Anal play

[lowcollar]

You could have a lot of intimate fun buying dildos of all sizes and having him use them on you. Over time, you will adapt and be able to take larger and larger things in your ass without pain. At one time, I could only take a finger or so. Now, fifteen years later, I have taken dildos two and a half inches in diameter inside me. And, yes everything still works properly back there.

 

[Starlust]

Oh anal stuff is my favourite kink....love anything to do with tongues and penises and dildos going in and out of arseholes....I have two dildos myself

 

[KyleR215]

I have let my partner have anal sex with me 3 times now, and I would like to be more receptive to him. He's always very gentle and respectful and careful. I want to make it easier on us both

He suggested an anal trainer but I am completely clueless. Where do I look? Is it something you put in and leave in?

He should, with you participating, be researching this together. Go on line, find toys and “anal trainer” together.

Posters above have made several suggestions. Start with plugs, wear them, slowly and gradually build up to length and girth.

He needs to work you up, lube, fingers, stretching, working you up, stimulating you, making you forget you have something up your bum, making it about you, pleasing you, distracting you from the intrusion that is his cock….

It should be something a couple explores and enjoys. Not one sided.

 

[razor33a]

There are also instructional videos on anal play. Not dry since they usually have scenes but also go into the techincal details porn ignores.

 

[emme8]

Use lots of lube. And very viscous lube that stays. Silicone or silicone hybrid is probably safest for most toys.
I have steel plugs so I use a petroleum ointment as a lube for anal.

As liliput1 mentioned becare about the toy shape. Especially if you when you begin to lengthen the duration of play time. Removal hurts.

 

[emme8]

I have a question to ask.

I kinda like the idea of being filled with his cum. But it doesn't stay inside.

Any ideas?

 

[LasciviousLibertine]

I have a question to ask.

I kinda like the idea of being filled with his cum. But it doesn't stay inside.

Any ideas?

Gaffa tape? Sorry, I jest. I'm sure someone knows a serious answer for you.

 

[johnson2jj6]

Just put it in later in the day. Try for about 30 minutes to start, and build up. But yes, just go about your evening. You could even wear one when you go out, my wife does it occasionally, only telling me when we're out

My wife will wear a plug from time to time when we are out on the weekends as well. I’m in the habit of checking the drawer where she keeps them while she’s getting ready to see if one is missing. I like to what the evening has in store

 

[johnson2jj6]

I have a question to ask.

I kinda like the idea of being filled with his cum. But it doesn't stay inside.

Any ideas?

Get a butt plug and pop it after he cums. That way it will stay inside you.

 

[UtilityCurve]

Gaffa tape? Sorry, I jest. I'm sure someone knows a serious answer for you.

Not @emme8's solution, but no joke: Gaffer's tape is amazing stuff. I sent my daughter off to college with duct, gaffer's, masking and transparent tapes (all small quantities).

(I dithered about packaging tape. Finally decided against. She got the reputation of being better equipped with mini tools, batteries [not everything is rechargeable, though it seems we're headed there], etc., than the RA.)

 

[Samantha47]

I mean really go at it once its in.

I enjoy it for what it does to (and for) him. He worships my ass (he's a total ass man). It gives me pleasure seeing him react in such a way.

This (anal plugs) are all very new to me. Do I just leave them in and go about my day like normal?

Sounds wonderful to me

 

[sexfest2016]

You’re never going to just drive it in. As others have said purchase an anal plug and insert for a few hours prior to engaging on anal sex. You’ll be stretched out and more relaxed. Anal foreplay and lube will take care of the rest. Do you enjoy it?

This

 

[Samantha47]

Oh anal stuff is my favourite kink....love anything to do with tongues and penises and dildos going in and out of arseholes....I have two dildos myself

Sounds good to me

 

[Panopticon]

You do have to be very turned on to begin with. Very lubed as well. Take just his head at first. He can slowly massage you with only the head of his cock until you're ready to take more. When he has entered you just an inch or two, have him just lie there inside you. You will feel him pulsing, but you will have time to get used to it. Only when you are sure you want more should he give you another inch or two. SLOWLY! No thrusting yet. Just pulsing inside you. Whispering in your ear the whole time. It's possible that he may cum from your heat and because you feel so good, but he should not thrust into you until you're ready. Try this whenevr you are ready and you will get used to taking him in your ass.