How to spice it up with . . . "Slave Days"
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Carnus
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Re: Well now...
Nah,, lets see if we can revive it.
I walk in and you hear my voice. "Well darling I am yours" and I step forward and drop to my knees in front of you. I am wearing a short robe slightly open and a pair of tiny black briefs. My hands are in front of me, leather cuffs on my wrists with a loop on each. I hold them out to you and you smile as you slip a chain through them and pull me toward you. I start to catch myself and you pull harder, making me fall forward with my face against your soft thighs. You spread your legs and in a soft commanding voice tell me to please your Mistress. I begin licking and sucking your clit, sliding my tongue in you deeply before moving it back to your clit. I feel your fingers in my hair as you push my face tight against you, working hard to please you I feel you reaching back and your hand comes down on my ass leaving a stinging handprint. I feel you start to cum and you lift your legs so I can taste more of you. I am at this point as hard as a rock and without thinking I begin to move up to take you, I feel the chain on my wrists pull tight as you laugh and tell me not yet, I have a lot more to do before I get the joy of being inside. I realize with a slight luch in my chest that you are enjoying this and wonder what you have in mind now.
mmm,, trade off is fair play.
Carnus
Horndoggy said:
Nah,, lets see if we can revive it.
I walk in and you hear my voice. "Well darling I am yours" and I step forward and drop to my knees in front of you. I am wearing a short robe slightly open and a pair of tiny black briefs. My hands are in front of me, leather cuffs on my wrists with a loop on each. I hold them out to you and you smile as you slip a chain through them and pull me toward you. I start to catch myself and you pull harder, making me fall forward with my face against your soft thighs. You spread your legs and in a soft commanding voice tell me to please your Mistress. I begin licking and sucking your clit, sliding my tongue in you deeply before moving it back to your clit. I feel your fingers in my hair as you push my face tight against you, working hard to please you I feel you reaching back and your hand comes down on my ass leaving a stinging handprint. I feel you start to cum and you lift your legs so I can taste more of you. I am at this point as hard as a rock and without thinking I begin to move up to take you, I feel the chain on my wrists pull tight as you laugh and tell me not yet, I have a lot more to do before I get the joy of being inside. I realize with a slight luch in my chest that you are enjoying this and wonder what you have in mind now.
mmm,, trade off is fair play.
Carnus
PinkOrchid
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Nice save there Carnus!
I've been trying for over a year to get my wife interested in playing around with this. I've suggested mild bondage, slave games, D/S, etc... She says she is interested but when I go to start it, she says she isn't ready for that (funny, she said the same thing when I said I would love to see her wearing a strapon for me...). I've tried talking about it, suprising her with it (she enjoyed it but isn't up for it again it seems), not talking about it, just about everything I can think of. ARGH!
She has a dominant personality so thought she would want to be the top but that doesn't do it for her. I thought maybe she would want to be submissive to give up control for a time but she can't do that (give up control and feel safe). I've suggested safe words, boundaries, and everything I can think of to make her feel safe. Heck, I even cleaned up the house (including windows)!!!
Maybe it will just take some time and her suggesting it for it to work.
'Doggy
I've been trying for over a year to get my wife interested in playing around with this. I've suggested mild bondage, slave games, D/S, etc... She says she is interested but when I go to start it, she says she isn't ready for that (funny, she said the same thing when I said I would love to see her wearing a strapon for me...). I've tried talking about it, suprising her with it (she enjoyed it but isn't up for it again it seems), not talking about it, just about everything I can think of. ARGH!
She has a dominant personality so thought she would want to be the top but that doesn't do it for her. I thought maybe she would want to be submissive to give up control for a time but she can't do that (give up control and feel safe). I've suggested safe words, boundaries, and everything I can think of to make her feel safe. Heck, I even cleaned up the house (including windows)!!!
Maybe it will just take some time and her suggesting it for it to work.
'Doggy
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James said it well for me too. In fact I was trying to make a point of not being condescending. That's why I didn't want to share my ideas earlier. I stated that as a full-time submissive who is reasonably well-versed with the lifestyle, I found the elaborate details suggested to be amusing. That was where I intended to stop. Now, I intend to stop riiiiiiight...here.James G 5 said:We were kidding
It was intended as humor, and in point of fact (as I have noted both here and on the BDSM board) I got in to doing it full time thru this sort of play
I have also spoken about the trend for this sort of game among otherwise "nilla" folks, and how healthy I think it is for them to open up to this side of themselves, and that it is likely to make them more understanding of those of us who want to live it
Sheesh, I'm surprised anyone would think Etoile or I (known smart aleks that we are) would be seriously dissing anyone like this, as neither of us is the sort to take ourselves as "superior" to another
Knee jerk assumptive attacks are a little too much like the GB as well, yes?
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Don't Leave Me This Way
I would encourage you to stop stopping. I for one, would like to have you share some ideas as an experienced lifestyler who frequents the "how to" board and has given excellent advice on many different topics in the past. I assume that you weren't always a full-time submissive and also assume that there must have been some awkwardness at first.
James stated that in fact, this is how he began. Is this how most full-timers get introduced to the lifestyle? My wife and I have been experimenting with this side of our sexuality recently. It was slow to start but does get a little more fun each time. We are having a good time wih our incompetence.
We feel that we'll never (I know, never say never) go full time, but each time we push it a little more. This thread gave me an idea for to how to push it even a little more, which we both clearly want to do.
As a novice, I would like some suggestions and like this thread to continue also. Etolie & James, you can even give us "nillas" your barbs if it makes you happy.
Etoile said:
I would encourage you to stop stopping. I for one, would like to have you share some ideas as an experienced lifestyler who frequents the "how to" board and has given excellent advice on many different topics in the past. I assume that you weren't always a full-time submissive and also assume that there must have been some awkwardness at first.
James stated that in fact, this is how he began. Is this how most full-timers get introduced to the lifestyle? My wife and I have been experimenting with this side of our sexuality recently. It was slow to start but does get a little more fun each time. We are having a good time wih our incompetence.
We feel that we'll never (I know, never say never) go full time, but each time we push it a little more. This thread gave me an idea for to how to push it even a little more, which we both clearly want to do.
As a novice, I would like some suggestions and like this thread to continue also. Etolie & James, you can even give us "nillas" your barbs if it makes you happy.
Bobmi357
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Ok, first off I'm sorry if I offended anyone. It wasn't my intent.
My wife and I tried the BDSM scene a few years back and discovered that niether of us had a submissive bone in our bodies.
For a few months time we frequented all the bdsm sites, played out scenarios, but it really wasn't our "kink".
The slave for a day bit is a nice way for two straight folks to enjoy a little "play" without jumping into the whole TPE bit as a lifestyle.
I think everyone with a reasonably healthy sex life dabbles in "kink" from time to time. Personally I enjoyed the bdsm play we had, but its a hard thing to do when both of the partners are "top" personalities.
My wife and I tried the BDSM scene a few years back and discovered that niether of us had a submissive bone in our bodies.
For a few months time we frequented all the bdsm sites, played out scenarios, but it really wasn't our "kink".
The slave for a day bit is a nice way for two straight folks to enjoy a little "play" without jumping into the whole TPE bit as a lifestyle.
I think everyone with a reasonably healthy sex life dabbles in "kink" from time to time. Personally I enjoyed the bdsm play we had, but its a hard thing to do when both of the partners are "top" personalities.
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Hmmmmm... interesting idea sensual... bump bump....
