualifies as "knowing" how to have anal sex.

 

[KyleR215]

Agreed, relaxing is key. Especially mentally. Lots of lube, also mentioned above, Keeping clean back there. Butt plugs, dildos and vibes can all help with prep

 

[redheadfantasy]

This is so helpful, thank you! I think just knowing how shy and nervous I am about him fucking me there makes me tense and tighten up even more, which makes it more intense, which makes me tighten up more, so it’s like a self-fulfilling cycle. I’ll try to relax and maybe think about preparing for it better beforehand this time around. I appreciate the advice! <3

 

[MissyDaddyGirl]

This is so helpful, thank you! I think just knowing how shy and nervous I am about him fucking me there makes me tense and tighten up even more, which makes it more intense, which makes me tighten up more, so it’s like a self-fulfilling cycle. I’ll try to relax and maybe think about preparing for it better beforehand this time around. I appreciate the advice! <3

I don't thinkI've ever been prepared for anal especially when he's been working my pussy over and pulls out to do me in the ass!!! OMG!!

 

[redheadfantasy]

Oh my gosh, my step dad did that the last time and I screamed a little when he started pushing his cock into my ass. I don’t think I could’ve handled it if he hadn’t been covered in my pussy juices and if I wasn’t relaxed from cumming all over his cock before.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Lots and lots and lots of lube.

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[MissyDaddyGirl]

Oh my gosh, my step dad did that the last time and I screamed a little when he started pushing his cock into my ass. I don’t think I could’ve handled it if he hadn’t been covered in my pussy juices and if I wasn’t relaxed from cumming all over his cock before.

Of course the initial entry is a little uncomfortable but wow, wow, WOW!!!

 

[leftwantingmore]

Preparation is very important and should not be pushed aside. However, for beat results, long term, it is conditioning that is so beneficial to quality anal pleasures. And should go hand in hand with preparation. Think about it this way. You are asking certain muscles in your body to do certain movements a certain way. Like any other muscles in the human body conditioning and training are needed for top (pun intended) performance and maximum pleasure for all involved. My opinion based on my experiences.

 

[leothelion97]

Oh my gosh, my step dad did that the last time and I screamed a little when he started pushing his cock into my ass. I don’t think I could’ve handled it if he hadn’t been covered in my pussy juices and if I wasn’t relaxed from cumming all over his cock before.

Hotttt

 

[Waiter519123]

Oh my gosh, my step dad did that the last time and I screamed a little when he started pushing his cock into my ass. I don’t think I could’ve handled it if he hadn’t been covered in my pussy juices and if I wasn’t relaxed from cumming all over his cock before.

I use KY jelly to get my cock slippery. It works just as well as pussy juice

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[mw_a1]

If he takes you from behind pussy first ask him to slowly ease his thumb into your ass and let him open you that way. Then when he puts it in your ass it will be lubricated and your ass hole should be a little more open. Do you cum from anal sex btw? Only had that happen once though she did gush!

 

[redheadfantasy]

If he takes you from behind pussy first ask him to slowly ease his thumb into your ass and let him open you that way. Then when he puts it in your ass it will be lubricated and your ass hole should be a little more open. Do you cum from anal sex btw? Only had that happen once though she did gush!

He’s used his fingers to loosen me up a little first before, and that seems to help a little at least. I had a hard time enjoying anal sex the first time, but now it makes me cum more than anything else. The last time we did it I think I squirted even, but I’m not sure.

 

[Pabiporffor]

There's a proverb in my country, "To get your finger up a fly's backside, you have to go slowly bit by bit."

The problem is porn has taught guys you shove your finger right up her backside right from the start, then reach for a whopping big dildo. Prep should be slow and gradual, but most of all, a pleasurable part of the whole experience, not something rushed just so he can get his dick in. The problem with dildos and buttplugs is they don't really let the guy feel how tight you still are.

I find the best method is a well lubed finger to the first knuckle with a little wiggle for about 15 seconds, pull out, relube, and repeat a few times. Then, 2nd knuckle, same technique, and finally finger deep. No need for rummaging around, it's about getting the sphincter to relax not training you to take it deep .

I use the push out method for penetration, where you push out as he slowly tries to penetrate, usually as the tip goes in you naturally quit pushing and it sort of socks him inside. If it doesn't go back to a little more fingering.